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  • So my gf parents hate me ?

    Well to keep it short and simple I am hard working I’m 20 right now as is my gf. I have a full time job at a bank making around 500$ a week roughly and I play in a very competing basketball league in which I get profit from. Well we live with them she has longer than me but I have been remits them for about two years and now here comes the clear cut reasons for why they hate me and I do not want to sound exaggerated it’s exactly how I say it maybe worse. 

    1.the they never ask me what they want to know they will ask my gf which is beyond annoying because if she doesn’t know the answer they will  assume I’m out and doing drugs etc I don’t smoke or drink nor will I ever I have no interest 

    2. They recently started saying I don’t work enough even though with the virus what can I do although I work at a gas station we are considered essential and I’m also working 40 hours a week STILL.

    3. Next is that I play the game too much but all my stuff  is payed for and I’m doing the best I can 

    4.they always seem to forget I’m a college student as well they don’t care though they think I should just work work work 

    5.they think me playing basketball is stupid even though I bring in a respectable amount of income from it so from all of this which isn’t good and there is a lot more that they not pick but I only know all of this because they tell my gf and she tells me but I told her I’m going to just move out because we are in their house and always seem miserable when I’m around. Advice?

    Singles & Dating6 months ago
  • Car loan help?

    Basically i went to go finance a car and I had my car value for trade in as 500$ and I out 2000 dollars down on a 2016 Altima with a 600 -ish credit score which brought the price of the car down about 3000 dollars so it’s around 11 left on it for me  and I got the car I’m driving it the only problem is on the credit application he had asked how many hours do I work per week I said around 31 usually because of school it’s very much less now but the finance manager said if my paystub year to date is somewhere around 15k or even maybe 13k he could see if he could get a better monthly rate for me because right now I’m at around 316 a month which Is fine I can afford that but he said if it was around 11k or 10k that will be tough to get a new deal and we can just keep the same payment plan I’m in but I’m at around 7000 year to date because of various reasons but I’m still working I’ll probably be at 10k by the end of year but I want to know would I still be able to stay in the same payment plan what might they tell me when they see my paystubs? PLEASE HELP 

    1 AnswerBuying & Selling12 months ago
  • How to possibly get older woman?

    Basically I would like some advice this girl is a bit older than me about ten years she is still beautiful and I am 20 she is 29 we’ve known each other for about 6 months so she brought up the idea about a strip club I said yes we are going tommrow and she is making very sexual references towards me and I just wonder if maybe she has something else planned instead of just the club although I have never been to one and I hope it’s enjoyable but she seems to like me and if I’m being honest I like her as well so

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • How to deal with gf mom that doesn’t like me?

    So basically I live with my gf and her family at first they were a lot different and things have changed but to make this short and simple me and my gf have been together for a while and I don’t want to leave her I simply feel as if that would even improve her moms relationship with her her mom constantly puts me down and NEVER I MEAN NEVER has the guts to ask me a question she always finds my gf to ask her questions she could simply ask me even if I’m sitting next to my gf she will still ask her hey does he want to eat and I find that very rude she’s been doing it for ads now she hates the fact I play basketball and also hates the fact that I work 30 hours at Cumberland farms as well as the fact that I play video games sometimes ...I am 19 am in college play basketball all year round work 30 hours and when I have some time I’ll play the game her mom is constantly miserable and I don’t want my gf to feed off of that which unfortunately has already started and I need help I think I want to leave this situation so I can know that I am welcome at least and am given a chance and not always shot down and talked badly about by her mom when not around

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • How to not awkwardly ask my gf for a foot job?

    I know my girlfriend for the most part is very open when it comes to some things but how do I ask her for this specific endeavor without making it sound Crazy or weird although I probably am for this but I just want her to still see me the same I and just interested in those and kinda wanna try it

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • How to handle my girlfriend being more high class than me?

    Well I’m order to understand my frustration it’s imperative I explain just a tiny background

    Well I live with her and her parents and have for the past year we’ve had our share of issues but nothing to major well as of recent she has had some trouble finding a car and it seemed hopeless for us as most cars were to dirty or too old or ya know something she wouldn’t get fought driving in that would make her look silly : fast forward and now it’s not even two days before college starts her mom decided it was a good idea which it was it’s just not how I imagined it happening anyway I get back and she goes hey I’m getting a brand new car I say how and lost with confusion anyway I say hey what kind she says me and my mom went to Toyota and Then she said I’m getting a 2019 Toyota Corolla tommrow I said wait hold on huh after all this time you could t find a car and this is how you get one by your mom just leasing a car 2019 like it’s no big deal but that’s just one of the spoon fed moments she has had and it’s very unsettling bcuz I am a super hard worker and to see her get everything she wants sucks bcuz I always feel less than her and perfect example when she was driving my 2005 Nissan Altima decent car and I will get a new one when I’m ready anyway she said it was hesitant to turn on and she couldn’t wait until she had a new car I said wow don’t be so mean about it just because my car isn’t brand new and perfect like hers I try really hard but I can’t do much at this point!

    7 AnswersFamily2 years ago
  • I need help with a ticket I got?

    I got a ticket around Halloween and it was an unfortunate ticket and recently in September I had just turned 18 and I’m still in high school I have the ticket which was 44 in a 40mph zone yea like I said very unfortunate, but I got the trial to be adjourned until tommrow which is the 13th of December and I didn’t expect this to happen I play high school basketball and we originally had a game on Tuesday and due to the weather we didn’t have school today so we didn’t have a game and it JUST MY LUCK got postponed until tommrow when I have the trial at 6:30 and the game at 6 and it’s a game I can’t really afford to miss I like in upstate New York is there any way that I can call them tommrow or ask to come in another time to be able to make this game which I do need to make I’m honestly kinda scared and need to make this game but don’t want to get into more trouble

    2 AnswersLaw & Ethics3 years ago
  • want to transfer high schools due to sports?

    I am good at basketball and for the last three years my team has been very bad but I have always done my best putting up 14.5 points per game 7 rebounds and 5 assist and I am actually going to the further away school from me one is 4 miles away an the one I currently attend is 6 miles away but I am headed into my senior year and want to go to the other school as the year winds Down I have taken a look back and the season was bad my team sucked I did good but I want to go where they play like a team and where they want to win so I told my parents and they said well you'll be letting your team down next year because they are depending on me but none of them are like me and don't want to play college ball I DO and I want to go to the right school that will help me put myself out there and win and go to sectionals and states so I'm not chilling at home with losers I really want to win and this won't really affect my family st all we can stay in the same spot my sister will go to my previous high school and I'll go to another is all whicn happens a lot so plz help do I sound unreasonable or no I'm just trying to get good for college is all

    3 AnswersFamily3 years ago
  • Does this girl like me?

    I asked my friend a girl to go to my basketball tournament and for a while everybody wants me to ask her out and she is coming tommrow but should I ask her out and could this be a sign she likes me bcuz she is willing to go but there's not many other signs besides she brought me an iced coffee the other day and she's bringing me brownies to the game is all plz help

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • How to deal with an annoying person I live in the same house as me specifically my sister?

    My sister is 13 I'm 16 we have had problems for years I just ignore her now she is very rude and my mom still hasn't talked some REAL SENSE INTO HER HEAD YET so for example when I do try to talk to her like I'll say I like chocolate chip cookies and she will say ehhh not really a fan I really like peanut butter but then a week later I could say I like peanut butter better than chocolate chip now it's really good she will say my friends told me chocolate chip is good so I like that now so like she always tries to be different and when I get something good like wifi or my Xbox one or a new phone then she's my best friend for a day then goes back to the not talking to me and when she does makes up have every difference possible how to deal with this plzzzzz help it kinda stresses me out I would like to just ignore her but my mom gets mad when I do

    1 AnswerFamily5 years ago
  • How do I tell my gf this without causing any chaos?

    Okay my gf is a very lucky girl and she tells me lots of reasons she loves me and stuff btw we are both 16 but okay so she says there's no way she will leave me but how do I tell her I live in a trailer no I'm not trailer trash or trailer park it's a trailer near other normal houses and stuff but she thinks that I'm rich and I'm a popular kid in school I have nice shoes play basketball and am a star but how do I tell her that I don't want her to leave me Bcuz of that she thinks I have an upstairs and downstairs and I don't is a nice trailer but to her is nothing Imean she just literally upgraded her phone to the iPhone 6s+ and she is very wealthy se isn't rich but her family has no worries I just want to know how do I break this down to her Imean i have things like her though iPhone 5 and. Nice things I just don't want where I live to change her thought on me and ruin our relationship plzzzz help and real answers and thoroughly answered plz😀 Imean girls I'm looking for to answer more Bcuz what would you think if you br live in one but kinda had a nice living situation was neat and it wasn't disgusting around it it's super neat we have chickens in backyard though but his feel free to answer as well 😎

    6 AnswersFriends5 years ago
  • Does this sounds sketchy or should I be kinda understanding?

    There's on girl Rachel who like me we both like each other we talk all the time and se knows I'm going to ask her out until she told me her ex boyfriend was going to come visit her in a week and I was going to ask her out before then but then again my friend Sammie who also liked me and who I liked last year even said to me ex boyfriends don't do that so I'm kinda maybe reconsidering should I ask Rachel or Sammie like the only thing with me and Rachel is we already talked for a while but what do you peeps think seriously real help plz it's kinda critical for some ideas

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • My gf broke up with me but her reasoning was kind of off plz help I can't imagine life without her?

    Here's what she said

    "I meant that all my relationships never last to or more than 2 months and Sometimes that's my fault and its because so much is always going on and changing and I'm always changing and its so hard to stay in a relationship because now Adays I've shut down so much of me I can't give enough to people and I know you want a relationship like Stephen Curry's and I know something like that can't happen with someone like me ...Because I can't do that a relationship like that would require giving all of you to that person and I can't do that, I promised myself that I wouldn't be like my mom...I'm sorry I can't be with you I really wish i could...You will, your a great guy and I know you'll get someone just as great...Great things only last so long in my life and if I can do good for myself that's all I'll need..." Now please help really it's hard getting txt messages like to break up with me I really cared about her and wanted to help her plzzzz help

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • My girlfriend broke up with me?

    My gf said to me this exactly "I'm sorry to do this like this but I think we should break up, because I don't think we're a good match for each other. We're always fighting and I think you deserve someone better who can keep a long relationship. I want you in my life but I don't think it's a good idea to be together as a couple. I'm really sorry then she said "I didn't want it to end like this or this early.... I just can't do this to you no more and then "I'm always fighting with you and besides you need someone in your life who can hold a long relationship, I can't do that I mean I haven't been able to do that...... I still want you in my life though ....that is word for word all the stuff she said but I'm confused on why what she means and we don't really fight that often then she said I wish we could go out in sorry we can't plz help is it to late to get her back or do I still have a chance

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Do girls like their earlobe slightly licked or bitten?

    My gf and I make out but when we do ik it may just be bcuz she like it actually she tells me she does I bite her ear but she goes nuts when I do she wraps her legs around me right and grips my back with her hands or scratches me and breathes very heavily but I wanna know is there a limit to doing it how often should I imean I try to mix in some neck kissing and stuff but I don't want her to get bored with the same things help please

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • How to have fun with my girlfriend plz help I'm running out of time?

    I recently asked her out like a week am a half ago we gat along but she's been to my house like 4x but it's so boring I don't have internet no wifi or a computer as to where she does but by no means is rich at all basically just like me just and iphone 6 and stuff but there's almost nothing to do at my house what are some ideas to do bcuz I really feel like she's going to get bored with me them break up with me plz help and I live in a trailer it's a nice trailer but we don't have cable there are a few houses nearby but not many a store almost a city block away from us it's in the country we are both 15 plzzZzzz help me

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • What should could me and my gf not do to be bored need answers before noon tommorow?

    I recently asked her out like a week am a half ago we gat along but she's been to my house like 4x but it's so boring I don't have internet no wifi or a computer as to where she does but by no means is rich at all basically just like me just and iphone 6 and stuff but there's almost nothing to do at my house what are some ideas to do bcuz I really feel like she's going to get bored with me them break up with me plz help

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Why are a few cute ways to ask a girl out I'm a sophomore in high school?

    So this girl we have hung out a few times outside of school we always text each other we both know we like each other a lot it's just now since she knows she wants higher expectations and said when I ask her out make it cute but just by tht now I'm nervous tht anything I try won't be cute I was going to get her a heart with chocolates in it or write a very clever note I have for her but it's in person and she already knows so any idea please she's coming TOMMOROW

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Do you think she likes me ?need help?

    This girl I met in the beginning of the school year we are both freshman she and I halfway through the year got our seats changed so now we are closer talk a lot more I one day was talking to her she said I'm going to great escape and I told her she wouldn't get on certain rides bcuz she was scared so then she says well you don't have a snapchat I said so I have a phone number so now we text and talk a lot any time we can really buy now she really is expressive she tells me things she doesn't tell other people and I do the same she wants me to go to the movies with her and also and talents shows our sisters were in so now she wants to hang out for real out side of school she wants to come over to my house ..BUT I live in a trailer not a park but a trailer it's nice looking it's quite big but if she does like me I don't want her to think I'm a bum or anything I wear kds stephen currys lots of big name shoes but I'm just afraid she will not like me if she sees this and thts if she does

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Does what does this possibly mean she likes me ??help?

    This girl I met in the beginning of the school year we are both freshman she and I halfway through the year got our seats changed so now we are closer talk a lot more I one day was talking to her she said I'm going to great escape and I told her she wouldn't get on certain rides bcuz she was scared so then she says well you don't have a snapchat I selaid so I have a phone number so now we text and talk a lot any time we can really buy now she really is expressive she tells me things she doesn't tell other people and I do the same she wants me to go to the movies with her and also and talents shows our sisters were in so now she wants to hang out for real out side of school she wants to come over to my house ..BUT I live in a trailer not a park but a trailer it's nice looking it's quite big but if she does like me I don't want her to think I'm a bum or anything I wear kds stephen currys lots of big name shoes but I'm just afraid she will not like me if she sees this and thts if she does

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago