• Feeling sexually frustrated with boyfriend of 5 years?

    I love him so much but I don’t feel that we have enough sex? We’re both 23 and have it probably once a week if lucky. We have busy jobs and work very hard but every time I try to start it he doesn’t want it. It always seems to be on his terms. Tonight we had a free house. We turned off the TV and he got on top of me and we just started laughing.... show more
    I love him so much but I don’t feel that we have enough sex? We’re both 23 and have it probably once a week if lucky. We have busy jobs and work very hard but every time I try to start it he doesn’t want it. It always seems to be on his terms. Tonight we had a free house. We turned off the TV and he got on top of me and we just started laughing. We got the giggles and it killed the moment. He rolled back over and we watched TV again. I started to get short with him (which I now regret) but I felt so sexually frustrated like an itch that couldn’t be scratched. We had an argument and he is now asleep and I’m laying awake thinking about it. I feel so selfish but can’t help the way I feel. It was our anniversary a week ago and we went away for the weekend - no sex! What should I do about this?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Is it ok to text another man casually when in a relationship?

    I have been with my boyfriend 5 years. We went out for a meal yesterday and I saw an old flame. He kept looking and me and since then has messaged me. I’ve responded to be nice, as he was a nice guy, being careful with the conversation and keeping it very casual. We discussed the past and he asked if I wish that we were still seeing eachother. I... show more
    I have been with my boyfriend 5 years. We went out for a meal yesterday and I saw an old flame. He kept looking and me and since then has messaged me. I’ve responded to be nice, as he was a nice guy, being careful with the conversation and keeping it very casual. We discussed the past and he asked if I wish that we were still seeing eachother. I told him that everything happens for a reason. I told him that I was going to bed and the conversation has finished now. I just can’t help but feel that I’ve done something wrong. He also told me that I still look attractive- this was flattering to hear. I suppose I kept talking because I was flattered to hear such nice things about myself. Don’t get me wrong, my boyfriend loves me and I love him but he doesn’t tell me I’m attractive anymore. Is it normal to have these feelings? Have I betrayed my relationship?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago
  • Feeling guilty about boyfriend and family?

    Feeling anxious after just walking through my boyfriends door! My boyfriend lives with his parents. His dad asked me about 2 weeks ago in front of 11 others if I would like to go and watch the darts with them. I said yes (as I am a bit of a people pleaser) even though I went with them last year and didn’t enjoy it due to not really understanding the... show more
    Feeling anxious after just walking through my boyfriends door! My boyfriend lives with his parents. His dad asked me about 2 weeks ago in front of 11 others if I would like to go and watch the darts with them. I said yes (as I am a bit of a people pleaser) even though I went with them last year and didn’t enjoy it due to not really understanding the rules etc. It’s mainly men in the family going (including my boyfriend) and my boyfriends mum. I told my boyfriend in private the night that his dad asked that it wasn’t my thing and that I’d rather not go. My boyfriend said this was fine. My boyfriends dad then booked the tickets (not sure if this was communicated to his dad). My boyfriends dad likes to put people on the spot until he gets what he wants! Even though my boyfriend has told him they will find someone else to take my ticket, he still keeps asking whilst I am there and making comments such as ‘it will be nice if your mum has some company’. This makes me feel so anxious/ awkward/ guilty! I feel bad for my boyfriend keep being badgered too. I know this is my fault as I should have just been honest to begin with. To me, it’s a boys night out drinking, and I’d rather leave my boyfriend to have a good time. It’s also my brothers 18th birthday weekend which is what I said to his dad when he keeps making the comments. Not sure what to do for the best 🙁
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago
  • How to solve a very awkward situation between my boyfriend and his parents?

    Me and my boyfriend are both 23. Saving for a house but both live with parents at the moment. Last night my boyfriends parents were away, so we stayed at his. I came on my period unexpectedly during the night, so we washed the sheets. They came in to find the sheets in the washing machine and asked my boyfriend why. He said he spilt a drink (which... show more
    Me and my boyfriend are both 23. Saving for a house but both live with parents at the moment. Last night my boyfriends parents were away, so we stayed at his. I came on my period unexpectedly during the night, so we washed the sheets. They came in to find the sheets in the washing machine and asked my boyfriend why. He said he spilt a drink (which was very sweet). But now his parents seem mad at him and are being really off with him. They are also very careful with their heating and when we got home last night it was off. I struggle with the cold and poor circulation of the feet so he turned it on. They also keep digging at us about that. I know it is their money, but we also stay at my parents and eat/drink there. I pay housekeeping at home, but he doesn't. I can't help but feel very awkward.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 months ago
  • Don't feel loved?

    Myself and boyfriend have been together 5 years. We are both 22 years old. We have both finally qualified in our careers recently, I'm a teacher and he's an electrician. We have been saving very hard for a home and we are so nearly there. However , over the past year things haven't been as loving between us. he doesn't hold my... show more
    Myself and boyfriend have been together 5 years. We are both 22 years old. We have both finally qualified in our careers recently, I'm a teacher and he's an electrician. We have been saving very hard for a home and we are so nearly there. However , over the past year things haven't been as loving between us. he doesn't hold my hand/ show me any affection in public- or more recently in private. On speaking to my friends, they get physical with their partners 2-3 times a week, where as me and my partner do things once a week- sometimes not even that. When I want to take pictures with him, he moans. He spends his weekends and week nights working, meaning that I am always waiting around to see him. We went to the cinema last night and I got dressed up and did something different with my hair. He didn't say I looked nice, but made a comment about how I keep wearing the same shoes (maybe because I have less money than him!!!) since his business has done really well I feel that he thinks he's a cut above me. We argue, I get angry and I call him names. I loved who he was, but I'm finding it hard to love who he is at the moment. He buys me material things which are lovely, but all I want is to feel loved. I don't want to leave him because I think it may be the worst mistake I ever make as he is my best friend, but I want a relationship, I want to feel loved. At the moment I feel like his friend rather than girlfriend.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 7 months ago
  • How to organise Christmas with my boyfriend?

    My boyfriend and I are 21. He's an only child and I have a family of 2 siblings. We have been together 4 years. The first 2 christmas', I was over at his house on Christmas evening and Boxing Day. The third year I decided that I needed to be with my own family, he was invited over but wanted to stay with his family. This year I said that I... show more
    My boyfriend and I are 21. He's an only child and I have a family of 2 siblings. We have been together 4 years. The first 2 christmas', I was over at his house on Christmas evening and Boxing Day. The third year I decided that I needed to be with my own family, he was invited over but wanted to stay with his family. This year I said that I did wish to see him, but feel like I've made more compromises over Christmas than what he has. He said that he will come over Christmas evening and Boxing Day, which I thought was lovely and also fair. He then threw in the joke 'ill spend all of Christmas with your family'. I said to him to speak to his parents and see what their family plans are. He messaged me back saying that he will come over on Christmas evening but didn't mention anything about Boxing Day. I called him and asked just to be clear. On Christmas Day, his whole family are coming together for a meal. On Boxing Day, they are doing exactly the same thing. He said again he would come over on Boxing Day, when I accepted his offer, he throw in the joke again. I want to spend Christmas with him, but I don't want the guilt that I'm taking him away from his family. Especially because his parents are very clingy still. We had an argument and I hung up on him. I'm sick of every Christmas being the same. I'm also thinking about the future, I don't want to always be separated for Christmas. But equally I feel that I shouldn't have to always compromise.
    5 answers · Christmas · 1 year ago
  • Strange situation?

    I had a major crush on my next door neighbor since I was 13. He is a couple of years older than me. I never told him that I liked him. I am now 21, have had 2 serious relationships, one of which I am currently in now. We have been together four years and I love him to pieces. I never thought about my neighbour during these relationships. My... show more
    I had a major crush on my next door neighbor since I was 13. He is a couple of years older than me. I never told him that I liked him. I am now 21, have had 2 serious relationships, one of which I am currently in now. We have been together four years and I love him to pieces. I never thought about my neighbour during these relationships. My neighbour has never had a girlfriend, until recently. When I found out, I felt sick. 😕 I found out a couple of weeks ago and it had been on my mind ever since. I even dreamt about him and his girlfriend the other night. I never thought I would have this reaction. I can't help but feel guilty about my feelings. I am also confused as me and my boyfriend are really strong. I have never been unfaithful and would never do that. I am a very loyal person. Is it normal for this to happen? I know I love my boyfriend, but I wasn't expecting this response.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • Why am I jealous of my ex crushes girlfriend?

    I had a major crush on my next door neighbor since I was 13. He is a couple of years older than me. I never told him that I liked him. I am now 21, have had 2 serious relationships, one of which I am currently in now. We have been together four years and I love him to pieces. I never thought about my neighbour during these relationships. My... show more
    I had a major crush on my next door neighbor since I was 13. He is a couple of years older than me. I never told him that I liked him. I am now 21, have had 2 serious relationships, one of which I am currently in now. We have been together four years and I love him to pieces. I never thought about my neighbour during these relationships. My neighbour has never had a girlfriend, until recently. When I found out, I felt sick. 😕 I found out a couple of weeks ago and it had been on my mind ever since. I even dreamt about him and his girlfriend the other night. I never thought I would have this reaction. I can't help but feel guilty about my feelings. I am also confused as me and my boyfriend are really strong. I have never been unfaithful and would never do that. I am a very loyal person. Is it normal for this to happen? I know I love my boyfriend, but I wasn't expecting this response.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • I ended it with my 3 year boyfriend today?

    Me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years. He is an only child. We had problems where his parents would not leave us alone when we were together, they would follow us upstairs and come into his room without knocking. He made it clear to them that this was wrong and they have stopped. My boyfriend wanted to buy a 23,000£ van. I found out this... show more
    Me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years. He is an only child. We had problems where his parents would not leave us alone when we were together, they would follow us upstairs and come into his room without knocking. He made it clear to them that this was wrong and they have stopped. My boyfriend wanted to buy a 23,000£ van. I found out this by walking in on him and his family arranging the payment (he was going to borrow from the parents and pay them back). I told him that while we are saving for a house, this is not affordable. his parents have been cold with me. The next day his cousin sold a bag I got her for Christmas publicly on Facebook. I go to nearly every single event the family have which is very often. It was my brothers prom tonight and he was invited a month ago. He messaged me yesterday saying that he was asked 2 weeks ago to go to his grandads for a takeaway in memorial for his Nan who died 7 years ago. He said he completely forgot and asked if we could do both but would have to leave my brothers prom quite promptly. I feel as if I always have to compromise. Whilst I respect his Nan, I feel as though he hasn't consulted me, he just told me what he was doing- similar to the van situation. I've had enough of the rubbish that him and his family put me through. I want to settle down in 2-3 years time and I think he's the right person but the dynamic of the family cannot work. I want to walk away but I still love him. Im now having second thoughts.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Boyfriends parents seem annoyed at me?

    Me and my boyfriend are 21. We've been together 3 years and have saved 20,000 for a house deposit. We are still planning to save more in the next 2 years. He got a new van 2 years ago and wanted another one. It was 23,000. His parents said that they would lend him the money. I said he could get the van as it would be his money but I said to him... show more
    Me and my boyfriend are 21. We've been together 3 years and have saved 20,000 for a house deposit. We are still planning to save more in the next 2 years. He got a new van 2 years ago and wanted another one. It was 23,000. His parents said that they would lend him the money. I said he could get the van as it would be his money but I said to him that I find it rediculous as we are saving together! In the end he decided to not get the van. Ever since his parents have been strange with me. When I came over they shut the living room door. I took that as I sign they didn't wish to speak to me so went straight upstairs. When I came over the 2nd time no one was in. So we went upstairs. His mum came back from somewhere and shouted up the stairs 'hi (and then said my boyfriends name). My shoes would have been by the door when she came in. My boyfriend asked if I would like to go down and say hi, I would have liked to but I feel like his parents are being off with me for just having an opinion about our future. The longer this goes on the more I am worried about it. It's gone on for 3 weeks now. Usually we cannot escape his parents as they are so involved and so talkative and follow us upstairs. It doesn't seem right
    6 answers · Family · 2 years ago
  • Boyfriends family dislike me?

    I've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. We are both 21. We are both saving for a house deposit. So far we have 18,000. We want to aim for 40,000 maybe 50 even. I'm still at uni and have one year before becoming a fully qualified teacher. My boyfriend and I planned to be looking for hourses in 2 years time. He is a person that has to... show more
    I've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. We are both 21. We are both saving for a house deposit. So far we have 18,000. We want to aim for 40,000 maybe 50 even. I'm still at uni and have one year before becoming a fully qualified teacher. My boyfriend and I planned to be looking for hourses in 2 years time. He is a person that has to have the latest thing. He is an only child, and in my opinion he is very babied by his parents. They pay his phone bill, he doesn't pay house keeping and whenever I go over to his we get no time together as his parents are always barging in his bedroom. My boyfriend wants a brand new van (costing 23,000). He only got a new one 2 years ago! His parents have said they will lend him the money. I've told him my concerns about our savings and that he should really think about it. (I think his parents are lending him money on purpose so that it postpones him moving out). He decided not to get van. Apparently his parents are really annoyed at me. His cousin sold a bag I got her for Christmas on facebook !
    5 answers · Family · 2 years ago
  • Selfish, babied boyfriend?

    I've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. We are both 21. We are both saving for a house deposit. So far we have 18,000. We want to aim for 40,000 maybe 50 even. I'm still at uni and have one year before becoming a fully qualified teacher. My boyfriend and I planned to be looking for hourses in 2 years time. He is a person that has to... show more
    I've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. We are both 21. We are both saving for a house deposit. So far we have 18,000. We want to aim for 40,000 maybe 50 even. I'm still at uni and have one year before becoming a fully qualified teacher. My boyfriend and I planned to be looking for hourses in 2 years time. He is a person that has to have the latest thing. He is an only child, and in my opinion he is very babied by his parents. They pay his phone bill, he doesn't pay house keeping and whenever I go over to his we get no time together as his parents are always barging in his bedroom. My boyfriend wants a brand new van (costing 23,000). He only got a new one 2 years ago! His parents have said they will lend him the money. I've told him my concerns about our savings and that he should really think about it. (I think his parents are lending him money on purpose so that it postpones him moving out). A day later, I go round his to find his whole family talking about it. They informed me they all went to look and took it out for a test drive. ( he did not tell me this). I feel so frustrated, if I wanted a new car I could have one, but all of my money has gone into our future. I feel like a really jealous person and that's probably how I look, I just don't think it's necessary! What shall I do? I look bad to his parents if he doesn't get the van, but if he does I know it will effect my attitude with him and our relationship. Feel so lost right now
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • My boyfriends priorities are wrong?

    I've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. We are both 21. We are both saving for a house deposit. So far we have 18,000. We want to aim for 40,000 maybe 50 even. I'm still at uni and have one year before becoming a fully qualified teacher. My boyfriend and I planned to be looking for hourses in 2 years time. He is a person that has to... show more
    I've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. We are both 21. We are both saving for a house deposit. So far we have 18,000. We want to aim for 40,000 maybe 50 even. I'm still at uni and have one year before becoming a fully qualified teacher. My boyfriend and I planned to be looking for hourses in 2 years time. He is a person that has to have the latest thing. He is an only child, and in my opinion he is very babied by his parents. They pay his phone bill, he doesn't pay house keeping and whenever I go over to his we get no time together as his parents are always barging in his bedroom. My boyfriend wants a brand new van (costing 23,000). He only got a new one 2 years ago! His parents have said they will lend him the money. I've told him my concerns about our savings and that he should really think about it. (I think his parents are lending him money on purpose so that it postpones him moving out). A day later, I go round his to find his whole family talking about it. They informed me they all went to look and took it out for a test drive. ( he did not tell me this). I feel so frustrated, if I wanted a new car I could have one, but all of my money has gone into our future. I feel like a really jealous person and that's probably how I look, I just don't think it's necessary! What shall I do?
    4 answers · Family · 2 years ago
  • My mums being strange?

    I'm 21 and I usually get on really well with my mum, she's my best friend and I really appreciate everything she has done for me. I go to uni part time, and have a part time job so between those occupations I am at home in the week at various times. My mum works 4 days a week in a school. I do the housework every day, i Hoover, tidy, do... show more
    I'm 21 and I usually get on really well with my mum, she's my best friend and I really appreciate everything she has done for me. I go to uni part time, and have a part time job so between those occupations I am at home in the week at various times. My mum works 4 days a week in a school. I do the housework every day, i Hoover, tidy, do the dishes, walk the dog, feed the dog. My 15 year old brother does nothing but no one seems to mind. However I'm feeling like I do a lot around the house. A thank you goes a long way, but when my mum gets in from work she highlights the places I apparently haven't hoovered. Today I got accused of not hoovering, when I did but my brother had friends round and they came in with their shoes on. My mum was off work last week, and she went out every day with her friends, which I'm glad she's having a good time. But it was left for me to take care of the house. I washed my bedding today and simply asked if she would help me put my bed sheets on my duvet as I have a big duvet and it's hard to do it all on my own. She acted like it was a big deal so I told her not to worry. It just annoys me because I asked for a little thing and I feel like I give a lot.
    3 answers · Family · 2 years ago
  • Feel like my part time job is treating me badly?

    I'm 21, I am currently a University student and also have a part time job. I am on an 8 hour contract but do 13 hours a week. The company I work for have been making redundancies to 'save money'. They have made some people redundant and expect all the people left over to mop up the spare hours. My work keep putting me down for a bunch of... show more
    I'm 21, I am currently a University student and also have a part time job. I am on an 8 hour contract but do 13 hours a week. The company I work for have been making redundancies to 'save money'. They have made some people redundant and expect all the people left over to mop up the spare hours. My work keep putting me down for a bunch of shifts without asking. I am in my final year of university so the workload is hectic, I work 2 evenings and a Saturday as it is, and they are now putting me down for more evenings and occasional Sundays. I've already told them I do not want to work Sundays as it's the only day off I get with my family and boyfriend. Interestingly the manager and team leader are not in on the Sunday's that need covering. I've accepted some shifts but have said no to the Sunday's. But somehow I feel guilty? Where do I stand with this? I am scared that if I don't comply with what they want then I will be made redundant.
    3 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 2 years ago
  • My boyfriend is tight with his money?

    My boyfriend and I are both 21. He has a well paid job and I am training at university to become a teacher, I am in my final year, and hold down a part time job (12 hours a week).we are saving for a deposit for a home. So far we have saved £16,000. We both put in half and half. I live on nothing and save everything! What he saves is just a small... show more
    My boyfriend and I are both 21. He has a well paid job and I am training at university to become a teacher, I am in my final year, and hold down a part time job (12 hours a week).we are saving for a deposit for a home. So far we have saved £16,000. We both put in half and half. I live on nothing and save everything! What he saves is just a small portion of his income. I pay for things when I can, but when I pay I don't think about the money because it doesn't matter to me, we've had a lovely time and that's all that matters. When he has to pay he complains *jokingly* and this really annoys me. He told me yesterday 'I was going to take you away for the weekend, but you have no money, so I was thinking that we could go to London to the cinema and for a meal'. Today I had to nag him to get the tickets to the film as it would be busy, and down the phone he was like 'gheez £42!!'. This hurt me as he is constantly thinking about price tags! I took him away for his birthday in October and spent money which has knocked me back financially ever since. Yet I have never complained to him. And to top it off he doesn't seem to think about money when he is gambling £200 at the races with friends or gambling on his phone. Oh.. and he also wants to buy a 20,000 Mercedes (which he can afford to pay upfront) ! I've told him to stuff this weekend and have sent him over half the money for the cinema tickets. He gambles so I'm sure he won't mind losing £21.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • I feel like my boyfriend is tight with his money?

    My boyfriend and I are both 21. He has a well paid job and I am training at university to become a teacher, I am in my final year, and hold down a part time job (12 hours a week).we are saving for a deposit for a home. So far we have saved £16,000. We both put in half and half. I feel like this is so much more of a sacrifice to me as I live on... show more
    My boyfriend and I are both 21. He has a well paid job and I am training at university to become a teacher, I am in my final year, and hold down a part time job (12 hours a week).we are saving for a deposit for a home. So far we have saved £16,000. We both put in half and half. I feel like this is so much more of a sacrifice to me as I live on nothing and save everything! What he saves is just a small portion of his income. I pay for things when I can, but when I pay I don't think about the money because it doesn't matter to me, we've had a lovely time and that's all that matters. When he has to pay he complains *jokingly* and this really annoys me. It's our anniversary this weekend and he's been saying for months that he wants to take me away for the weekend. He told me yesterday 'I was going to take you away for the weekend, but you have no money, so I was thinking that we could go to London to the cinema and for a meal'. Today I had to nag him to get the tickets to the film as it would be busy, and down the phone he was like 'gheez £42!!'. This hurt me as he is constantly thinking about price tags! I took him away for his birthday in October and spent money which has knocked me back financially ever since. Yet I have never complained to him. And to top it off he doesn't seem to think about money when he is gambling £200 at the races with friends or gambling on his phone. Oh.. and he also wants to buy a 20,000 Mercedes (which he can afford to pay upfront) !
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Am I a selfish girlfriend?

    I'm 21 years old and am currently doing a University degree plus working a part time job. I am in my third year so the work load is very hard. My boyfriend is an electrician. We do not live together we both live with our parents. Some nights we sleep at his and others at mine. He has to get up really early for his job (half 5- 6 in the morning).... show more
    I'm 21 years old and am currently doing a University degree plus working a part time job. I am in my third year so the work load is very hard. My boyfriend is an electrician. We do not live together we both live with our parents. Some nights we sleep at his and others at mine. He has to get up really early for his job (half 5- 6 in the morning). When I am staying at his I have to leave at that time too to drive home. Recently I'm finding this a strain, as I'm so busy with uni work and are getting not much sleep. More recently he has slept round mine loads. His parents make comments such as 'you never come over anymore'. I feel selfish but I'm messing up my body clock by following his work patterns. I have offered to come to his for evenings and then drive home, but this isn't good as he has his dinner at 6 and I have mine at 8 which means we will only see each other for an hour. We are trying to arrange who stays at whose tonight but we are just arguing about it. He has offered to stay at mine again but I feel selfish as his workplace is right near his house. I love him and we have been together three years but I'm just finding it difficult to juggle everything at the moment.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • HELP. Me and my sister do not get along?

    I'm 20 and my sister is 19 years old. I go to a uni near home and she goes to a uni far away. I live in my parents home and she has come back for the Christmas break. She has to share my room as there is not a room for her here. I cleaned, tidied and hoovered my room along with my bathroom so it was nice for her to come and visit. She is so... show more
    I'm 20 and my sister is 19 years old. I go to a uni near home and she goes to a uni far away. I live in my parents home and she has come back for the Christmas break. She has to share my room as there is not a room for her here. I cleaned, tidied and hoovered my room along with my bathroom so it was nice for her to come and visit. She is so messy, her clothes are all over the floor, there is used dental floss and baby wipes on the floor, not to mention many dirty cups and plates and her habit of not flushing the toilet. She is going home tomorrow, so I asked her to clean the room. She told me to stop nagging and I said to her how disrespectful she is. She started to get nasty saying how I have no friends and that the family were going to arrange a 21st party for me but there was no one to invite. She also called me disgusting and said that she could spit on me. This made me feel really angry and upset. When she is home I cannot escape her as I stupidly got her a job at my workplace. How can I deal with this? Thank you
    3 answers · Family · 2 years ago
  • Problems with my boyfriends mother?

    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are both 20. my boyfriends Grandad has an apartment abroad and for my boyfriends 21st birthday he was planning to treat us to 2 weeks away in the apartment. He does this for every grand child and their partners on their 21st. My boyfriends mother has taken over it all as she told us her and her... show more
    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are both 20. my boyfriends Grandad has an apartment abroad and for my boyfriends 21st birthday he was planning to treat us to 2 weeks away in the apartment. He does this for every grand child and their partners on their 21st. My boyfriends mother has taken over it all as she told us her and her husband will be staying there the first week and me and my boyfriend can fly out the second week to stay in the apartment. She originally said that her and her husband would stay somewhere else. Yesterday I was in my boyfriends room on my own and she walked in and was telling me with a smirk on her face that her and husband are hiring out the apartment right next door. Last time we went away to a hotel with them at the weekend they were knocking and barging in every 5 minutes. He's a bit of a mummy's boy and she is very controlling and overbearing. I have tried everything from going along with it, to resisting against her and even talking to him about it. But in the end I look like the bitter one and I'm stressing myself out. I don't want to go on this holiday anymore. What can I do? I think she must enjoy pushing my buttons because why would she randomly walk in yesterday and say this?
    5 answers · Family · 3 years ago