• Be honest, have you ever bullied someone?

    101 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why am I so alone if apparently I’m attractive?

    Best answer: Well, I just had to make a whole new yahoo account to answer your question because my old one didn’t work to answer this. Ok, so I am a sophomore in high School, hear me out. Attractive girls are very hard to approach. It’s very hard for me, I have to bite the bullet and go for it whenever talking to a girl. (Im... show more
    Best answer: Well, I just had to make a whole new yahoo account to answer your question because my old one didn’t work to answer this. Ok, so I am a sophomore in high School, hear me out. Attractive girls are very hard to approach. It’s very hard for me, I have to bite the bullet and go for it whenever talking to a girl. (Im actually a pretty attractive guy also). You’re not forever alone. You just have to work on social skills. It’s ok I promise. Think of every guy as if they want YOU. Guys pick up on it if a girl is insecure. If you start being more confident in yourself, (smiling, laughing, flirting, etc. I hope this helps, you’ll be fine. :)
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can I find my best friend from high school?

    I have been looking for him online for several years now, but I haven't been able to find him! I don't have a Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram etc. account. I have not seen him in nearly 16 years! I miss him and I often think of him! I heard he has moved to Canada, from mutual friends. But I am not in touch... show more
    I have been looking for him online for several years now, but I haven't been able to find him! I don't have a Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram etc. account. I have not seen him in nearly 16 years! I miss him and I often think of him! I heard he has moved to Canada, from mutual friends. But I am not in touch with any of them, either! I can't afford to hire a private detective! Anyways, can some please tell me how can I find him? I would really appreciate! Thank you.
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it unfair for someone to always push their religious views upon you?

    I’m only 17 and a friend of mine is crazy about god, Jesus and the bible as a whole. Every time I ask her advice about something she unloads all this “god will show you the path” and start reciting bible verses to me, and it’s all the time. I don’t disrespect others’ beliefs, but I’m just trying to get through my... show more
    I’m only 17 and a friend of mine is crazy about god, Jesus and the bible as a whole. Every time I ask her advice about something she unloads all this “god will show you the path” and start reciting bible verses to me, and it’s all the time. I don’t disrespect others’ beliefs, but I’m just trying to get through my life, learn my lessons, have fun, and get my studies done. I have not been brought up in a religious home, nor an atheist home, we just get on with our lives and help eachother through tough times. But I feel like she always unloads all of her religious beliefs on me, always tells me how she tries to get her friends “saved” and converted to christianity, and I feel kind of under pressure by her. Surely it’s not fair for her to try to “convert” me. Besides, it always ends up with her telling me for about an hour her journey with Jesus and it doesn’t involve me at all. And at the end of the day, I don’t want to be hearing that 24/7. Should I talk to her about it? Or will she think I’m being disrespectful and cut me off?
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • How often do you communicate with a girl in between second and third date?

    Best answer: Here's the thing: any time two people are seemingly interested in each other, there needs to be effort coming from both sides. This means that both of you should be putting forth the effort to communicate. It's great if you want to text her first from time-to-time, but also wait to see if she texts you... show more
    Best answer: Here's the thing: any time two people are seemingly interested in each other, there needs to be effort coming from both sides. This means that both of you should be putting forth the effort to communicate. It's great if you want to text her first from time-to-time, but also wait to see if she texts you first. If she's truly interested, she'll be initiating some of the communication. If she's not initiating the communication, then you're likely the only one interested here. What was her reasoning as to why she'd be so busy over the next couple of weeks? I wouldn't bring up "getting together" for a little while. She's the busy one, so let HER decide when she's ready to get together. Now again, if two weeks goes by and she doesn't bring up wanting to see you or spend time with you, then she's not on the same page as you and it might be best to let her go.
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why do I cry so easily?

    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why are middle school girls so horrible to each other?

    There is a pattern of behaviour in this age group. Suicide rates are increasing. It is usually not recommended for parents to let them on social media because they are most likely to engage in bullying. From experience, I think this is true. Middle school had the most bullies for me. Girls became cliquey,... show more
    There is a pattern of behaviour in this age group. Suicide rates are increasing. It is usually not recommended for parents to let them on social media because they are most likely to engage in bullying. From experience, I think this is true. Middle school had the most bullies for me. Girls became cliquey, materialistic, sensitive and cruel. Years later, I have child relatives who reached the tween years and even helped at a few middle schools for orientations. So far, NOTHING much has changed. They still behave the exact same way as I remembered it. Elementary and high schools seem to have less chaos like this.
    7 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Who pays when a friend visits?

    One of my closest is coming to visit me. We haven't seen each other for over 12 years. She planned her trip to just visit me, We were eating tonight and when the bill came out, it seems like she was expecting me to pay. I asked to split, and she was like "oh we're splitting?" Was I supposed to... show more
    One of my closest is coming to visit me. We haven't seen each other for over 12 years. She planned her trip to just visit me, We were eating tonight and when the bill came out, it seems like she was expecting me to pay. I asked to split, and she was like "oh we're splitting?" Was I supposed to pay for her for the whole 3 days she's here? I am very confused. Was I being rude? Thank you!
    7 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Why cant mom let me make my own decisions?

    So i’m a senior at Elmhurst college 22 and i live in chicago and this is my last year and i’m upset my mom is making me live on campus and I want to commute to campus. I currently live with my boyfriend.I only have classes tuesdays and thursdays. My mom claims i wont get financial aid if I dont stay on campus. And... show more
    So i’m a senior at Elmhurst college 22 and i live in chicago and this is my last year and i’m upset my mom is making me live on campus and I want to commute to campus. I currently live with my boyfriend.I only have classes tuesdays and thursdays. My mom claims i wont get financial aid if I dont stay on campus. And i’m taking three classes because i struggle in school and my advisor said it would be best to just take 3 and she said if i dont take 4 so also wont pay for me to go back to school. She thinks 3 is part time but 3 or 4 classes is fulltime. 2 or less is parttime. She says i can’t commute either because she doesnt want me taking the metra late back to his house. And she said she would worry. But if i stay on campus 4 times out the week i’ll be over his house anyway so what’s the point. I just got diagnosed with hashimotos. I’m severly depressed and living on campus will make me mkre depressed. I have no one there and have a hard time making friends because i have anxiety. I want to stay with my boyfriend(he is my best friend) and be close to friends in chicago and family. I’m 22 and she is trying to control my life and make me miserable. I dont know if she is scared ill get pregnant or what but i cant get pregnant because hashimotos causes infertility. I told her i rather take out a loan and pay for scho myself instead of her holding the choices i want to make over my head and controling my life! I’m so depressed
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • My friend thinks my bed smells...?

    We were watching a movie when she said that my bed smelled weird and asked if I had washed the sheets. I had just changed the sheets the other day so it wasn t that. She then precedes to tell me that it is my natural face oil odor and says that she will not sleep on the bed or with any pillows or blankets. I feel... show more
    We were watching a movie when she said that my bed smelled weird and asked if I had washed the sheets. I had just changed the sheets the other day so it wasn t that. She then precedes to tell me that it is my natural face oil odor and says that she will not sleep on the bed or with any pillows or blankets. I feel embarrassed and like the worst friend ever because my friend is sleeping on ground while I am sleeping in my large bed. Also I am really embarrassed and hurt that she can t stand the "smell" which i cant smell. She then says that the smell isn t bad but weird and keeps telling me that it doesn t smell bad... which seems weird since she says that she can t stand it. What should I do? Should I feel bad about this? Do i need to change? Should I ignore what she said? help.
    8 answers · 4 days ago
  • Do you think this is Strange or not ?

    Do you find this Strange for a 6ft 7 Straight Guy to hug a 5ft 4 man Straight Guy
    Do you find this Strange for a 6ft 7 Straight Guy to hug a 5ft 4 man Straight Guy
    7 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Why did she ignore me, was it her problem or mine?

    Best answer: People change. That's one of the many reasons we say that we can "never go back" to the way it was back then. It's not just that the buildings and places are changed, but it's also that the people have changed. For the most part such change is a good thing. We mature and become wiser in... show more
    Best answer: People change. That's one of the many reasons we say that we can "never go back" to the way it was back then. It's not just that the buildings and places are changed, but it's also that the people have changed.

    For the most part such change is a good thing. We mature and become wiser in how to handle our daily lives. But that's not always the case. Sometimes the changes are for the worse and lives tank. Which is why we have suicides and lawlessness.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Would you stop dealing with people who hate you?

    Best answer: I don't know anyone who "hates" me. Maybe someone does? It's their problem not mine.
    Best answer: I don't know anyone who "hates" me. Maybe someone does? It's their problem not mine.
    12 answers · 5 days ago
  • How do I deal with my bully?

    Ok so I’m currently 15 years old going into my sophomore year of high school. I’m having trouble dealing with a bully. He doesn’t physically abuse me or anything it’s all verbal but we used to be really good friends back in eighth grade. But mid summer out of nowhere he just turned on me. I spend a lot of time... show more
    Ok so I’m currently 15 years old going into my sophomore year of high school. I’m having trouble dealing with a bully. He doesn’t physically abuse me or anything it’s all verbal but we used to be really good friends back in eighth grade. But mid summer out of nowhere he just turned on me. I spend a lot of time online with my friends and he often made remarks like, “get out of here” “no one likes you” “you have no friends” and early on I figured it was just random talk. But soon enough, he persisted on wedging me out of my friend group, (removing me from groupchats, kicking me from online parties, and deliberately not inviting me to hang out with our friends.) My other friends don’t have a problem with him, and from what I recall, I didn’t do anything to him for him treat me this way. Regardless, I was happy to hear that he transferred to a catholic school instead of the public school that me and my other friends attend. The verbal bullying continued online still but I mostly ignored it and it wasn’t that much of a problem like it was before. But now he’s moving back to my public school and I’m worried he’s going to bully me like he did before he moved. Only one of my friends in my friend group generally dislikes him but my other friends still enjoy his company for some unknown reason (his jokes are terrible and he’s annoying). The online comments are only getting worse, going as far to insult my popularity, my looks, and even my home situation. How do I stop the bullying?
    6 answers · 23 hours ago
  • My friend slaps me quite often for no reason.?

    She slaps me on the arms and thighs. She hits me very hard and it really hurts. They always leave bright red marks and bruise when she slaps the same place twice. She does it when I tell a bad joke, don't do something she tells me to, make a stupid comment or nothing at all. She slaps me for no reason. I... show more
    She slaps me on the arms and thighs. She hits me very hard and it really hurts. They always leave bright red marks and bruise when she slaps the same place twice. She does it when I tell a bad joke, don't do something she tells me to, make a stupid comment or nothing at all. She slaps me for no reason. I don't know why she does it, because it doesn't seem friendly and she never does it to other people. Only me. Other than this, she's a good friend. In fact, she's my best friend, and we've been friends for 5 years. I don't want to say anything because I don't want my friends to think I'm weak. I don't know what to do.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • She very mad about a comment I made. Help??????

    My name is Adam and I'm in a very awkward situation right now, theres this girl I really like and I've known her for a couple months. We are both interested in eachother but she has a 3 year old son. She has been struggling lately because of college, And because of her job. Soo I was talking... show more
    My name is Adam and I'm in a very awkward situation right now, theres this girl I really like and I've known her for a couple months. We are both interested in eachother but she has a 3 year old son. She has been struggling lately because of college, And because of her job. Soo I was talking to my besfriend John, and I told him i would doo anything to help her out. I would be willing to work 3 jobs for her soo she can spend more time with her kid. So John told her what I said. apperantly she took it the wrong way and she got offended and mad.. she said to my friend " I've been taking care of this kid alone for 3 years I dont need any help from anyone. She has been ignoring me all morning, how do I fix this????? What should I say to her because I feel very awkward?????? Please help
    6 answers · 9 hours ago
  • How to secretly be mean to someone u hate?

    There is this girl at my school that i hate because she pushes me around and stole my friend from me. She constantly does horrible things just so she can put the blame on me and she will try every chance she gets to hurt me and humiliate me. And she acts like the victim when I try to tell the friend that she stole... show more
    There is this girl at my school that i hate because she pushes me around and stole my friend from me. She constantly does horrible things just so she can put the blame on me and she will try every chance she gets to hurt me and humiliate me. And she acts like the victim when I try to tell the friend that she stole from me what she's doing to me. I just kinda want to turn the tables on her. So how can I secretly bully her and push her around without our friend knowing? And how would I act like the victim if the girl tells my friend? And if u don't wanna answer this and say immature and stuff. Go away. I just need honest answers pls pls pls. No jokes and IDC what u say, its my life. I can ruin it if i wanna. I just want to give this girl karma. And yes, it has to be secret so the other friend doesn't find out
    6 answers · 1 day ago