Dad and brother caught me masturbating?

Question

i'm 13 brother is 19 dad is 44
today was the day my brother was suppose to be coming home from college in another state and my dad was suppose to pick him up at the airport which is like 2 miles away anyways i had music on and i didn't hear them come in i was soo embrassed they just smiled at each other and walked out i know i should have locked the door but i didn't expect them home till later my mom is at work and she is getting off later tonight they keep giving me dirty looks after it happened what should i do ???

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i'm so freaked out now i'm afraid they might tell my mom when she gets home !!

i'm so freaked out now i'm afraid they might tell my mom when she gets home !!

Answer 1

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I am 56, I am a mother, and believe me, even if they do tell her, it's not something she doesn't already know about. I know it's embarrassing, and I don't blame you for feeling embarrassed, but the best thing to do is just ignore it. I guarantee you your brother AND DAD have both experienced it, and if they deny that, they're fibbing to you!

If your mom does mention to you, just tell her that you are very embarrassed and that you'll be more careful about your private time in the future. AND THEN DROP IT.

Please know that everyone does this and no matter how much they deny it, they do! I think there's a quote about it, something like "There are people who admit that they masturbate, and then there are people who lie and say they don't."

Your mother loves you and this will not change her feelings for you! Believe me. Please try not to worry about it!

Mom, retired teacher, etc.
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Answer 2

Remember the smile between them when they caught you.
Well I'd say they are probably playing with you by giving you dirty looks.

Everyone has done it, your entire family including mom, dad, gramma and grampa, your teachers and the president of your country, the police and the judges.

It's no biggy because they all knew you were doing it anyway.
And yeah I would think it was funny if I caught you too.
He he
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Proof all people do it...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFunFrk9y…
A couple of vids to cheer you up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXfDIBALt…

http://www.veoh.com/videos/v749951BAF3Cp…

Answer 3

you know why they smiled at each other? b/c it is normal! i am sure they will not give you a hard time about it, much less tell your mom, it will probably stay between you guys, don't sweat it, i can imagine this happening to lots of kids, just type in "caught masturbating" here and see what pops up (not that i will look for that, lol ), and next time, lock the door!

Answer 4

Don't worry about it but defend yourself if anyone mentions it because it is a part of everyone's life. Them walking in your room without knocking was inexcusable.............they should be the ones feeling embarrassed, not you.........your mom will surely understand that it is one of "life's embarrassing moments" but she did it too when she was young and don't bother your pretty little head about it........life happens..............

Answer 5

Masturbation is perfectly normal If you parents give you a hard time about it ask them if they would rather you masturbate or have sex? As far as your dad and brother go overlook it, every guy has done it. Keep on masturbating its safer that way.

p.s wash your hands and maybe you won't get the dirty looks.

Answer 6

So what!
It's not like they caught you with a girl.
What could they possibly say to you? Don't bust that nut? Keep it in??
Your dad and your brother masterbates so....
Hopefully they won't try to embarrass you like that.
Because everyone has masterbated at some point. But most are better at not getting caught.

Answer 7

EVERY Guy masterbates especially at your age. I'm sure they won't tell your mom. It's something your mom doesn't even want to know about anyway. Your Dad and your brother understand so just ignore it. Or better yet make a joke out of it - if you make fun of yourself then they can't tease you.

Answer 8

Don't worry, it's totally normal!!! ALL guys (and girls too, actually) masturbate, especially teenagers! Don't feel bad.

If you have any concerns with them telling your mom, ask them not to... since they are both guys, they definitely did it too! Don't be embarrassed!

Answer 9

Well what you did is normal human behaviour! Also dont get embarassed bc they will tease you more, I would jokingly ask them how to improve your skill!! See who turns red then, all guys do it yet they really never discuss it at least the details.

Answer 10

calm down. theyve done it too. can i tell you something? they still do it. they do it every day. more than once. they may tell mom, i'm not gonna lie but she wont confront you. at least i would never confront my son. just dont stress. im sure theyre not even thinking of it.

Answer 11

Don't be embarrassed!!! Both your dad and brother know how you feel, they're both men and have both been (and probably still are) there!
Just play it off and tell them (jokingly) not to tell mom that they caught you doing "your homework"! They'll understand!

Answer 12

Dude the best thing to do is not worry about it!!

All men masterbate as did you dad and brother, they won't tell your mum about it but you may get a bit of banter from them both for a while..

Answer 13

What you did was completely normal. Even if your dad would tell your mom about what happened, she would still think it's normal.
Don't worry about it, and pretend like nothing happened.
Everybody masturbates.

Answer 14

Why would they tell your mom something like that?
They were both young once and know what it's all about.
Don't worry, it will all blow over in a couple of days.

Answer 15

Yeah, like they never did it (or still do it!!) Don't worry about it. Asked them for pointers because you heard that they have had lots of practice and honed their skills.

Answer 16

jeeze that sucks a double catch

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Answer 17

hahahha chill out, it's a natural thing. if your parents punish you for it, well that's creep.y keep jerkin' it. peace out.

Answer 18

Them being men, they know not to tell your mom. They shouldn't be giving you dirty looks, because they do it too. Every man jerks his stuff. Just chill.

Answer 19

Don't worry, they wont tell your mom, just act as though nothing happened, they will keep your secret.

Answer 20

they've probably been there and done that , so its probably not a big deal to them. And im prettty sure they wouldnt embaress u in front of ur mom like that. they just thought it was funny!

Answer 21

they're guys too.. and i'm SO SURE they do the same thing! so just be like 'whatever everyone does it, you idiots just happen to walk in on me so stop acting all surprised'

Answer 22

It's normal. They probably did it, too. They know you were going to start sometime. Don't worry, they won't kill you.

Answer 23

Tell your mom???

Just wait till all the kids at school read this posting, that's what you should be freaking out about.

Answer 24

act like nothing happened, and it will eventually go away.

Answer 25

Dont you worry, guys keep that stuff to themselves, dont forget they were 13 at one time too.

Answer 26

just ignore it all guys masturbate they probably just were grossed out to see you jacking off lol

Answer 27

Dude, just walk out there and looka t both of them, and say, "what?...like you guys don't ever do it!

Answer 28

just tell them not to tell

Answer 29

DON,T WORRY ABOUT IT I EXPECT THEY DID AND STILL DO IT

Answer 30

they're guys, I'm pretty sure they understand

be glad your mom didnt see you

Answer 31

lol sorri i shudnt laff it ok ma m8 walked in on her m8 doin tht it was hilarious they wnt tel her