• Why is my boyfriend always defensive and is there a way to change that about him?

    He loves me and i know it’s not intentional. But why is it that everytime he feels someone is rude to him or criticize him, he does it ten times harder back and try to say something nice but with a “little shade.” Especially me whenever i make fun of him in a joking way he’d come back at me or when i try to tell him like, babe can you pick up your... show more
    He loves me and i know it’s not intentional. But why is it that everytime he feels someone is rude to him or criticize him, he does it ten times harder back and try to say something nice but with a “little shade.” Especially me whenever i make fun of him in a joking way he’d come back at me or when i try to tell him like, babe can you pick up your dirty shoes. He would be like well last time you....” etc. how do you deal with defensive people. It’s really annoying.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 days ago
  • If I’m terminated from a job, do i HAVE to sign papers?

    I was going to turn in my security uniform along to pick up my check as well. If they give me papers to sign, i don’t have to sign right? They can’t make me. I was gonna quit with them But they ended up calling before me.
    I was going to turn in my security uniform along to pick up my check as well. If they give me papers to sign, i don’t have to sign right? They can’t make me. I was gonna quit with them But they ended up calling before me.
    10 answers · Law & Ethics · 1 week ago
  • How to tell my dentist I’m dissatisfied with veneer results?

    I’m paying $4,500 for veneers and i get them Monday. If i don’t like them or i want to adjust it, am i able to tell them? I’m not sure if the people in the dentist will be annoyed. I have temporary ones and they look really off and ugly and hoping real ones don’t look like that. Also the teeth whitening is included but it doesn’t seem to work and... show more
    I’m paying $4,500 for veneers and i get them Monday. If i don’t like them or i want to adjust it, am i able to tell them? I’m not sure if the people in the dentist will be annoyed. I have temporary ones and they look really off and ugly and hoping real ones don’t look like that. Also the teeth whitening is included but it doesn’t seem to work and whitening at all. Can i tell them to do more sessions without having to charge me?
    2 answers · Dental · 2 weeks ago
  • Can you ever get a domestic violence cases dismissed or completely off your record?

    I wanted to be a cop. I had a good head on my shoulders i was going to school for criminal justice as well and i work. The boyfriend I’m with for 10 months went through hell and so many police calls were reported for DV but never charged. This time we got drunk and we argued and he had visible marks from me and his friends stinched me out. I ended... show more
    I wanted to be a cop. I had a good head on my shoulders i was going to school for criminal justice as well and i work. The boyfriend I’m with for 10 months went through hell and so many police calls were reported for DV but never charged. This time we got drunk and we argued and he had visible marks from me and his friends stinched me out. I ended up getting domestic violence and booked and was charged. He also gave a false statement to the police and how would i tell the judge that! And will he get convicted or get in trouble for that? He wants to help me and wants to drop charges because he was drunk and didn’t know what to do or say. I want it completely off my record. Is it possible? Do i need to hire the best aggressive defense attorney?
    2 answers · Law & Ethics · 2 months ago
  • Any tips for women becoming bartenders?

    I got my certificate 3 months ago, and I’m applying at this new job that’s looking for new bartenders and I’ve worked two events already i don’t have experience. When they do hire you, will they train you or shadow you? I’m really nervous and this is something new to me.
    I got my certificate 3 months ago, and I’m applying at this new job that’s looking for new bartenders and I’ve worked two events already i don’t have experience. When they do hire you, will they train you or shadow you? I’m really nervous and this is something new to me.
    2 answers · Beer, Wine & Spirits · 2 months ago
  • I have been feeling really distant from my boyfriend and i honestly don’t know how to deal with it??

    He works Monday-Friday from 10am-6pm. He comes home and goes straight to play Xbox for hours until bed time 11pm or midnight then goes to bed. He’s been doing this two weeks in a row and I’ve talk to him about it before and he said that it’s not true and he loves me. Even on days off he spends like few hours with me and then goes to his Xbox. I... show more
    He works Monday-Friday from 10am-6pm. He comes home and goes straight to play Xbox for hours until bed time 11pm or midnight then goes to bed. He’s been doing this two weeks in a row and I’ve talk to him about it before and he said that it’s not true and he loves me. Even on days off he spends like few hours with me and then goes to his Xbox. I don’t want to be selfish and tell him he cant play anymore but i been feeling really down.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Am i a mean person?

    I love confronting people whether it’s good or bad. I might have a confident demeanor and be a little intimadating. But does that scare people away or make people uncomfortable? a lot of people say I’m intimidating but I’m honestly a nice person.
    I love confronting people whether it’s good or bad. I might have a confident demeanor and be a little intimadating. But does that scare people away or make people uncomfortable? a lot of people say I’m intimidating but I’m honestly a nice person.
    7 answers · Friends · 3 months ago
  • Is it wrong for me not to invite my boyfriend to go out with me and my girl(friend)?

    It’s her birthday and i want to celebrate with her and our other girlfriends and he’s always wanting to tag along. I was going to have dinner then go to a club to celebrate with her and so on, obviously until the night ends around 2! He’s picking a fight and wants to go with me but i just wanna spend it with HER. Is that selfish or? What can i do?... show more
    It’s her birthday and i want to celebrate with her and our other girlfriends and he’s always wanting to tag along. I was going to have dinner then go to a club to celebrate with her and so on, obviously until the night ends around 2! He’s picking a fight and wants to go with me but i just wanna spend it with HER. Is that selfish or? What can i do? Cause she just wants all girls night and she didn’t invite him.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago
  • Why is it so hard to trust?

    Me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months and he’s done things (not cheat) behind my back that I don’t like. That has to do with the opposite sex. It’s not that it’s a girl specially but when tables turned, he gets mad at me. He’s made me cry and hurt me over and over and told me wouldn’t do it again, then he tears me down and does it again and... show more
    Me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months and he’s done things (not cheat) behind my back that I don’t like. That has to do with the opposite sex. It’s not that it’s a girl specially but when tables turned, he gets mad at me. He’s made me cry and hurt me over and over and told me wouldn’t do it again, then he tears me down and does it again and in circles. I love him and i give him chances but I’m always scared and afraid to open up again and i have trust issues cause of that. Am i wrong for that? How can i overcome it...
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago
  • Is this a good reason to break up with my boyfriend?

    Honestly we been together for 7 months and got an apartment together so that’s the hard part. I feel like he and i do not share the same value or morals. He doesn’t tell me what’s right or wrong and doesn’t care how i feel until i express it to him. He lies a lot to protect my feelings but lies even more when they’re important and I’ve confronted so... show more
    Honestly we been together for 7 months and got an apartment together so that’s the hard part. I feel like he and i do not share the same value or morals. He doesn’t tell me what’s right or wrong and doesn’t care how i feel until i express it to him. He lies a lot to protect my feelings but lies even more when they’re important and I’ve confronted so many times and he still wants it his way. He doesn’t know how to manage his money and lies about it. There’s a lot of things about him that i don’t like anymore but ... i want to be with him it’s just in the future/long run, I’m not sure if i see him in my future. I see the way he’s raised and how his mother rises her 3 other kids and i feel like maybe as a kid he grew up with no love or his mother not really caring for him. I’m not sure if i am making the right decision either. I just feel like he has no morals.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • Why does my boyfriend have a hard time listening to what i have to say?

    It’s not that I’m nagging at him, but when i tell him something so simple like when we cleaned yesterday “don’t drag the bag on the floor and just pick up the bag” because there’s glass inside and will leak. I said it three times and he still dragged it and now the bag ripped and leaked. Then one more example is i told him if he needs to fart, to go... show more
    It’s not that I’m nagging at him, but when i tell him something so simple like when we cleaned yesterday “don’t drag the bag on the floor and just pick up the bag” because there’s glass inside and will leak. I said it three times and he still dragged it and now the bag ripped and leaked. Then one more example is i told him if he needs to fart, to go outside because it SMELLS terrible and it gets me so upset he never listens. I feel like we both don’t get along or HE doesn’t get along with me. Why is it hard to comprehend. What can i do
    Singles & Dating · 5 months ago
  • What does it mean when people say you have a strong personality?

    I feel like i may not look friendly but i really am out going and nice! People say it might be that i have a strong personality and I’m not sure what that really means.
    I feel like i may not look friendly but i really am out going and nice! People say it might be that i have a strong personality and I’m not sure what that really means.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 5 months ago
  • Leasing my apartment to my best friend?

    Is there a way i can get a legal document or a paper stating my friend will pay for it regardless if we are not friends anymore? What would those paper be called and where can i get them? Can i make my own on a piece of paper? My mom is the co signer that’s why I’m worried.
    Is there a way i can get a legal document or a paper stating my friend will pay for it regardless if we are not friends anymore? What would those paper be called and where can i get them? Can i make my own on a piece of paper? My mom is the co signer that’s why I’m worried.
    7 answers · Law & Legal · 6 months ago
  • Does a guy like, ever has his phone around you?

    This is my third week that i been around this guy that I’m interested in and vice versa. He never has his phone around me and never pulls it out. I even tried to break the ice and whip my phone around him and etc but i never see it. Would you think it’s because he doesn’t want girls hitting him up around me, or really just wants my full attention?
    This is my third week that i been around this guy that I’m interested in and vice versa. He never has his phone around me and never pulls it out. I even tried to break the ice and whip my phone around him and etc but i never see it. Would you think it’s because he doesn’t want girls hitting him up around me, or really just wants my full attention?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 11 months ago
  • When you see a police officer somewhere or a group of people from the navy, army, Air Force, do you say thank you for your service?

    Do you say thank you or just ignore it?
    Do you say thank you or just ignore it?
    13 answers · Etiquette · 1 year ago
  • Is there a difference between cop and swat?

    My Halloween outfit says SWAT and people keep saying I’m a cop lol is there a difference? Do I just tell them I’m a swat for Halloween?
    My Halloween outfit says SWAT and people keep saying I’m a cop lol is there a difference? Do I just tell them I’m a swat for Halloween?
    9 answers · Law Enforcement & Police · 1 year ago
  • How much should I tip my tattoo artist?

    Have a small tattoo of a cross but wanted to get it a little bigger than the original.
    Have a small tattoo of a cross but wanted to get it a little bigger than the original.
    2 answers · Tattoos · 1 year ago