How do I get my Boyfriend back after slapping him in the face?

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So here's the story.....

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year and 8 months. But on halloween night he decided not to return any of my calls or texts. I know that his phone has problems with receiving calls but it does not have a problem getting texts. I text him about 20 times and finally get a text out of him saying that "he is picking up his friends little brother from a party." Well his friend's little brother is 6 years old and its about 1AM in the morning and I do not know anybody who would let their child stay out that late. Long story short though, he came home and I was waiting by his car. When I had looked into his friends car the little boy was not in there. I thought he lied to me and as soon as he came toward me I slapped him. After that he punched out my passenger window to my car.

Now, he doesnt know if he wants to be with me and asked for a break to see if he really wants me still.

What can I do to make him come back to me?
I still love him and want to be with him. Any advice would be greatly appreciated ^_^

Answer 1

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By any chance, is his phone carrier T-Mobile? If it is, their service was down for a bit and is just getting restored as we speak.

I think you came off like a crazy psycho. No offense. You don't physically assault someone because you THINK they're lying to you. You deserve the broken window. You deserve to be dumped. You have no right putting your hands on anybody.

If he doesn't want you back, then accept the reality that you can't just go around treating people like that, learn from it, and move on. Don't go begging for him back either. He'll be pushed away even further. Leave him alone and let him come to you.

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No the carrier is Verizon, your right i should not have hit him becuz i thought he was lying..i was just tired of him not letting me know where he was. this isnt the first time that i have suspected him of something. i do not text him unless he texts me which he has for 2 nights now saying goodnight

Answer 2

tell him he is aloud to slap you in the face once....the willingness for you to do that will let him know your dedication to him and he will say no and forgive you

Answer 3

lol how can you want to be with someone who punched out your car window, for any reason. get a grip girl and move on, this dude has anger issues

Answer 4

He punched out your car window that shows a sign that he has anger issues. u on the other hand should not have jumped to conclusions. u shouldnt have slapped him. I think that u should apologize because he didnt really do anything that gave u good enuff reason to put ur hands on him.

Answer 5

You didn't say whether he lied to you or not.

This relationship is getting abusive and you guys def. need a break. How do you know this will be the last time this happens?

If you are still so desperate then you need to apologize for your reaction.

(If he didn't lie)
Leave him alone for now... SERIOUSLY don't text, dont call. wait until he is ready. Then apologize in person.

(If he did)
I have nothing for this as I will not condone being a doormat

Answer 6

You were a douche to him, he's not likely to return.

He's was probally very loyal to you, then u treated him like crap.

If you want him back, first think, do you actually love him? then if so... think about it some more.
Then, give him some time, say ur sorry. and poof do what ever u normally do...

PS, u dont slap a man like that... for something so small...
*i doubt ull get him back after that*

ps, Jill Pawze has an amazing answer

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