Unfortunately many women suffer from hemorrhoids during pregnancy and there really isn't much you can do. My husband actually gets this problem sometimes. Trey this:
# Because persistent constipation can aggravate your hemorrhoids and prevent them from improving, take preventive measures to avoid constipation.
# Take warm sitz baths, especially when the hemorrhoids are uncomfortable. Sit in a tub or pan of plain warm water, 3 or 4 times a day, for 15-20 minutes each time. (Large pharmacies and medical supply stores also sell convenient plastic sitz bath devices that fit into a toilet). The water will keep the area clean, and the warmth will reduce inflammation and discomfort. Be certain to dry the rectal area thoroughly after each sitz bath. If you work, you can still take a sitz bath in the morning, upon returning from work, and again at bedtime.
# Apply a cold compress or icepack to the anal area, or try a cool cotton pad soaked in witch hazel.
# Apply petroleum jelly or aloe vera gel to the anal area, or use an over-the-counter hemorrhoid preparation containing lidocaine or hydrocortisone.
# After every bowel movement, clean the anal area with a witch hazel pad, a soothing baby wipe or a cotton cloth soaked in warm water. Be thorough but gentle. Aggressive rubbing and scrubbing, especially with soaps or other skin cleansers, can irritate the skin and make your hemorrhoids worse
Here is some info on how to avoid hemorrhoids:
* Add more fiber to your diet — Set a goal of 25 to 30 grams of fiber daily, from such high fiber foods as beans, broccoli, carrots, bran, whole grains and fresh fruits. To avoid bloating and gas, add these foods gradually over a period of several days.
* Drink adequate amounts of fluid — For most healthy adults, this is the equivalent of 6 to 8 glasses of water daily.
* Begin a program of regular exercise — As little as 20 minutes of brisk walking daily can stimulate your bowel to move regularly.
* Train your digestive tract to have regular bowel movements — Schedule a time to sit on the toilet at approximately the same time each day. The best time to do this is usually right after a meal. Do not sit on the toilet for long periods (it tends to make hemorrhoids push out and swell up).
* Respond immediately to the urge to have a bowel movement — Do not postpone until the time is more convenient.
I really hope this helps. From what my husband says it sounds really painful. My husband's a big guy (6' 3", 220lbs) and he's been almost reduced to tears. It's gotten better since we changed his diet.