• Does it cost you anything to be nice?

    42 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do you feel obligated to help others?

    Best answer: Yes I do...there are some people in this world who are less fortunate than myself...
    Best answer: Yes I do...there are some people in this world who are less fortunate than myself...
    34 answers · 1 day ago
  • Are you a nasty person?

    22 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Do you take “buddy” and “sweetheart”as offensive?

    Best answer: Don't let the lunatic fringe ruin your day or your conversation.
    Best answer: Don't let the lunatic fringe ruin your day or your conversation.
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • If you're staying with someone as a guest (distant relatives, boyfriends family etc) is it acceptable to have a shower without asking them.?

    And is it okay to help yourself to water from their kitchen or to make yourself a snack? Surely they won't expect you to starve and be dirty during the stay?
    And is it okay to help yourself to water from their kitchen or to make yourself a snack? Surely they won't expect you to starve and be dirty during the stay?
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • If you feel a waiter is being creepy...??

    Do you still tip them? Is it okay to not tip them? I went out with my friends tonight and the waiter sat down at our table (while we were waiting for our other friend to show up) and started talking to us and ended up touching the water he brought out for our friend who was coming later (like putting a straw in it... show more
    Do you still tip them? Is it okay to not tip them? I went out with my friends tonight and the waiter sat down at our table (while we were waiting for our other friend to show up) and started talking to us and ended up touching the water he brought out for our friend who was coming later (like putting a straw in it and squeezing and putting the lemon in it.) but when she did come in, he did get rid of that water. However, we still thought he was acting very unprofessional. On top of this, he was hitting on the friend who came in late. He didn’t say anything that was considered vulgar but we were uncomfortable. But he did get our food right. At the time, we were trying to get out early because we felt uncomfortable and I never left a tip. My one friend gave him a dollar and my two other friends didn’t give him anything either. In the moment I wasn’t thinking too much of it, but right now I feel bad. I have never in my life not tipped a waiter/waitress.and I especially feel bad because he did not mess up our orders. He was just creepy and made us uncomfortable to the point where we wanted to leave early. I still feel really bad. I should have at least given him something. I don’t really know if I even really have question here I guess I’m just asking for what your thoughts are on this and I just wanted to let it all out because I feel bad about it
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Are Parisians rude or just blunt ? I couldn't tell?

    I can speak both English and French because I had lived in Quebec for a few years. Anyways this past summer I traveled to Paris for the first time and I noticed how different the people act around here. When I came in to the hotel there was a Frenchman in front of me trying to check in , however the credit card... show more
    I can speak both English and French because I had lived in Quebec for a few years. Anyways this past summer I traveled to Paris for the first time and I noticed how different the people act around here. When I came in to the hotel there was a Frenchman in front of me trying to check in , however the credit card machine was down and thus he could not pay with his card. The clerk said "My sincerest apology sir, the credit card machine is down", the Frenchman sarcastically replied "Oh no worries I'm very aware of all the hardships around here". I just chuckled and did not think too much of it. The next day I went into a cafe to buy lunch and the French lady waiting for her food impatiently said "do you want me to come for my food tomorrow?" to which the worker said "Oh no of course not im sorry i will hurry up with your food" and the lady said "then hurry up i don't have all day". I was fairly certain she was just being rude to the worker.. however everyone in the cafe who heard it didn't even act as if anything out of the ordinary had just occurred. Are french people just blunt or rude?
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why was the security at the store stalking me when I wasn't doing anything?

    I noticed this twice. Yesterday it looked like an 'undercover' security was following me around, he wore a black hat and polo shirt and seemed like he was on a bluetooth device and was watching and following me. I have NO idea what I could have done wrong since i was hardly even in there. I was doing... show more
    I noticed this twice. Yesterday it looked like an 'undercover' security was following me around, he wore a black hat and polo shirt and seemed like he was on a bluetooth device and was watching and following me. I have NO idea what I could have done wrong since i was hardly even in there. I was doing nothing wrong and literally minding my own business and i simply just walked in the store and noticed him. I'm a GIRL btw. Today at a different store, i noticed a similar situation. I was not doing anything and simply JUST walked in and like 2 minutes shortly after I saw a security walk over to look at me. I felt very insulted and uncomfortable. I left shortly after on both occasions. I'm no threat and never stole anything. Why is this happening? I NEVER did anything wrong. I wonder if its because of the way I dress or something? I'm a girl so what can I be doing wrong? They did not follow me out or check my bags or talk to me so I wonder what was this all about? I'm a good customer and always pay for my stuff. So i wonder WTF was I being treated this way? Help?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • If you saw someone steal from a store would you tell someone. This person is an African male who may bash you?

    Best answer: The race wouldn't matter to me, but I would call the police after the person had left.

    That way, they could find the person but without endangering me.
    Best answer: The race wouldn't matter to me, but I would call the police after the person had left.

    That way, they could find the person but without endangering me.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should this older gentleman be ignored around this high school girl, or not?

    Best answer: You should ask her how she feels about the situation. If she has a problem with it, talk to the manager, not her parents. If she is fine with it leave it alone. Her parents trust her to be able to handle a job and dealing with people so there's no reason to insert yourself in this by saying something to her... show more
    Best answer: You should ask her how she feels about the situation. If she has a problem with it, talk to the manager, not her parents. If she is fine with it leave it alone. Her parents trust her to be able to handle a job and dealing with people so there's no reason to insert yourself in this by saying something to her parents.
    22 answers · 4 days ago
  • Do you think this is really rude?

    So I'm sharing a house with my brother and his family. We share everything including the refrigerator. Well, the wife often would put signs on the food saying "This is for a party" "This is for so and so" I guess to tell me not to eat them. I find this pretty rude considering she never... show more
    So I'm sharing a house with my brother and his family. We share everything including the refrigerator. Well, the wife often would put signs on the food saying "This is for a party" "This is for so and so" I guess to tell me not to eat them. I find this pretty rude considering she never goes grocery shopping and never spends a dime on food even though my brother gives her a large allowance every month. She doesn't even throw out the trash cause she's apparently the Princess and I'm her servant. So how rude is this Beeeotch?
    52 answers · 5 days ago
  • How would you feel if someone you know felt this way about you?

    Best answer: To begin, no matter what you do people are going to talk about you. Have you ever lead anything - a club, a company, been in office? It’s impossible to be all things to all people - if you try that - you will never take a position on anything and can’t be depended on to get something accomplished. The best thing... show more
    Best answer: To begin, no matter what you do people are going to talk about you. Have you ever lead anything - a club, a company, been in office? It’s impossible to be all things to all people - if you try that - you will never take a position on anything and can’t be depended on to get something accomplished.
    The best thing you can do is to live by your virtues and also conduct your affairs with professionalism. Never do anything base that the wise would reprove.
    All that being said - the person felt a little left out. Was it validated or not? You could look at your self over the next few weeks and see if that was valid. Or ask some people that know you well who will speak frankly if that is an issue for you - but only ask them if you are prepared to hear things you may not like.
    In the end - no one is perfect. But the world can always use some kindness and paying it forward. And you have to think for your self.
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why are some elderly so entitled and rude?

    Best answer: Generally when an old person is pushy and rude, the person was pushy and rude when young as well. It's not a matter of someone being old but a matter of someone being a SOB.

    Don't take it personally. And respond professionally no matter what the provocation.
    Best answer: Generally when an old person is pushy and rude, the person was pushy and rude when young as well. It's not a matter of someone being old but a matter of someone being a SOB.

    Don't take it personally. And respond professionally no matter what the provocation.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • What would you do, if you feel sleepy at the office/work place?

    Best answer: Make sure you're getting enough sleep and rest, like maybe start going to be earlier, maybe keep more regular hours. Look at what you're eating at work. I used to have to lunch on either fruit or salad plus nuts. If I ate carbohydrates, all I wanted to do was crawl under desk for a nap. Also look at your... show more
    Best answer: Make sure you're getting enough sleep and rest, like maybe start going to be earlier, maybe keep more regular hours.

    Look at what you're eating at work. I used to have to lunch on either fruit or salad plus nuts. If I ate carbohydrates, all I wanted to do was crawl under desk for a nap. Also look at your habits regarding coffee, sodas with caffeine, and other stimulants. And at your habits regarding depressants like alcohol, marijuana, sleeping pills, anxiety medications. Maybe only drink on Friday and Saturday when there is no work the next day.

    Get out of your chair and do some brisk walking at least once each hour. Can you walk the corridor fast for a full 2 minutes each time you take a bathroom break? Climb the stairs a few floors? Do some bending and stretching at your work station?
    11 answers · 2 days ago