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  • Am I being intrusive?

    My SO just bought a house. Tomorrow his family will be coming over to clean the place up and disinfecting everything. As well as the pastor coming over to Bless the house. He has asked me to join them tomorrow and I want to be there for him.

    *BUT, I sort of feel a lil intrusive...I was thinking what if his fam is thinking why I'm there if we aren't married.* Although he assured me that they love me and I should come and get more comfortable because soon they will be my fam too!He also said who cares if they don't want you there... I do!!! (I think that is Super sweet)

    He bought the house with me in mind and it has everything I always wanted in a house. I have been there and done the walk through with him & fam previously. I am just wondering why I feel like I do? Has anyone felt this way before? Should I snap out of it & stand by my man? I know this may seem like a no brainer, but I don't want to over load them with seeing my face all the time.

    -He lives an hour away

    -He was here last week, we met @ hospital to visit his aunt, saw few fam members there

    - I don't want them to think, wow we see her alot!

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Soon to be brides or brides PLEASE HELP!!!!?

    My SO just bought a house. Tomorrow his family will be coming over to clean the place up and disinfecting everything. As well as the pastor coming over to Bless the house. He has asked me to join them tomorrow and I want to be there for him.

    *BUT, I sort of feel a lil intrusive...I was thinking what if his fam is thinking why I'm there if we aren't married.* Although he assured me that they love me and I should come and get more comfortable because soon they will be my fam too!He also said who cares if they don't want you there... I do!!! (I think that is Super sweet)

    He bought the house with me in mind and it has everything I always wanted in a house. I have been there and done the walk through with him & fam previously. I am just wondering why I feel like I do? Has anyone felt this way before? Should I snap out of it & stand by my man? I know this may seem like a no brainer, but I don't want to over load them with seeing my face all the time.

    -He lives an hour away

    -He was here last week, we met @ hospital to visit his aunt, saw few fam members there

    - I don't want them to think, wow we see her alot!

    7 AnswersWeddings10 years ago
  • Do Straight guys wear "colored contacts"?

    I am beginning to see a trend with a group of guys and I am wondering why they are deciding to get different color eyes... is this normal?

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • What are some nice places to visit or restaurants to go to in Pensacola, Florida?

    I am planning an evening with my bf to celebrate his 23rd Birthday please help if you have any good suggestions? Restaurants? Or any surrounding areas.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • What are some nice places to visit or restaurants to go to in Pensacola?

    I am planning an evening with my bf to celebrate his 23rd Birthday please help if you have any good suggestions? Restaurants?

    2 AnswersOther - United States1 decade ago
  • What do I buy my Boyfriend for his Bday?

    We are both 22 year old recent college graduates. He is fun loving, a recent accounting graduate, loves "Church", fishing, going on trips with me, baking, cooking, laughing, friends... and eating. Does anyone have any ideas. We have been friends for 3 years, but rather new in our relationship. He asked me to Surprise Him! And I want it to be perfect. Oh, don't say sex...we are waiting until marriage. In the V club! -Amen.

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • His bestfriend is a girl should I worry?

    I'm in the step process you take right before you get into a serious relationship with someone. Right now we are still trying to learn one another, spend time, and ask questions. He has a best friend that is a girl, they talk all the time, and will go out for lunch together randomly, however she is married, and I've met her, but I don't know how to feel about it. Should I be concerned? Can a male and a female really just be friends/ best friends? I don't want to get into something I could very well avoid. Do you know a similar situation? Please help. (We talked about this last night and I couldn't respond, I needed more time ...to be truthful)

    10 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago
  • Ladies and Gentlemen Please Help.....?

    I'm in the step process you take right before you get into a serious relationship with someone. Right now we are still trying to learn one another, spend time, and ask questions. He has a best friend that is a girl, they talk all the time, and will go out for lunch together randomly, however she is married, and I've met her, but I don't know how to feel about it. Should I be concerned? Can a male and a female really just be friends/ best friends? I don't want to get into something I could very well avoid. Do you know a similar situation? Please help. (We talked about this last night and I couldn't respond, I needed more time ...to be truthful)

    2 AnswersWeddings1 decade ago
  • New Relationship Question for all....?

    I'm in the step process you take right before you get into a serious relationship with someone. Right now we are still trying to learn one another and ask questions. He has a best friend that is a girl, they talk all the time, and will go out for lunch together randomly, however she is married, and I've met her, but I don't know how to feel about it. Should I be concerned? Can a male and a female really just be friends/ best friends? I don't want to get into something I could very well avoid. Do you know a similar situation? Please help. (We talked about this last night and I couldn't respond, I needed more time ...to be truthful)

    7 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Should I be in her wedding?

    I have what use to be a good friend. She is now on standby in my book. She changed and now I barely know who she is. She is getting married in 4 months and well before this I agreed to be in the wedding. Since then she has seriously been having issues. She gets angry at me for coming to town and not letting her know first. She tells me that I don't need to speak with an old friend of ours because she harbors so much hatred towards his church.

    Now, she calls and makes up lies about the church and him. She found out I visited and went banana's. She called when I was with him the other day and told me a bunch of lies about him. I KNEW THEY WERE NOT TRUE AMONGST ALL THE OTHER LIES: Because he was with me out of town this whole weekend when people supposedly saw him singing at a concert. She has lost her mind and I can't trust her.

    She uses me as a trash can and calls and lies on people and suspects that I don't know they are lies. Can someone please help me. I need to get out of this wedding quick. I will be her friend and may Even attend, but she is trying to take too much control in my life. I'm afraid of what she is capable of. She has made it known that she doesn't want my friend and I together neither does she want me to join there church. HELP! I want out. What do I do?

    7 AnswersWeddings1 decade ago
  • Married people, Couples, Please Help!!!?

    FYI: (Both seniors w/honors @ same university) I have a guy friend I've known for about 3 years. He and I have gotten really close lately. Talking on the phone until 2,3,4,5am in the morning. He text me daily and ask how I am doing? What I'm doing? We have really been enjoying one anothers company. Neither of us have significant others. And are both available. He was coming to my hometown this weekend, but it snowed & roads froze over.

    He has invited me to his hometown for church this coming weekend, then to another church later to hear his mother preach (all riding together/introduced to mom) & I'm freaking out! I want to go, but I'm so scared. I don't know where any of this will lead, what should I do? My best friend said its obvious he likes me, what do you think?

    8 AnswersWeddings1 decade ago
  • What's really going on?

    FYI: (Both seniors w/honors @ same university) I have a guy friend I've known for about 3 years. He and I have gotten really close lately. Talking on the phone until 2,3,4,5am in the morning. He text me daily and ask how I am doing? What I'm doing? We have really been enjoying one anothers company. Neither of us have significant others. And are both available. He was coming to my hometown this weekend, but it snowed & roads froze over.

    He has invited me to his hometown for church this coming weekend, then to another church later to hear his mother preach (all riding together/introduced to mom) & I'm freaking out! I want to go, but I'm so scared. I don't know where any of this will lead, what should I do? My best friend said its obvious he likes me, what do you think?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Boyfriends uncle passed... is it okay if....?

    We were on a date when we found out about the untimely death. I am glad I was there to console him. The funeral is this weekend and he asked me to attend. Of course I will. I have what may be a silly question to some, but where do I sit? Do I imply that I can sit on the guess side? (Because we aren't married and am I classified as family to sit with him?)

    Were 22, have met both of each others immediate and extended families, have been courting for three years! Is it okay if I walk in and sit with him or is this not etiquette? Any other setting I wouldn't be baffled, but I don't know about a funeral. Could you help me?

    9 AnswersWeddings1 decade ago
  • Boyfriends uncle passed... is it okay if....?

    We were on a date when we found out about the untimely death. I am glad I was there to console him. The funeral is this weekend and he asked me to attend. Of course I will. I have what may be a silly question to some, but where do I sit? Do I imply that I can sit on the guess side? (Because we aren't married and am I classified as family to sit with him?)

    Were seniors in college, have met both of each others immediate and extended families, have been courting for three years! Is it okay if I walk in and sit with him or is this not etiquette? Any other setting I wouldn't be baffled, but I don't know about a funeral. Could you help me?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Ladies PLEASE HELP if your future hubby....?

    My bf decided to grow an afo all of a sudden. I didn't object when asked about it because I was trying to support something I didn't think would last as long.

    Now, 2 months down the line. I Detest it. He looks great with a low cut, but with hair... I'll let you read between the lines. I dunno why he wants to do this. I don't wanna hurt his feelings, but it makes him look very unattractive to me. How do I say this? I am stylish when we step out, but the hair does an injustice to his good looks. How do I tell him?

    When I wore my hair natural (in twist) in the beginning of our 3 year relationship. He told me numerous of times he didn't like it, because I have long hair and that made it looks short and unattractive. He even paid for me to get it done once because I told him money doesn't grow on trees...lol

    Why then is it okay for him to go around looking thrown away? lol

    15 AnswersWeddings1 decade ago
  • Ladies please HELP if your man...?

    My bf decided to grow an afo all of a sudden. I didn't object when asked about it because I was trying to support something I didn't think would last as long.

    Now, 2 months down the line. I Detest it. He looks great with a low cut, but with hair... I'll let you read between the lines. I dunno why he wants to do this. I don't wanna hurt his feelings, but it makes him look very unattractive to me. How do I say this? I am stylish when we step out, but the hair does an injustice to his good looks. How do I tell him?

    When I wore my hair natural (in twist) in the beginning of our 3 year relationship. He told me numerous of times he didn't like it, because I have long hair and that made it looks short and unattractive. He even paid for me to get it done once because I told him money doesn't grow on trees...lol

    Why then is it okay for him to go around looking thrown away? lol

    9 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Is my bf being selfish? Who does this?

    I am in college about 100 miles from home(my friends are here). My bf has heard (back home) about a friend of mine and now she is engaged. This morning she told me she was traveling up to my hometown for a family reunion and I asked her could we hang out. Well, she agreed.

    I spoke to my bf 2 hours later and he is going on and on about it not being enough time, remind you he has already given me a run of his weekend. He told me that even if he is home in bed doing nothing..that's not enough time for him. He needs to know a week in advance. Even if we all just went out for ice cream or something for 30 min to a hour I'd be happy. Just so all of us could meet. He refuses, Is he bring selfish... I'm telling him a whole 2 days before they come down. Why does he do me like this? He won't bulge. It really hurts me when he is selfish like this. I don't know what to say to her I don't want him to seem like a jerk. They are driving all this way at least he could come out. And now he is asking am I still going. He says he doesn't approve of me going alone because that's weird..... so why won't he just come along? Is he trying to control me?

    4 AnswersWeddings1 decade ago
  • Is my bf being selfish? Who does this?

    I am in college about 100 miles from home. My bf has heard about a friend of mine and now she is engaged. This morning she told me she was traveling up to my hometown for a family reunion and I asked her could we hang out. Well, she agreed.

    I spoke to my bf 2 hours later and he is going on and on about it not being enough time, remind you he has already given me a run of his weekend. He told me that even if he is home in bed doing nothing..that's not enough time for him. He needs to know a week in advance. Even if we all just went out for ice cream or something for 30 min to a hour I'd be happy. Just so all of us could meet. He refuses, Is he bring selfish... I'm telling him a whole 2 days before they come down. Why does he do me like this? He won't bulge. It really hurts me when he is selfish like this.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Bf doesn't understand my roller coaster fear, help!?

    I'm a 21 yr. old f, afraid of roller coaster although I have never been on one. I just don't like the thought of them and believe I would actually have a fit on one.

    Well, my bf of 3 yrs. wants to go to an amusement park, which is fine with me I can ride water rides an other things that don't scare me to death. I've told him about this fear for yrs. Now, that he realizes he can't change me - he is angry/disappointed.

    Should I try to ride one to please him- or should he understand my fear and let me be? I tried to bring u somewhere else, but he insisted on the amusement park. Now he doesn't want to go anywhere because I won't get on the roller coaster. What should I do, any advice?

    20 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago