OK. First I'm 22, not 12.
I have recently been dating a Muslim (I have many decent Muslim friends, though HE is the kind that gives them a bad name. He's the nasty stereotypical mysoginist who actually flat-out said that women had never done anything for humanity, ever) for a few weeks, although I got rid of him because he was litterally going crazy.
First he used the fact that I was drunk and half asleep to have sex with me although I'd told him I wanted to wait. And he didn't even put on a condom (!!!!)
And then one day he started telling me all that crazy nonsense about having been played with, and calling me names (whore, easy, *****, stupid, liar, hypocrit) after I told him that I thought he was going too fast into the relationship and I was feeling a little forced into the relationship (I'm a very anxious person so I like to take it slow). that night he actually sent me about 200 text messages in roughly 4 hours, all of them full of really paranoia-founded insults.
When I stopped responding, he threatened to tell my best friend that I was a complete ****. Of course I could care less what he tells her, but he actually started harrassing her about it both times he saw her since (they have friends in common).
Plus apparently he has started constantly texting some of our friends if they don't "Like" his facebook posts as soon as he posts on their "Walls" to find out why they're not responding.
The guy smokes a lot of pot, and I think he also likes to do lines.
However, normally I'd just avoid him, but someone has thrown me and my best friend a birthday party (yeah, cheesy, we share the same birthdate) at some bar tonight and since it's a public place, well, I can't stop him from coming.
The thing is, he kinda scares me. I mean, he seems to go completely offtrack paranoid. Plus, he's a Muslim and even though as I said I KNOW most of them are super nice people, we've all heard the story of the girls who get acid thrown to their face...:/ I just don't know what to do :( I can't call the cops, cause I'd basically have nothing to tell them since he hasn't been threatening me directly or harassing me, and the rape argument would be invalid aswell cause alcohol is not an excuse... but I'm scared, still I don't wanna skip my birthday party cause some old friends of mine are going to be in town tonight and I'd really like to see them :(
Anyone got an advice ? (and this is Canada, I don't own a gun, haha)