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  • My 5 year old ANXIOUS about dirt?

    He's never really liked being dirty but lately he's been SUPER anxious and upset about any little spec of dirt on him at any time. Idk what to do because its like every little spec and he can barely enjoy his childhood because if it. Why does happen? And what can i do about it?  

    1 AnswerPsychology3 months ago
  • Personalized meal plan app?

    Is there an app or something that i can use for weight loss based on foods that i like? Like one where i can start off by telling it what i do and dont like and then it creates a meal plan for me based around that? I have lost 13 pounds so far but i feel it's been a struggle with having to guess what is good and not good for me besides the obvious. I have no idea what a good diet is like and what to buy. I know... no soda, not so much sugar, easy on carbs, etc but i would like to see examples of acceptable foods that i know i like, etc. 

    1 AnswerDiet & Fitness4 months ago
  • Personalized diet app?

    Is there an app or something that i can use for weight loss based on foods that i like? Like one where i can start off by telling it what i do and dont like and then it creates a diet plan for me based around that? I have lost 13 pounds so far but i feel it's been a struggle with having to guess what is good and not good for me besides the obvious. I have no idea what a good diet is like and what to buy. I know... no soda, not so much sugar,  easy on carbs, etc but i would like to see examples of acceptable foods that i know i like, etc. 

    Diet & Fitness4 months ago
  • Can you audio train your brain to relax throughout fear?

    Example being... I have an INTENSE phobia of bees, wasps and hornets. The first and most likely thing that will cause me to panic is the sound of them buzzing at me. Now i had dabbled in going to hypnotherapy and it helped a little but it opened up my mind to some other similar ideas. Because i had noticed that hummingbirds made a similar sound when flying because of their high speed wings. And that after an increased population of hummingbirds on my property, the sound bothered me quite a bit less. I wondered then how i could connect the dots but it occured to me that you could kind of train your brain to relax while hearing normally panic inducing sounds. My first idea was that i could turn on sounds of bees buzzing as i slept at night because it seems to me that if i related the sound of bees to a relaxed state of mind, that i could use that as a sort of exposure therapy and overcome my irrational first reaction to bees. But i am not a psychologist and i could be making the problem worse. I dont know if manipulating myself is a terrific plan. So before i try that, is that a good idea? And does anyone have any more thoughts on the topic?

    8 AnswersPsychology11 months ago
  • Why i still sometimes smell insulin?

    So i used to give my diabetic ex bf his insulin and i noticed it had a smell. It doesn't smell like anything else. Just insulin smell. Sometimes now, even when there's no diabetic person in sight, i catch a wiff of insulin. What's that about? What else smells like that? Am i even supposed to be able to smell that? Lol

    4 AnswersDiabetes11 months ago
  • Carpal tunnel? Arthritis? Something else?

    For anyone who has had arthritis or carpal tunnel or arthritis, what's it feel like in the beginning? For a little over a week, I've had an almost unnoticeable amount of tightness/soreness in my right thumb/wrist. But since yesterday, it has been so much worse. I can't grip my hair straightener and it hurts to do daily normal tasks like that. I'm having trouble texting and it hurts when i hook my thumb around my pants rim to pull my pants up. It hurts it to hold the wipe when im wiping after using the bathroom. There's also a mild heat/tingle in the morning. Opinions? Personal experiences?

    4 AnswersPain & Pain Management2 years ago
  • How to bring out the MASTER in your man?

    So... no innocent eyes should read this. I was just wondering how to make your man want to be dominate in bed? I love to be submissive and does he but i absolutely CRAVE the master in him. I can see that it's possible but i wanted to know.if there is any tips for really bringing it to the surface?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Loose 3cm dialated and lost mucus plug, etc so how much longer until labor?

    The doctor saw me 2 days ago and says i am a very loose 3cm dialated and the babies head is way down and ready. I was losing my mucus plug at that moment. It was green and chunky and he said that was fine. But he seemed suprised i wasn't going into labor at that moment and he told me he didn't think I'd make it to next weeks appt. I am now 39 weeks and 5 days along. And i have tons of braxton hicks. How long could it be?

    1 AnswerPregnancy5 years ago
  • How long after you lost your mucous plug did you go into labor?

    I am 39 weeks today and every morning for about a week, I've had alot of clear discharge and today i had a bit of yellowish snotty discharge after some clear discharge. If i am 39 weeks and this is happening, it could be really soon right? The baby has already dropped and last time dr checked, i was 2cm dialated. I've had pressure and pain in the pelvic/pubic area for a while too. Baby is so ready to cone out but he hasn't yet :( So... wondering how your labor started? What symptoms were you having shortly beforehand? Etc.

    1 AnswerPregnancy5 years ago
  • Kitten SUDDENLY doesnt want to be touched?

    We just got this kitten 5 days ago and every day we've had him, he's LOVED attention and play time but today... he meows like he doesn't like it whenever we touch him or pick him up. He's sleeping alot and won't play much. We can't figure out what's wrong with him all the sudden. What i do know is that he usually cries when he uses the litterbox and he had worms when we got him but we treated it already. He's somewhere between 6 and 8 weeks old i believe. We don't understand this sudden behavior and we are worried. We bonded with his really fast and he's usually the opposite of this way. Idk if it matters but also he sleeps with us and my bf rolled over on him a little bit last night. I really don't think it was long or hard enough to hurt the kitten though. Please help.

    9 AnswersCats6 years ago
  • IMPORTANT question about insurance covering obgyn visits?

    I am seeing an obgyn for my pregnancy who takes my insurance and they are the only one who takes it around here. But they want to send me to a hospital to deliver that SUCKS and almost killed several of my friends children and didn't wear gloves, etc. The doctor said in order to have her as my obgyn i have to deliver in that awful hospital. So it makes me want to just agree and then go to a better hospital that still takes my insurance. Why can't i do that? Will the obgyn i had been seeing then bill me for my visits or will my insurance still have covered those visits? What would happen if i did that? Please i need to know so bad!

    8 AnswersInsurance6 years ago
  • A little over 12 weeks pregnant and baby is 14cm?

    Is that normal? Or is it possible that the due date is wrong? Im worried because everyone is saying thats wayy huge for this stage but the doctor didn't say anything about it.

    3 AnswersPregnancy6 years ago
  • NEED a place to live on my own with no job..?

    So...I am living with a friend but they are gonna kick me out. Soon I will have NO place to go. I will be homeless and im 20 with no job. I have been trying desperatly to get a job but right now I don't have one and im gonna be homeless so I don't know what to do. I get $189 on food stamps and free health insurance from SS so they have been helping a little. What can I do now though? Can SS help me get a place to stay in on my own? And also...I can't drive due to an anxiety disorder.. I feel like im please?

    3 AnswersLaw & Ethics6 years ago
  • I got small specs of cork inside my wine. Ok to drink?

    Urg. My cork like...crumbled basically cuz I ghetto opened it lol and anyway I picked out the big chunks but there's still some like..specs of it in there that I can't get out. Is it ok to drink anyway?? Its classic golf wine if that matters..

    1 AnswerBeer, Wine & Spirits7 years ago
  • Do you think gay relationships cause more insecurities?

    Im a 20 year old bisexual female. I am generally insecure but I can get over it with men for the most part. However, im too afraid to get completely naked infront of a woman. I just wondered, do you think its generally this way with gay couples vs straight couples?? Or is it just me? If so, why? I've had quite the trauma with men in the past if that matters. And don't say its beause I might be straight because trust me, darling im not lol I loooove having a naked woman all over me and going down on her, etc but for me its terrible anxiety getting naked...

  • My cat has serious abandonement issues for no reason?

    My 4 and a half month old male cat, Koda has always been raised by us since birth and we treat him good just as we do our other cat and our dog. We feed him, bathe him, play with him, pet him, change his litter box, etc. But for some odd reason he becomes absolutely TERRIFIED when anyone leaves the room. He will stand at whatever door the exited and meow very loudly for a long time and he acts in a anxious manner (like he paws at the ground and bites the rug or paces back and forth). There's nothing medically wrong with him either. We just can't figure out why he's so terrified of being alone. I don't think he's ever been through anything traumatizing while left alone. Its really sad and I wondered if anybody might know why he's like this? :/ Every 2 saturdays, the whole family leaves the house for a few hours to go grocery shopping and I can't stop thinking of what he's doing/feeling when he's all alone like that because most of the time, someones here to comfort him when someone else leaves. Help?

    5 AnswersCats7 years ago
  • Cant find any site that lets me watch all of Marai Nikki, the anime?

    Im trying to watch Marai Nikki (future diary) but I cant find all the episodes and parts anywhere!!! I tried youtube, Netflix,, etc. and cant find it where I can watch it all. Anybody know where I can? :( im on episode 4.

    3 AnswersComics & Animation7 years ago
  • What can having no privacy do to you psychologically?

    I know people who complain about not having locks on their doors at like...age 16. But, I am 20 and most of my life here at home with my parents/sister, I havnt had a room. I sleep in the livingroom on the couch. I never get ANY privacy because although my sister is still in highschool and dad goes to work, mom stays home all the time, all day, everyday. She snoops through my phone, goes to my friends and asks them what im doing/talking about with them and constantly looking for hints about my personal business. Im made to do ABSOLUTELY everything around this house while my sister does nothing at all. By the way, my sister is also always 2 inches away from my neck with her breath. Its driving me insane. Im about to move out next month or so but I wanted to know what this. Could have done to me all these years, psychologically. Especially asking because I already have boundary issues such as past sexual abuse experiences with family members when I was growing up. Im constantly parenoid that someones going to "touch" me or invade my privacy. I can't even use the bathroom/take a bath alone. For most of my life, there wasn't a lock on the bathroom door and everyone would just bust in on whatever im doing and start doing their own sh*t while im still in there and then most likely cuss at me for getting mad about it. I hold down alot of anger. ALOT. Im concerned now about what should be normal for me to think/feel. So...I ask of you, what can constant invasion of privacy do to you psychologically? At its worst and best?

    3 AnswersPsychology7 years ago
  • Trying to find what stores, etc are surrounding this condo I want to rent?

    I found everything I needed to know about it except what businesses are around it. I've tried looking on google for it and I cant find what I need to find. I want to know whats around it before visiting so I can see if its worth visiting because im in Maryland, tryring to move to PA and want to know what jobs are nearby the condo first. Any suggestions on how to find that out? I called the place it said to call even and the lady doesn't know.

    3 AnswersRenting & Real Estate7 years ago