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    Gf doesn’t give much attention? Help?

    I spend two days away from her while I work nights and stay at my dads, 

    She sends short texts but complains if I don’t reply decent or ignore her for longer than 30 mins or so.

    She randomly puts less emojis at times, If I give texting a break say 30 mins so I’m not over crowding her she will say what was I doing I say making food or whatever, then she goes funny 

    I want her to want me more, give more attention say a compliment ( rarely does) she doesn’t text very interesting stuff it’s me doing the flow all time, wondering what to do, she never says I miss you or gives me short messages all time like below

    Singles & Dating8 months ago
  • Girlfriend thinks I sugar coat everything and wants to leave me? And now angry giving me one word answers but complaint I’m ignoring her?

    What do I do, she is moody and she is always the dominate one she won’t change she likes to be incontrol, always right and I’m always in the wrong I apprsntly sugar coat and tell white lies l, I’ve said i understand that and I’ll be hard headed and say it how it is and said stop speaking to me like dirt when your angry with me.

    She’s in a mood with me and said she doesn’t know if she wants the relationship or not so the time apart will do is good as I’m working next two days anyway. So I got one word answers today after arguing about me. I then stopped replying to her one words like ok. Or don’t know. I said tell me when you have decide what you want to do and we will take it from there, she said I don’t know what to do ( so I said have a think and when you know then tell me) she said I will never know as my heads all over the place.. 

    So I stopped messaging then she said why you ignoring me, asked me to turn my location on and asked if I’m speaking to other girls yet ( I proved it by showing her I wasn’t)  I don’t understand why she’s asking when she is nearly ending it, she said she’s cancelled our new year plan to go out so I said I’m off anyway so I’ll have go out with my mate or somthing then she said ( what do you mean by that!!!) sounds like she got jelous

    So I’m confussed hell would be appreciated on what to do? 

    If I ask what she wants ( answer is I don’t know)

    If I make convo( one word answers)

    If I don’t reply she complains

    I can’t win

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating11 months ago
  • Girlfriend doing this what do I do! Feels like I’m treated badly?

    Been together 4 months, she has a little boy and so do I, i do everything for him like the morning bottles, change him, feed him the bottles, get him ready for bed and play with him, so this is just the start, she expects it now she’s used to it I feel and nudges me when he needs a feed and says do the bottles or clean them or change him. Gets annoying sometimes as she is lazy with it now and I do it all Secondly, she’s 19 I’m 22, I tickle her back for hours every day, I compliment her, write her paragraphs sometimes, cuddle her to sleep, I am so loving towards her, she doesn’t really show her affection only when it suits her or she wants some attention, If we argue or fall out she doesn’t text me until I do then we sort it maybe a day later after a lot of arguing because she is always right. She speaks to me like dirt on texts when we fall out. I feel like I’m under the phumb, if we fall out she doesn’t make any effort to sort it, like she expects me to run back now I’m getting fed up, I love her so much but I feel like she doesn’t care. She gets moody a lot say if I say something but she doesn’t like it she goes in a mood for ages, she has a lot of hormonal moody swings, she says she’s got mental health which I’ve took into consideration but I feel like she’s taking the pure advantage out of me, expects everything but doesn’t return much. I do all the cuddling, cute texts, changing photos on Facebook to me and her (she hasn’t) it’s like she doesn’t care if we break up

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating11 months ago
  • Girlfriend treating me badly? Should I do?

    Been together 4 months, she has a little boy and so do I, i do everything for him like the morning bottles, change him, feed him the bottles, get him ready for bed and play with him, so this is just the start, she expects it now she’s used to it I feel and nudges me when he needs a feed and says do the bottles or clean them or change him. Gets annoying sometimes as she is lazy with it now and I do it all

    Secondly, she’s 19 I’m 22, I tickle her back for hours every day, I compliment her, write her paragraphs sometimes, cuddle her to sleep, I am so loving towards her, she doesn’t really show her affection only when it suits her or she wants some attention, 

    If we argue or fall out she doesn’t text me until I do then we sort it maybe a day later after a lot of arguing because she is always right. She speaks to me like dirt on texts when we fall out.

    I feel like I’m under the phumb, if we fall out she doesn’t make any effort to sort it, like she expects me to run back now I’m getting fed up, I love her so much but I feel like she doesn’t care. She gets moody a lot say if I say something but she doesn’t like it she goes in a mood for ages, she has a lot of hormonal moody swings, she says she’s got mental health which I’ve took into consideration but I feel like she’s taking the pure advantage out of me, expects everything but doesn’t return much.

    I do all the cuddling, cute texts, changing photos on Facebook to me and her (she hasn’t) it’s like she doesn’t care if we break up

    Singles & Dating11 months ago
  • My girlfriend is moody and treating me like dirt I feel and it feels like she doesn’t care?

    Been together 4 months, she has a little boy and so do I, i do everything for him like the morning bottles, change him, feed him the bottles, get him ready for bed and play with him, so this is just the start, she expects it now she’s used to it I feel and nudges me when he needs a feed and says do the bottles or clean them or change him. Gets annoying sometimes as she is lazy with it now and I do it all

    Secondly,  she’s 19 I’m 22, I tickle her back for hours every day, I compliment her, write her paragraphs sometimes, cuddle her to sleep, I am so loving towards her, she doesn’t really show her affection only when it suits her or she wants some attention, 

    If we argue or fall out she doesn’t text me until I do then we sort it maybe a day later after a lot of arguing because she is always right. She speaks to me like dirt on texts when we fall out.

    I feel like I’m under the phumb, if we fall out she doesn’t make any effort to sort it, like she expects me to run back now I’m getting fed up, I love her so much but I feel like she doesn’t care. She gets moody a lot say if I say something but she doesn’t like it she goes in a mood for ages, she has a lot of hormonal moody swings, she says she’s got mental health which I’ve took into consideration but I feel like she’s taking the pure advantage out of me, expects everything but doesn’t return much.

    I do all the cuddling, cute texts, changing photos on Facebook to me and her (she hasn’t) it’s like she doesn’t care if we break up

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating11 months ago