Asian men and Black women?

Question

From time to time I find myself wanting to maybe date an asian guy, but i'm neverous becuase one: alot not ALL but alot seem to prefer white women. I'm not hating but it bums me out some, so I guess my question is, DO asian men like dating black women? and if so what attracts them to us? (black women) ^_^

Answer 1

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As usual, it is the 'taboo' and 'curiosity' element that determines how interested people are getting involved in interracial connections. Sometimes, depending upon the age group, peer pressure plays a part.

Here's a hint. Forget the ethnicity or the colour of the person you are interested in. Concentrate instead on being yourself, being confident, well groomed, attractive, and becoming educated. The rest will follow.

Asian, Caucasian or whatever, ---any NORMAL male will respond to a beautiful, confident , well-groomed, intelligent woman regardless of her ethnicity.

By the way, black women that are beautiful, confident, well-groomed, and intelligent are HOT---as long as they are not loud 'in-your-face rappers.

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You answer makes me feel hopeful! thanks!!

Answer 2

umm I dont know, they probably dont. They are cool to be friends with though.

I heard their penises are small!

Answer 3

it dosent matter if your black, just be nice and maybe he will like you. but if he really does it will not matter that your black.

Answer 4

I thought Asian men and women had arranged marriage's, yes even in this day and age.

Answer 5

it should not make a difference to you or any1 in regards to some1s ethnic back ground date who ever you want if they as a person are good for you

Answer 6

Everyone's attracted to Asian people, it's inevitable. So, in that I can say you're entirely normal. I do, however, think Asian men are MORE attracted to black women. Asian men are our exoticy and I think black women are theirs'.

Answer 7

Some do. Check out this group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Mymomisbla…

Answer 8

There is a huge stigma against blacks in Asia and since its a patriarchal society, the men are are into status and its not a status in their eyes to date a black woman. A young tall blonde woman is a status symbol and they are ALL about status.

That is why, when you see someone who is of African/Asian ethnicity, its always the mother who was asian and never the father.

These women usually do not come from wealthy families and were rebellious or poor. For instance, during the Vietnam War, a lot of poor asian village women did have sexual relations with American servicemen and some were black. These women were desperate to either feed their families (and American GIs were known for their kindness and genorosity towards their Vietnamese girlfriends) or hoping for marriage and to be brought to the US for a better life.

Just to give you an idea how deep rascism against blacks goes in Japanese society, 16 years ago or so the Prime Minister of Japan at the time, made a statement that
"blacks are like prostitutes...no one wants them in their neighborhood".

This is not to say you won't find an asian man from that part of the world to date, however your chances are slim. A better bet would be to find an Italian because the men in Italy LOVE black women!

(and its all about being desired and appreciated, isn't it?)

BTW. to prove my point, the Hostess Clubs and the Strip Clubs never have black girls working in them though there is a huge demand for white western women.

Answer 9

go get one, get your game face on girl,

confidance and attitude along with the proper amount of, eyeshadow, lipgloss/stick, a good hair day, pedicure, manicure(cant look like you been workin bare foot in a gravel pit or jugglin sledge hammers) and as little tight fitting clothing as legally possible and you will have every mans attention,

no matter what race they are,

you see, as a guy one thing I know sexy is an attention getter, once you have that attention what you do with it is up to you :)

Answer 10

It really just depends on the guy. Not everone is the same.

Answer 11

Probably a good combination.

Answer 12

I hope they date black women Asian guys are hot. But I have read alot of posts here and I too am very hesitant on approaching and getting into a relationship with someone's whose families' strong beliefs may break us apart in the end. It doesn't hurt to dream though. :)