• I was bullied in elementary by a big Brown guy. Now 10 years later I found that Brown bastard in college and he laughed at me?

    Back in elementary nobody cared about bullying. Everyone thought it was a game, not worth of attention. The truth is it traumatized me to the point I still have nightmares about it. 10 years later I found the same Brown bastard in college and he laughed at me. Should I buy a gun and kill him?
    Back in elementary nobody cared about bullying. Everyone thought it was a game, not worth of attention. The truth is it traumatized me to the point I still have nightmares about it. 10 years later I found the same Brown bastard in college and he laughed at me. Should I buy a gun and kill him?
    8 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Can antisocial people make friends?

    15 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Should I buy my depressed friend airline tickets?

    So here's the thing, he is very depressed to the point he was admitted to a mental hospital. I am one of he's close friends. I was thinking this Christmas I would get him airline tickets to visit me (we don't live in the same city) but problem is he has a crush on me and I only like him as a friend. I... show more
    So here's the thing, he is very depressed to the point he was admitted to a mental hospital. I am one of he's close friends. I was thinking this Christmas I would get him airline tickets to visit me (we don't live in the same city) but problem is he has a crush on me and I only like him as a friend. I don't want him to leave more heartbroken then before. But I do know visiting me will cheer him up. What to do??
    14 answers · 12 hours ago
  • My best friends dad hit on me what should I do?

    I know this is a weird question but I’m not sure what to do. My best friend invited me to go to her uncles because her family was drinking and having fun. My best friends dad started texting me and was like come over it would be so much fun we all love you and how he loves me so much and just creepy things and what... show more
    I know this is a weird question but I’m not sure what to do. My best friend invited me to go to her uncles because her family was drinking and having fun. My best friends dad started texting me and was like come over it would be so much fun we all love you and how he loves me so much and just creepy things and what time will I be arriving and just all this stuff. I thought it was kind of strange but I brushed it off and figured he was just drunk. I arrive and start taking shots and dancing with her little cousins just having fun. Her dad kept waving me to come outside but I kept ignoring it and because I started getting pretty uncomfortable with that I thought that was creepy and weird. He then stands by me in the kitchen and grabbed my butt like hard. It was so weird and it took me by surprise even her little cousin saw and gave the strangest look. I followed my best friend to the bathroom and I told her what happened and she freaked out. I decided to leave because I was so incredibly creeped out. Now I feel like not even wanting to hangout with my best friend or see her because I’m just so incredibly creeped out and I don’t think it will be the same when her and I hang out and I just feel so awful. I’ve had experiences in the past with older guys sexually assaulting me so it brought back some really bad vibes and now I just don’t know what I should do. I’m 18 and this man is like 50. Should I continue to hangout with my best friend or should I wait a while?
    23 answers · 4 days ago
  • Should I forgive my bully?

    I'm in 8th grade and this one kid has been bullying me since sixth grade. He just started to leave me alone. Some people keep saying I'm being stuck up for not forgiving him, telling me people make mistakes, etc. He would spread rumors of my being lesbian, try to hit me, call me hoe, slut, etc., even say he... show more
    I'm in 8th grade and this one kid has been bullying me since sixth grade. He just started to leave me alone. Some people keep saying I'm being stuck up for not forgiving him, telling me people make mistakes, etc. He would spread rumors of my being lesbian, try to hit me, call me hoe, slut, etc., even say he was going to kill me and a bunch of other crap. The school did nothing, so my "friends" think it wasn't that bad. Should I forgive him?
    24 answers · 3 days ago
  • My friends/old friends are calling me Gay. A.S.A.P.?

    I am in middle school and I don't want what frineds to call me Gay, which I am not. What should I do I need help? P.S. the most of the school thinks I am Gay. Please answer Asap
    I am in middle school and I don't want what frineds to call me Gay, which I am not. What should I do I need help? P.S. the most of the school thinks I am Gay. Please answer Asap
    8 answers · 51 mins ago
  • Why do people think I m annoying?

    Apparently 3 of my "friends" think I m "annoying" and they "don t like me". Yet they act completely friendly to my face. One of them is apparently only using me for car rides home, my best friend told me this. She also said that they didn t really have any examples to back up that... show more
    Apparently 3 of my "friends" think I m "annoying" and they "don t like me". Yet they act completely friendly to my face. One of them is apparently only using me for car rides home, my best friend told me this. She also said that they didn t really have any examples to back up that statement. Yes I realize this is petty and I shouldn t care but I m in high school so of course I do.
    8 answers · 3 hours ago
  • Does your appearance affect your ability to make friends?

    I don't mean how you dress or whether you go to school with a smile or a frown. I mean the face and body you were born with. I just find that most of the popular girls are really pretty. And its almost as if people respect pretty people more :( Like if a quiet, average looking girl talks to a pretty, outspoken... show more
    I don't mean how you dress or whether you go to school with a smile or a frown. I mean the face and body you were born with. I just find that most of the popular girls are really pretty. And its almost as if people respect pretty people more :( Like if a quiet, average looking girl talks to a pretty, outspoken girl, she talks to them with a meh expression. But then another pretty, popular girl comes along and suddenly she puts on this big smile and laughs at everything she says. It seems like those pretty girls put more of an effort when talking to popular girls but almost no effort to talk to us "average" girls. I really hate it ugh.
    10 answers · 22 hours ago
  • What does it mean when my bf says yes ma'am?

    Best answer: There are few words that trigger such a vehement reaction among midlifers than “ma’am.” We’re not sure why, except that it makes us feel old — or, at the very least, older than the person calling us “ma’am.” Much has been written about the use of “ma’am” — kids in the south are raised using the word as a term of... show more
    Best answer: There are few words that trigger such a vehement reaction among midlifers than “ma’am.” We’re not sure why, except that it makes us feel old — or, at the very least, older than the person calling us “ma’am.” Much has been written about the use of “ma’am” — kids in the south are raised using the word as a term of respect — but still the word sometimes makes us wince. Visit https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/10/being-called-maam_n_3881094.html
    We can't bash men for doing it, but maybe we can educate them so that they might remember to use Miss. I'm a woman ... ;o)
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is it too revealing?

    Is it too revealing?

    Best answer: No, not too revealing. 7, 7.5.
    Best answer: No, not too revealing. 7, 7.5.
    9 answers · 24 hours ago
  • How can I act more normal?

    I live with my older sister. I like her a lot. But she says I need to act differently than I do. She has so many parties at her place. She wants me to not go to my room during them but I dont like loud noise and I dont know the people. She also doesnt like that I dont have as many friends. I have 2 or 3 friends. I... show more
    I live with my older sister. I like her a lot. But she says I need to act differently than I do. She has so many parties at her place. She wants me to not go to my room during them but I dont like loud noise and I dont know the people. She also doesnt like that I dont have as many friends. I have 2 or 3 friends. I am not a social person. She wants me to stop chewing my nails as well. She says that I need to talk more as well. She also wants me to not act so anxious in public. I want to impress her but she is so judgey
    7 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Why is it difficult for me to make female friends?

    I’m a female. All my life it’s been hard for me to make a lot of female friends. I’m kinda shy & don’t talk much. I’m close minded sometimes and I don’t even know what to talk about. Is that the reason ?
    I’m a female. All my life it’s been hard for me to make a lot of female friends. I’m kinda shy & don’t talk much. I’m close minded sometimes and I don’t even know what to talk about. Is that the reason ?
    42 answers · 7 days ago
  • What do I do, I'm 16 my best friend is 18.?

    My bestfriend is 18 and I'm 16 and she wants to go out and have fun but I'm underage and cant, sometimes she makes plans without me and we have arguments about it. what can I do? I feel like I'm gunna get left behind, how do I stop her from wanting to go out?
    My bestfriend is 18 and I'm 16 and she wants to go out and have fun but I'm underage and cant, sometimes she makes plans without me and we have arguments about it. what can I do? I feel like I'm gunna get left behind, how do I stop her from wanting to go out?
    7 answers · 16 hours ago
  • My friend invited me to home and it was literally a hoarders den?

    I couldn’t stand for more than 5 minutes before I pretended I had an emergency text and I had to go. There was rotten food all over the place, cat turds and smell of urine just filling the atmosphere. Garbage piling all over the furniture and floors. Just complete filth. I can’t believe she lives like this and I’m... show more
    I couldn’t stand for more than 5 minutes before I pretended I had an emergency text and I had to go. There was rotten food all over the place, cat turds and smell of urine just filling the atmosphere. Garbage piling all over the furniture and floors. Just complete filth. I can’t believe she lives like this and I’m 9 months pregnant. There’s absolutely no way I could stand to be there to see her. What do I tell her? Should I ever say anything?
    6 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Should I message a girl that has a boyfriend, as long as it's appropiate?

    If it's just appropriate or friendly stuff like "Hello" "How are you" "What have you been doing lately". Is that ok?. Since I have female friends that have boyfriends and they dont care as long as I'm acting appropiate.
    If it's just appropriate or friendly stuff like "Hello" "How are you" "What have you been doing lately". Is that ok?. Since I have female friends that have boyfriends and they dont care as long as I'm acting appropiate.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • In love with my best friend’s ex?

    One of my best friends dated a girl in our senior year of high school. We became friends through that and even after they broke up in our freshman year of college, we stayed close and were tight. Now Im in my third year of college, and think that I’m in love with her. What should I do about this situation?
    One of my best friends dated a girl in our senior year of high school. We became friends through that and even after they broke up in our freshman year of college, we stayed close and were tight. Now Im in my third year of college, and think that I’m in love with her. What should I do about this situation?
    6 answers · 18 hours ago
  • How do I cope with a BFF cancer patient who wants me to do things against her family's wishes?

    I cannot afford to alienate her family from my life, and when I agree with them over her she gets mad at me. I am tired of being in between them, it's causing my Mom and I undue stress, we are both disabled and I am my Mom's sole caretaker. Just how much loyalty do I owe my sick friend if all this stress is... show more
    I cannot afford to alienate her family from my life, and when I agree with them over her she gets mad at me. I am tired of being in between them, it's causing my Mom and I undue stress, we are both disabled and I am my Mom's sole caretaker. Just how much loyalty do I owe my sick friend if all this stress is making my Mom and I sick? I am getting to the point where I don't want to see her anymore. Any advice?
    10 answers · 3 days ago