• I would like advice on moving?

    I’m 20 years old and am struggling with the decision of moving from Colorado to California. I was born and raised in California and all my family except my stepfather, mom, and little brother live there. My mom raised me she was basically both my mom and dad. The reason I would like to leave is for a change as well... show more
    I’m 20 years old and am struggling with the decision of moving from Colorado to California. I was born and raised in California and all my family except my stepfather, mom, and little brother live there. My mom raised me she was basically both my mom and dad. The reason I would like to leave is for a change as well as my grandparents are doing so well and I would like to be with them. I’m stuck between both as I would like to leave Colorado to be with the rest of my family or stay in Colorado and live with my mom who is everything to me. I want both choices but know I must make one.
    10 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • As a child (or maybe after) did you ever do the Saltine Cracker Ball?

    So I m trying to prove that this is a natural occurring phenomenon for the sake of science. I also wanna convince my boyfriend that I m not weird. For clarification the Saline Cracker Ball is where you chew up saltine crackers then spit them out. You do this repeatedly until you have a great big wad of saltiness... show more
    So I m trying to prove that this is a natural occurring phenomenon for the sake of science. I also wanna convince my boyfriend that I m not weird. For clarification the Saline Cracker Ball is where you chew up saltine crackers then spit them out. You do this repeatedly until you have a great big wad of saltiness mush. Then you eat your giant cracker ball. Thoughts?
    11 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Losing my virginity, what should I wear ?

    So, I still have a while to plan this out, but yes. I’m losing my virginity to my boyfriend of 2 years, (going to be going on 3 when it happens) on my 16th birthday, and I’m very excited, and have no idea what to wear ? I was thinking my Date bra and panty set from Victoria secret PINK, but should I wear lingerie... show more
    So, I still have a while to plan this out, but yes. I’m losing my virginity to my boyfriend of 2 years, (going to be going on 3 when it happens) on my 16th birthday, and I’m very excited, and have no idea what to wear ? I was thinking my Date bra and panty set from Victoria secret PINK, but should I wear lingerie like that ? Or just keep on casual underwear. Also for clothes on top of lingerie, what’s best ? Leggings, skirts, jeans ? I know many people will think I’m too young, but I know personally I’m ready. I’ll also be on birth control when it happens. These days, most people do have sex young. It’s not that uncommon. As long as I’m ready and protected there’s no issue :) I’ve also done masturbation for a few years now, so I’ve done self exploration lol. Basically all I’m asking here, is tips on outfit choices. And anything I should be cautious about much first time. I can wear tampons, and finger myself fine, so I’m not worried about pain, or my hymen. Sorry if that’s tmi lmao.
    36 answers · 3 weeks ago
  • If I am close to my Dad should I still cut him out of my life?

    Best answer: You don't have to cut him out, just keep your distance and see him now and then.
    Best answer: You don't have to cut him out, just keep your distance and see him now and then.
    6 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • No sex..no love.....work my *** off to fund alcoholic partner.....somethings Gotta give?

    Hi..Been with partner 4 years. ...his drinking and attitude getting worse...went from nice guy to lazy alcoholic who drinks every day and sleeps it off while I work my butt off and do two jobs ((supervisor role))...no household stuff done...rarely Cook a meal for me...Just watches TV and passes out every night...... show more
    Hi..Been with partner 4 years. ...his drinking and attitude getting worse...went from nice guy to lazy alcoholic who drinks every day and sleeps it off while I work my butt off and do two jobs ((supervisor role))...no household stuff done...rarely Cook a meal for me...Just watches TV and passes out every night... im teetotal and currently awaiting hospital results for illness. ..im 200 mile from family and close friends (tf for internet)..ive lost almost a stone in weight recently and tired. As for sex...He's not interested although I'm fairly attractive ...its like living with a lump of stone..do I throw him on his *** and move on or give one more chance ????? ((PS he doesn't see any problem..denial.....
    10 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • My mother keeps criticizing me?

    I am 23 yo and came to Canada from Europe alone over 5 years ago. I finished a college program here and now work in my field. I do not depend from my family financially, but my mother is always pressuring me with thing like:” You need to obtain a better diploma, you have to be successful, you have to find a job... show more
    I am 23 yo and came to Canada from Europe alone over 5 years ago. I finished a college program here and now work in my field. I do not depend from my family financially, but my mother is always pressuring me with thing like:” You need to obtain a better diploma, you have to be successful, you have to find a job thag would make you more money, you have to bla bla bla bla”. No real advice, just the critics. What is more, she is criticizing my music taste saying that it is too primitive (I like electronic/trance music). We have really big conflicts over Skype regarding all that stuff. Sometimes it feels like she doesn’t accept who I am that makes me feel really sad and embarrassed. How to deal with that? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04
    10 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • My older sister collapsed?

    Best answer: 911 don't adults teach kids this stuff anymore? Lay her on her side. If she's got anything on like eyeglasses for example remove them. Move furniture away from her. Loosen her clothing if possible. Do not insert any objects in her mouth because that will do more damage. She will be confused for a while by... show more
    Best answer: 911 don't adults teach kids this stuff anymore? Lay her on her side. If she's got anything on like eyeglasses for example remove them. Move furniture away from her. Loosen her clothing if possible. Do not insert any objects in her mouth because that will do more damage. She will be confused for a while by the way because she had a seizure. When the brain misfired she went down and began to shake. Talk to her calmly. If she has any others take notes and pay attention to how long each one lasts. Anything longer than 5 minutes is a true medical emergency. Get your neighbors over there at the very least if you can call them over. Stay by her.
    6 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • How is banning abortions helpful?

    Best answer: It is never helpful. Women will just seek out more dangerous ways of getting rid of the baby. If a woman does not want a baby she should have the right to a legal abortion.
    Best answer: It is never helpful. Women will just seek out more dangerous ways of getting rid of the baby. If a woman does not want a baby she should have the right to a legal abortion.
    12 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is just to be disapproved my relationship from my parents in this situation?

    I have a boy friend that I have been meeting for 4 months. And I m 20. He is from bali, indonesia. And I am from south korea. I was living together in his house during that time, which i slept with him already. And also which I don t regret. But the problem is when I came back to korea My parents are quite shocked... show more
    I have a boy friend that I have been meeting for 4 months. And I m 20. He is from bali, indonesia. And I am from south korea. I was living together in his house during that time, which i slept with him already. And also which I don t regret. But the problem is when I came back to korea My parents are quite shocked already about that I slept with him. And strongly disapprove with relationship with him because they think he will maluse of me when it comes to money. As he was born in a quite poor house. Also because he has a lot of tattos. They disapprove in a lot of senses and never let me go back, especially in the sense of i will live with him when I go there and if I leave for him they say they will disown me What I feel sad is that I want to consider it just love not related to money or things like that. He tries to earn his own money with his own corporate. And also said that He will travel with me when he has enough money as My dream was travelling around the world. I of course love as the way he is regardless of tattoos, or financial status, or family background. But i feel my parents look at him with too much prejudices about that country, which i don t really understand. I am sad that they seem to think about him too slyly,, which I just wanna consider just as love. Do you think it s too much if I just leave them and live my life ? Or just follow my parents and forget him? I want to know how this looks from 3rd party. I want to hear your opinion. Thanks
    10 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Did I react appropriately when my neighbor hounded me about why I don't want children?

    A few days ago overheard(and seen) my dad talk to my neighbor in the garage. These neighbors are grandparents and had one child being pushed in the stroller and another one holding the grandfather's hand. The woman asks my father: "So, Gary, when are you going to get the chance to do this?" (If age... show more
    A few days ago overheard(and seen) my dad talk to my neighbor in the garage. These neighbors are grandparents and had one child being pushed in the stroller and another one holding the grandfather's hand. The woman asks my father: "So, Gary, when are you going to get the chance to do this?" (If age helps in this situation, I'm 26. I know, a lot of people seem to be in their late 20's on this site) My father sighs and said "I've just about given up on that. My daughter has never shown any interest in dating and she's absolutely against having children." The woman immediately starts freaking out. If I was asked this question, I would have worded it a lot better than my father had and said "I don't see children in my future, but I have a lot of plans for myself and children just don't fit into it." Or something along those lines. Later when I was making my way to my car, this neighbor hounds on me and yells at me that I am breaking my father's heart, and that I will live the rest of my life alone if I do not find a man to love me (which I don't want) and a family to take care of. If I don't, I will not have a real purpose, know what it means to be a woman, and I will socially isolate my parents. I took a deep breath and said: "First of all, my uterus is not a rental home and I do not need to have children because it is expected of me and because others want me to. If my parents are afraid of the future, they need to find hobbies to keep themselves occupied." -cont-
    12 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Why are christians dumb ?

    Best answer: In every situation where it looks like a Christian is stupid, ask yourself: Is it more likely that they're simply PLAYING stupid, in order to deliberately do something cruel, or evil? I've found that the answer is usually "yes". Perhaps your mom knows exactly what CBD oil is (and this is the... show more
    Best answer: In every situation where it looks like a Christian is stupid, ask yourself:

    Is it more likely that they're simply PLAYING stupid, in order to deliberately do something cruel, or evil?

    I've found that the answer is usually "yes". Perhaps your mom knows exactly what CBD oil is (and this is the internet age, so of course she does) and just wants to try to get you arrested because she's a prick?
    14 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is it wrong to disown your daughter if you found out she was a prostitute?

    Best answer: We all have to make money somehow. i have no idea what i'd do, i don't even have a daughter.
    Best answer: We all have to make money somehow. i have no idea what i'd do, i don't even have a daughter.
    12 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • As a 22 year old, is it normal to find my 16 year old cousin extremely immature and sometimes annoying?

    She and her friends don’t communicate openly if they’re mad at each other. Instead, they start drama and tell half-truths. Yet she’ll argue with her mom that she is NOT a child, but rather adult. Speaking of that, she has fantasized ideas about adulthood. It’s been her ongoing obsession since the girl was 12 years... show more
    She and her friends don’t communicate openly if they’re mad at each other. Instead, they start drama and tell half-truths. Yet she’ll argue with her mom that she is NOT a child, but rather adult. Speaking of that, she has fantasized ideas about adulthood. It’s been her ongoing obsession since the girl was 12 years old. She only imagines buying whatever she wants and going nightclubbing. Oddly enough — my cousin thinks that a PART TIME job will solve the financial stuff, and school won’t stress her out. She doesn’t really think abstractly when it comes to adulthood itself, but just thinks of it as freedom and having to do little stuff that she already does (little jobs) to manage it. Her friends are like this as well. Overall, some of them are sweet and loving when they’re ALONE and I’m able to have conversations with them. But when they’re in a group, it becomes a teenage mess and they act like annoying children. To sum it up — they act like children who lack communication skills and have no idea how hard life might get when they’re in college.
    8 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Why does my mom say its sad how desperate i am to get out of church this weekend ?

    My grandma is coming to visit and she always drags us to church my dad said " I'm not going to be here this weekend I'm going fishing" so i said" take me with you" then my mom said " but you hate fishing" so i said " yea but i hate church more and it will give me the... show more
    My grandma is coming to visit and she always drags us to church my dad said " I'm not going to be here this weekend I'm going fishing" so i said" take me with you" then my mom said " but you hate fishing" so i said " yea but i hate church more and it will give me the perfect opportunity to try out my new camera" so dad said " sure you can come" then my mom said" its sad how desperate you are to get out of church".
    8 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • How to convince my family to take me on an overseas vacation?

    so this sort of relates to my other ask (https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20180906201215AAT9S2i) but this one is a bit more normal. i really want to meet my datefriend (my parents don't know we're dating tho) for the first time, and i'd really like to go to the alton towers theme park with... show more
    so this sort of relates to my other ask (https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index... but this one is a bit more normal. i really want to meet my datefriend (my parents don't know we're dating tho) for the first time, and i'd really like to go to the alton towers theme park with them. like i said in that other ask, it really is taking over me with what i've found is called 'fernweh', or 'farsickness' so the question is, how do i convince my mom and/or my dad to take me on a long trip to england? here are my ideas [but i desperately need more] 1. make sure to ask for dates during the summer, so i won't miss school 2. my mom is a travel agent, so casually mention the discounts she gets on hotel rooms and/or airline tickets 3. see if my datefriend's parents have extra rooms, and then "maybe we can stay at their place instead of buying hotel rooms" 4. casually mention alton towers as "a really cool theme park we should visit", not necessarily the #1 much needed destination. 5. repeat over and over that ive made 90-103 on all of my tests [103 on a science test i thought i would fail bless] so, how do you feel about those? anything else i can do? please and thank you!
    11 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Why do people get upset when their family member dies?

    I really dont understand what the big deal is when someone dies. I have never experienced sadness when anyone in my family died. I just read an article written by a young woman about how she was so hysterically sobbing when she found out her brother had hung himself that she actually got physically sick (like to... show more
    I really dont understand what the big deal is when someone dies. I have never experienced sadness when anyone in my family died. I just read an article written by a young woman about how she was so hysterically sobbing when she found out her brother had hung himself that she actually got physically sick (like to her stomach) and how her heart "broke into a million pieces". I really don't see what the big deal is- I mean she was in her twenties so they didnt see each other everyday anyways- and it doesn't really impact her life directly. I actually get more upset about things that directly impact my life than when a family member dies. I have never experienced grief before. But why is this such a bad thing what happened to her? I mean people come and go in your life all the time- like you live with a roommate for a year and then they move out and you never see them again. People dont cry over that - how is what happened to her any different?
    8 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • My Dad is an ignorant man, will he ever have a change or should I cut him out of my life?

    Best answer: I have not had any contact with my mother for years- I am better off and I suspect she is too. Nobody can say if he will change or not, but I suggest you lay it out and say I can not tolerate your (whatever bothers you) and that if he is not willing to work with you on it & respect your opinion then you are... show more
    Best answer: I have not had any contact with my mother for years- I am better off and I suspect she is too. Nobody can say if he will change or not, but I suggest you lay it out and say I can not tolerate your (whatever bothers you) and that if he is not willing to work with you on it & respect your opinion then you are sorry, but you will not be seeing him again.
    5 answers · 2 weeks ago