I have a beautiful baby who's 4 weeks old. My boyfriend and I have moved in and have been living together since we have found out that I was pregnant.
Before I was pregnant the LORD was extremely revealing in my life and did awesome things in my life. I want to go back to obeying God and no sex, sin, etc. until we are married.
My boyfriend wants to buy a house with me and our son. He wants to think long term in regards to the family. He is atheist, but he has come a long way in regards to how he views family, babies, etc. He used to be very pro-abortion and no marriage, kids, etc. So when I got pregnant, things changed quickly and he fell in love with his son, and has been a great boyfriend to me. The only thing missing is marriage part.
I told him on several occasions that I dont want to have sex until I'm married now, and I dont want to buy a house with him until I'm married. Now he's upset because in 2 months when lease is up, I would like us to live seperately. I told him we dont need an extravagant KIM K wedding. Just something small and nice. And I told him I want to do this because of God and my new son and him. I want us to be blessed. And not live in Sin. He said to me "then I guess we will not get a house anytime soon".
so I dont know what to do. I feel bad because I'm breaking up a home. Should I just settle and live in sin, and then when the time is right get married? please christian folks only please. Advise.