My wife and I are looking to have our first threesome?

Question

Does anyone know how we can find ladies who might be interested?Locally of course. We live in Lake county IN.

Answer 1

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There is nothing wrong with married couples who are mature and love each other, who want to have a threesome. make sure it's someone you both are not close to and won't see after. I am so tired of people who haven't been married or who are on their holy high horse that judge couples who enjoy sex. It is possible to stay together after a threesome. Just don't let it happen often and make sure you both are comfortable with the person you choose and enjoy.

Answer 2

Are you sure your wife wants a lady? I think she was wanting you and another guy?

Answer 3

Advertise it in the classifieds.

Answer 4

No sorry

Answer 5

I think this is just rediculous BUT to each is own,I would truly think about this for awhile,it may ruin what you have.I would NEVER even think about something like this EVER. When your with someone its sopose to be u and her!! Not everyone.

Answer 6

Go online and do a search for it. You'll be surprised what you find.

Answer 7

A little hard to explain here but I'm sure you will figure it out. Lori

Answer 8

Try alt.com....you can find people with all kinds of desires and chances are, you'll find alot of local ladies and gents...

Answer 9

There are a lot of websites for that purpose - adultfriendfinder.com is one, swinglifestyle.com is another.

Check the personal ads, or look for a swinger club in the area.

Answer 10

Check out craigslist.org in your area. You never know what you will find on there. You could also list what you are looking for on there.

Answer 11

well first step go to swinglifestyle.com and register. But from past experience from my husband who wanted this.......well lets say we are divorced now. just be prepared and open and on the same page...we were not. Honesty. now i trust no MAN.....just becareful.

Source(s):

swinglifestyle.com

Answer 12

First try to find somebody in your friendship and advertise only if this would not work.

Answer 13

Another person that doesn't know what marriage means.

Answer 14

I don't think this guy is looking for advice on whether or not him and his wife should "do the nasty nasty" (LOL) so people should keep their opinions to themselves and just answer the question...

Anyway...try craigslist.org.....you'll find everything and anything there! Good Luck!!

Answer 15

I would think very carefully about that before you do that. I have never done that and never will, but i have had friends to do that and they are divorced, they just couldn't get over the other one with someone else. And that's just gross, i don't want to share what i have with anyone. I am selfish that way. Marriage is for two people in LOVE and want to spend the rest of their lives together, not with the whole town.

Answer 16

does your wife know about it............lol

Answer 17

this is the fist step toward ruining your marriage.

i wonder what will be next.

Answer 18

Two married person's hunting down another human being to USE for their own selfish sexual satisfaction.

Disgusting.

Answer 19

You and your wife are headed down a dangerous path for your marriage. You are inviting another into your marriage bed. You and your wife are chasing the excitement factor. The more and more you do the more excitement is needed. Eventually, one of you is going to break the rules and venture out on their own. Also, you are inviting possible exposure to STD's. Good luck and God bless

Answer 20

Ugh!!!
Yikes!!!
Beurk!!!
So many other healthy things a married couple could do together!

Answer 21

dude if you get it-let me know how it turns out

Answer 22

This is sick. You will not only be defiling the marriage bed, your marriage will be ruined eventually.

Rather than having a threesome, you need to find other ways to bring excitement to the bedroom.

Answer 23

I'm a little ways from IN, but my husband and I are also looking for someone to have a threesome. Preferrably a woman. I'm in NC, sorry I couldn't help you out. But look online, keep an eye out in the papers or something. Good Luck on your journey.

Answer 24

are you guys sure your secure enough in you marriage to do this? I hope so cuz I hate to see a marriage go down the drain due to a sexual fantasy.. Good luck 2 you

Answer 25

Finding another woman to have a threesome with is difficult. Women, unlike men, do not advertise all over the Internet that they are interested in having sex with couples. Women seem to have the attitude that "If I meet the right couple, at the right time, and everything clicks, then I'm game for a threesome. If not than no big deal."

Every FMF threesome my wife and I have had has just happened when we weren't looking for it. They've been women we've met at night clubs that we hit it off well with as a couple, or women we've met at other social functions that we had chemistry and they kept in contact with my wife and eventually we hooked-up.

Other than looking in everyday life places, try some swingers dating sites like Adult Friend Finder, Swing Lifestyle, Swappernet, etc.

Good luck.