Which Guy Should I Choose???

Question

Asher- I met him about a month ago and I used to text him like every other day and we would talk for hours. Recently he hasnt texted me back and so I just figured he must not like me and was trying to reject me without being mean. But today I was talking to his mom who is friends with my mom and she said to me that he really likes me and just doesn't know what to do and doesn't want to mess things up or say something stupid. I don't see him at school and before we talked after school like two times for thirty minutes and every time he would smile and blush a lot.

Seth- I have known him since 6th grade and he has a gf but he says that he doesn't like her and was just dating her so that he wouldn't be single and that he likes me but he is gonna wait for her to break up with him because he doesn't want her to hate or attack me if he breaks up with her and then goes out with me. Every time I see him after school he always wants me to give him a hug.

What do you think I should do? Should I give up on both or one of them? Please help because I have no idea wat to do!

Answer 1

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Obviously, you should go for Asher. Don't wait for anybody who is in a relationship. I was once in the same situation, and it was such a waste of time. Asher is the much better choice. In fact, he is the ONLY choice.

Answer 2

Asher, definitely.

I wouldn't trust Seth if I were you. He got a girlfriend just because he doesn't want to be alone, and I think that's really mean to the girlfriend. He sounds like he's messing both of you around, because if he really likes you, he wouldn't care about his previous girlfriend.

Answer 3

Asher, he sounds like what I was liek when I was young. He'll treat you better than Seth, who is a guy that doesn't have the fortitude to tell a girl he wants out of the relationship and is playing her. He would most likely use you.

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many years experience watching the games.

Answer 4

Certainly not Seth! Smell problem lol. Asher is a nice innocent guy. If he can share with his mum about you than he is a guy that give respect to women. Maybe he want it to be special and not screw it. Give him some times or make yourself more approachable. Good luck.

Answer 5

Choose Asher i think he seems like a guy who won't break your heart because if he blushes around you then that means he's kind of insecure around you. i don't know why but some guys feel that way. i did until my 6th grade year.

Answer 6

i would pick asher. that seth guy obviously doesnt like you enough to break up with a girl he doesnt even like. talk to asher! if he doesnt talk to you, then move on girl!!

Answer 7

Asher. Seth seems like a complete douchebag because he's dating a girl he doesn't even like to "not be single". Don't go out with a guy like that.

Answer 8

hey girl. don't try to get them both at the same. there's no good in doing this. I think while seth is someone else's bf, go for asher. I think he really likes you but he's not that confident, so don't rush on him, maybe you two need to go out and talk about it more seriously )
I think that seth is into his gf, one good friend of mine had the same situation and in the end this guy dumped her and reunited with his ex.
so think about asher, I think he might be good, and hey - his mother likes you - that's a huge plus!