Louise!!
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- 09 September 2009
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Teen mother help me please?
I found out today I'm pregnant. I went to my doctor this afternoon, and he said I was 9 weeks.I just have no idea what to do I'm having a breakdown, because it's all so stupid.
The guy who's the dad is a player who I barely knew at the time, it was such a stupid mistake. It was at band camp ( I know that sounds so cliché) but last holidays I went to a bands camp for musicians and color guard and he seemed to be into me and it was such a stupid mistake, but to make matters worse i have a boyfriend now, Im like inlove with my boyfriend hes everything ive ever wanted and more hes helped me through alot of things because we have been friends for years hes helped me through depression and hes currently helping me get over my anorexia and i have no idea how to tell him that im pregnant with another boys baby.
Im 15 years old and i have to tell my parents to they will kick me out of home or kill me. I cant tell them i was considering an abortion but i just cant do that, are there anyways to get rid of a pregnancy without an abortion? Or some way i can keep my boyfriend and parents from knowing, im not a moron i obviously know that its going to start showing soon but i can hide it i think.
Please can somebody help me in some ways i cant be a teen mother but i don’t want to abort this baby, how can i tell my parents, how can i make my boyfriend understand and not hate me please im begging you please help me
by AmyV
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Best Answer - Chosen by Voters
You need to tell your parents. Most people think that their parents will kill them but actually they love you and will want to support you, whatever option you chose.
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by Alyssa's mommy
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Just give the baby up for adoption. You will need to tell your parents, but they can help you. Being pregnant isn't that hard. You have 7 more months, and then its over. You sign the adoption papers and go on with life.
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by <333
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- 17 February 2009
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Your parents can't kick you out. Nor can they kill you!
Just go along with the pregnancy, maybe look into an open adoption.
Also go to your library and look for some books on teen pregnancy im sure they have some. Hope this helps.
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by nikkismi...
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- 25 January 2009
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It sounds alot like Secret Life Of am American teenager. But you should go to the library and check out some books about teen pregnancy or call planned parenthood.
I pray you are ok
God Bless
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by May
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- 18 October 2009
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Just tell your mom or dad just no adoption and NO abortion. You can do it!
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Here are your options:
Keeping the baby: Because you're only 15, I think it would be too stressful to keep the baby.
Abortion: Please don't have an abortion. It is likely that you will regret it youre whole life. And how will your guy friend feel about this?
Adoption: There are millions of wonderfull parents who arn't able to have a baby who have been waiting for years for a child.
You really have to tell your parents.
And im sure your friend will stay by your side the whole way.
PLease consider Adoption, and good luck<3