My wife want to have a three some MFF?

Question

Last night my wife ask me if I want to have a three some then she star loughing Then she told me that she wants to invite one of our friend over she told me that she wants a female no a male to join us during sex. i ask her if she doesn't mind if i have sex with her friend she told me that is going to be the three of us no only her friend and me. But she needs an answer by tonight. We have being marry for five years everthing is ok she told me that she love me but she wants to try something else please help or let me know if you are having the same situation to be onest i really like her friend. But I'm afraid that this can destroy our marriage.

Answer 1

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker

She's lucky to have you. At least you think about it before you do. There is a risk it will cause drama and if you really want to do it you have to be aware of that risk.Is your wife jealous in any way.There have to be strict rules even in these situations.Can be touchy. I've done it and I have lots of experience and sometimes I wish I would have kept my innocence.Be careful but have fun!

Asker's Rating:

Asker's Comment:

thanks for the answer

Answer 2

she wants something else? meaning another person.... i think its a very bad idea. she is not sexually satisfied with just her husband?

Answer 3

DON'T DO IT, believe me, that's a definite NO, especially when you're married....What if your wife is just testing your faithfulness to her???

Answer 4

It's poison man. Don't go near it.

Answer 5

That's a tricky one. I wouldn't do it, just because the statistics on relationships after the fact never work out. It causes to many problems and ill feelings between the couple, plus she may like the girl a little too much and leave you.

Answer 6

oh it will destroy the marriage pal...take it from me...I've seen it...yes...

Answer 7

what the hell, say no.you guyz r freeking married, and yeah that will destroy ur marriage

Answer 8

If you are uncomfortable with a 3 way - don't do it. Your wife needs to respect that.

Answer 9

To be completely 100% honest, i would have to tell you to say no. Afterall it could be a test of some sort. But then again, that's just what i would do.

Answer 10

Yes its gonna destroy the marriage, your wife should have had a 3some before getting married, not during the marriage.

Answer 11

Do not even consider it!!! You will regret it. It is all just for sex, but no doubt about it, someone will end up hurt. Emotions will get involved. It is not worth it!

Answer 12

That's so risky though. I don't think you should do it. But if your fine with it and trust your wife then it's all up to you. Relationships should be a 2 person involvment not three especially since you've been married for 5 years!. Good luck

Answer 13

i dont know id be pretty freaked out and if you liek her frined you might want to stay away from it if you dont want to mess up the marrige..how could you have sex with your friends wife anyhow???

Answer 14

don't do it, it's a trap. Your marriage will end. Address the problems yourself first. Seek a marriage counselor or sex therapist first. Don't come on to some Yahoo Answers board and ask the advice of the commoners, go ask a professional. This is your marriage for christ sake. It is supposed to be important!

Answer 15

I'm not having that problem, my man would never suggest that if I did he'd say no way. We really love each other there's no 3 sum here.

Answer 16

I don't think you should agree with your wife. Even if she wants to try new things. If your not comfortable with it and you care about the marriage then you'd think twice about it. It seems as though the problem is your wife?? You need to talk to her ASAP and find out her situation and how she feels about this whole issue. Other people said on here she could be testing you which may be true too! So be wise and make the right decision

Answer 17

dont do it.. ...just tell her u only want her..

Answer 18

do it dude. then go take an English class and a computer class so you know what the spell check button is for.

Answer 19

You will be taking a risk if you invite another into your bed. I speak from personal experience. Marriages have enough stress these days without adding more. There are no guarantees when you allow such behavior into your lives. You will get a lot of people telling you to go for it...But do so with EXTREME CAUTION. Opening my first marriage was the beginning of the end of my 19 year marriage.

Answer 20

No! I believe that sex is reserved for marriage, but yeah.
But since you are married, ( and want to stay married) IT SHOULD BE RESERVED FOR YOU AND YOUR WIFE ONLY!
Otherwise, your marriage not only can be, but WILL be destroyed. If you don't want your house to burn down, don't even play with the fire.

Answer 21

Go for it!! I wish I would get that opportunity!! MFF Wow! Your lucky to have that problem!! Tell her is this is something she really wants than you will make that sacrifice for!! LOL You lucky man!!! Do it!! Worst thing that could happen is you both will like it and it will turn into and every month thing!!


LUCKY MAN!!!!!

Answer 22

Don't do it. It's trouble for your marriage. It will never be the same between you too because if you let it happen once, you will have to let it happen ALL the time and that can break you guys up.

Answer 23

Ever occur to you her and her friend are bi curious and maybe have already talked this over, you have real concerns but there is lots of couples that do it and have a stronger marriage and most men would think Christmas and birthday has come early with the suggestion

Answer 24

The fact that your wife is even asking you to have sex with another woman in your bed is not good. She is obviously bi-sexual, because no real woman could ever do that.

Whether it's emotional or physical, a third person in a marriage will definitely end up in divorce. That is written in stone.

Answer 25

She is looking for your permission to cheat. I'd say it's time for a therapist, not a threesome.

Answer 26

Go for it. Sounds like they have recruited you. Be sensitive of course. She may just be experimenting and you should feel honored to be included for the ride along. It is an awesome experience as long as everyone agrees it is for pleasue only.
There's sex between lovers and sex for the hell of it. Play safely.

Answer 27

Would you want your wife joining another couple for sex? That would be MFF. Think about it. Say no.

Answer 28

These questions make my brain hurt. Seriously.

My one side says: "You've TOTALLY hit the jackpot here go for it, as many times as you can in one night!!! You get to live the fantasy almost all men have and only get to dream about! And I feel completely jealous, you'd have to be an idiot to turn an opportunity like this down!"

My other side says: Most marriages can't handle the threesome and marriage is a sanctity of two people, and it's not worth the risk to your marriage.

So, I'll hit submit before my brain implodes. If you do it make sure you set the ground rules with your wife for what is and isn't acceptable and not letting this get out of control emotionally for either of you. If you don't you may have more self control than I would in your place and I admire you for it.

Answer 29

The fun may last for a night but this is way too emotional and too many opportunities for big big problems... maybe even STDs

Answer 30

It will destroy your marriage!! If you do end up doing it use a condom,you do not want the friend to get pregnant!

Answer 31

Do it.