My friend likes her ex bf even though she broke up with him!?

Question

she really wants to get back together with him but shes not sure if he likes her. and she doesn't want to make the first move! she broke up with him first so she doesn't know how he still feels about her. what should she do? she feels heart broken and is scared but really wants to get back together with him. should she forget him or risk it?

Additional Details

she broke up with him a long time ago.

Answer 1

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Hi Bubble,
Your friend broke up with her bf. Have she forgotten why? It is probably bothering her that she broke up with him and he is not trying to talk to her to get back. Boys don't feel the same about relationships like we do. We get all mushy and in love. They just get what they can and if they break up with us or the other way around they are gone and before you know it they have a new girl. It's over so she should live with her decision. It's probably best that she does even though she is hurt. The pain won't last always.

Answer 2

She should definitely risk it. She's the one who broke up with him, which makes it difficult on him, but also very possible that he still has feelings for her and is simply trying to cover them up since they were turned down. If she can't go a day without thinking about him, if she feels that strongly about him even now after she broke up with him, it's definitely worth the risk. The worst thing that could happen is he'll say no and they will remain apart. So really, there's nowhere to go but up for her, especially if it's this difficult for her being apart from him.

GO FOR IT!! And tell her best of luck :)

Answer 3

EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES MISTAKES! PEOPLE DONTB GET OVER PEOPLE EASILY

Answer 4

She should say I realized breaking up with you was a mistake, I'm sorry and I hope you forgive me. Give him some space then make contact but just very casual and slow.

Answer 5

ask her why she broke up with him in the first place and see if that reason still exists.Good Luck

Answer 6

I know you've heard this before but ex's are ex's for a reason. Move on. She'll be better off in the end.