Strong survivor of four small strokes and still here. What does not kill you makes you stronger...but death is right around the corner. Married to a lovely man ,who happens to be white, for 36 years this September 2013). 2 kids, 2 grandkids. You may think you know me but you don't. Middle class Westchester housewife not apologizing for the comfortable life we planned together,-but it didn't come easily.