Ya know when can't agree or they tell you no you cannot do this. You get someone else involved just so they change their mind and say yes you can.
Example: boyfriend told me to stay away from his girlfriend. So I went talk with girl's dad so girl's dad can tell me to not listen to girl's boyfriend and I don't have to be stay away from his girlfriend.
Example 2: when ordering a pizza, I request special made, cashiers say no can't do this, next I call in for manager so manager can overrule cashier so I can get what I want.
Example 3: mall cop saw me in mall, and mall cop tell me I have to leave because trouble I caused in mall in past, so I called a friend of mine who is head of mall security so I can be welcome back into the mall.
Those things, is that ok to put people into middle of you with someone and hope they will be on your side so you win?
Or you may say no never put anybody into your problem, never put them in middle of it.