i'm 13 brother is 19 dad is 44
today was the day my brother was suppose to be coming home from college in another state and my dad was suppose to pick him up at the airport which is like 2 miles away anyways i had music on and i didn't hear them come in i was soo embrassed they just smiled at each other and walked out i know i should have locked the door but i didn't expect them home till later my mom is at work and she is getting off later tonight they keep giving me dirty looks after it happened what should i do ???
I am 56, I am a mother, and believe me, even if they do tell her, it's not something she doesn't already know about. I know it's embarrassing, and I don't blame you for feeling embarrassed, but the best thing to do is just ignore it. I guarantee you your brother AND DAD have both experienced it, and if they deny that, they're fibbing to you!
If your mom does mention to you, just tell her that you are very embarrassed and that you'll be more careful about your private time in the future. AND THEN DROP IT.
Please know that everyone does this and no matter how much they deny it, they do! I think there's a quote about it, something like "There are people who admit that they masturbate, and then there are people who lie and say they don't."
Your mother loves you and this will not change her feelings for you! Believe me. Please try not to worry about it!
you know why they smiled at each other? b/c it is normal! i am sure they will not give you a hard time about it, much less tell your mom, it will probably stay between you guys, don't sweat it, i can imagine this happening to lots of kids, just type in "caught masturbating" here and see what pops up (not that i will look for that, lol ), and next time, lock the door!
Don't worry about it but defend yourself if anyone mentions it because it is a part of everyone's life. Them walking in your room without knocking was inexcusable.............they should be the ones feeling embarrassed, not you.........your mom will surely understand that it is one of "life's embarrassing moments" but she did it too when she was young and don't bother your pretty little head about it........life happens..............
Masturbation is perfectly normal If you parents give you a hard time about it ask them if they would rather you masturbate or have sex? As far as your dad and brother go overlook it, every guy has done it. Keep on masturbating its safer that way.
p.s wash your hands and maybe you won't get the dirty looks.
It's not like they caught you with a girl.
What could they possibly say to you? Don't bust that nut? Keep it in??
Your dad and your brother masterbates so....
Hopefully they won't try to embarrass you like that.
Because everyone has masterbated at some point. But most are better at not getting caught.
EVERY Guy masterbates especially at your age. I'm sure they won't tell your mom. It's something your mom doesn't even want to know about anyway. Your Dad and your brother understand so just ignore it. Or better yet make a joke out of it - if you make fun of yourself then they can't tease you.
Well what you did is normal human behaviour! Also dont get embarassed bc they will tease you more, I would jokingly ask them how to improve your skill!! See who turns red then, all guys do it yet they really never discuss it at least the details.
calm down. theyve done it too. can i tell you something? they still do it. they do it every day. more than once. they may tell mom, i'm not gonna lie but she wont confront you. at least i would never confront my son. just dont stress. im sure theyre not even thinking of it.
Don't be embarrassed!!! Both your dad and brother know how you feel, they're both men and have both been (and probably still are) there!
Just play it off and tell them (jokingly) not to tell mom that they caught you doing "your homework"! They'll understand!
What you did was completely normal. Even if your dad would tell your mom about what happened, she would still think it's normal.
Don't worry about it, and pretend like nothing happened.