He knows about my 3rd my son, but he's never met him (my choice) my Dad has never really been a Dad. He'll go all out for my Husband and I and our girls (never met son) for Christmas birthdays he'll spend tons of money on us even thought I say I just want the family together etc. He said before if I need help to come to him, but he then flips it around and says go ask your mom. He also baby talked to my girls ages 6 & 3 years and I've asked him politely to stop I dislike it and he keeps repeating it. I don't want our son and this baby in this but am I wrong for doing so?