• How do I cope with another man raising and putting his hands on my baby son?

    Best answer: It's sad that she would want to move far away. How can you play your role as his dad if she does that? She is so selfish. Her first priority is your son. Your son needs his father to be there for him. And not her boyfriend. I think that you need to get in touch with a lawyer asap. Your lawyer will tell you what... show more
    Best answer: It's sad that she would want to move far away. How can you play your role as his dad if she does that? She is so selfish. Her first priority is your son. Your son needs his father to be there for him. And not her boyfriend. I think that you need to get in touch with a lawyer asap. Your lawyer will tell you what you need to do.
    27 answers · 3 days ago
  • Am I a really bad person?

    I ditched school today and lied to my mom about it. I feel really bad because she is such an amazing mom and I tricked her by ditching school. I can’t tell her I ditched but I feel so so guilty
    I ditched school today and lied to my mom about it. I feel really bad because she is such an amazing mom and I tricked her by ditching school. I can’t tell her I ditched but I feel so so guilty
    19 answers · 20 hours ago
  • How can I deal with a 15 year old family friend who is highly annoying?

    I'm 15 as well and I always try being empathetic, especially about his autism and other type of mental illness and especially since I have mild ASD as well. He does immature things in public and lacks filter so he blurts out comments. An example would be that girls have "germs" so he ignores me... show more
    I'm 15 as well and I always try being empathetic, especially about his autism and other type of mental illness and especially since I have mild ASD as well. He does immature things in public and lacks filter so he blurts out comments. An example would be that girls have "germs" so he ignores me sometimes. This guy occasionally tells people that he thinks this. They usually give him weird looks and feel like they're socializing with a 5 year old child. Our families are close friends and I have to see him a lot. Other times he invades people's space and sometimes, people tell him beforehand not to interrupt/make comments/scream when they talk (he only sometimes listens).
    4 answers · 7 hours ago
  • My mom is hitting my sister up for money, should I tell our dad?

    So just a little background, we’ve had highs and lows in our family and we’ve had times as kids where our parents borrowed money from us for gas, food, ect. (Birthday + Christmas money) now however we are doing much better, my dad has a good paying job, he spends wisely, and we aren’t rich or well off but we are... show more
    So just a little background, we’ve had highs and lows in our family and we’ve had times as kids where our parents borrowed money from us for gas, food, ect. (Birthday + Christmas money) now however we are doing much better, my dad has a good paying job, he spends wisely, and we aren’t rich or well off but we are doing a lot better than before (my point is there is no need for my mom to bum money off of my 13 year old sister) well my grandparents and aunt also just sent a substantial amount of birthday and Christmas money and my mom isn’t going on shopping sprees, there’s no obvious thing that points to where all this money is going. She’s a teacher and earns that way, my parents split the bills, my dad pays for things if my older brother and I need anything (gas, food, ect.) she does have an alcohol problem but as in drinking beer at home and wine, she drinks a lot however she has the kids wit her all the time so I feel like we would be able to see if she was buying so much alcohol that she’s asking my sister for gas money. I mean my dad could give her gas money, he usually does. Unless she’s hiding something, I don’t know if I should tell my dad or not. What’s your opinion? Thanks!
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • My brother won’t stop hitting me.?

    So I am 16 and my brother is 14 however he is a very rough lad and I mean rough, and when he gets the slightest annoyed he batters me everywhere, it’s like he see red and forgets I’m his sister and is in a street fight, I try to hit him back but it just gives him more adrenaline my mum tries to stop it but my step... show more
    So I am 16 and my brother is 14 however he is a very rough lad and I mean rough, and when he gets the slightest annoyed he batters me everywhere, it’s like he see red and forgets I’m his sister and is in a street fight, I try to hit him back but it just gives him more adrenaline my mum tries to stop it but my step dad, his dad doesn’t he says it’s both of us, how can I stop this? He has no discipline and is a spoilt brat, he has been suspended from school for fighting multiple of times and have been agressive towards teachers, it’s really embarrassing and makes me feel like I’m worthless, what should I do?
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • When to call a stepmom ‘mom’?

    Best answer: Talk to her about it. Open up to her about the fact that she's been more of a mother to you than your own biological mother and that you love her like a mother (assuming you do) and that if she's okay with it, you would like to call her "mom". Talking to her about it is probably the best option... show more
    Best answer: Talk to her about it. Open up to her about the fact that she's been more of a mother to you than your own biological mother and that you love her like a mother (assuming you do) and that if she's okay with it, you would like to call her "mom". Talking to her about it is probably the best option you have, that way you can see if you two are on the same page about it and so that you can avoid the awkwardness that may arise from just calling her it anyway. If you feel too weird about talking to her about it first, talk to your dad about it and maybe he can bring it up in a conversation with her and go from there. Also, I'm very sorry about what you went through with the bio mother. That's incredibly sad and no child deserves that at all, but if you have a happy family with your dad and step mom then that's what counts. Hope things turn out well xx
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • My sister and brother are always fighting and my Mom is always telling them how much better I am then them. Is this fair?

    Best answer: Your instincts are spot on wondering if this is fair to them. It isn't. Also, is your Mom unaware that fighting is normal between sibs? Anyway, a lot depends on the wording she uses. If she literally says you are "better", this is not a good way for her to promote you as a role model. She... show more
    Best answer: Your instincts are spot on wondering if this is fair to them. It isn't. Also, is your Mom unaware that fighting is normal between sibs?

    Anyway, a lot depends on the wording she uses. If she literally says you are "better", this is not a good way for her to promote you as a role model. She doesn't have to put them down to get her point across. Try to get her to see this. It's important, because if a mom tells a couple sibs that another sib is better, she's practically guaranteeing they'll resent you. Actually, her best option might be to stop talking about it so much. Role models lead by their actions, not because someone is in the background making noise about it.
    10 answers · 22 hours ago
  • I want to die. If I kill myself, someone please me?

    I found out money was being taken out from my bank account and my sister was the one who was my card and had my card set up to pay her utility bills. I went to the bank and they saw she I had made a money transfer to my sister’s account and I told them I never have. So they said I can either try to get the money... show more
    I found out money was being taken out from my bank account and my sister was the one who was my card and had my card set up to pay her utility bills. I went to the bank and they saw she I had made a money transfer to my sister’s account and I told them I never have. So they said I can either try to get the money back from her or prosecute her. My mom heard and got mad that I said I will prosecute my sister if she doesn’t pay me back. My mom said she will report me for threatening her and yelling at her and see how I do it in jail. She told me I need to stop lying because my sister said she didn’t use my card. The bank doesn’t lie I told them both. My mom rather have me in jail for me threatening her and I have said I hope you die, I will kill you and such because growing up I was abused by my dad. My mom never done anything for it and I was mentally damaged. Well at this point I just want to die. I don’t want to be here. My depression is getting worse and I can’t stand my parents and my lying sister who is denying she ever used my card.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why does my dad always tell me not to start fires?

    He says it every time I leave the house. Why?
    He says it every time I leave the house. Why?
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I tell my parents about this?

    I'm a 14 year old guy who just had my first kiss with my best friend who is also a guy. I don't want them to be mad at me but I cant really hide it from them either
    I'm a 14 year old guy who just had my first kiss with my best friend who is also a guy. I don't want them to be mad at me but I cant really hide it from them either
    8 answers · 9 hours ago
  • How do I get my Mom to get over my sister's death so we can go back to living normal?

    My sister died in early December and I am trying to get my Mom to get over it. She made Christmas miserable and I want to live normal again. We have no extended family nearby so I couldn't go see others and Mom was just crying. Christmas is over and she still is. How do I get her to get over this? She can be... show more
    My sister died in early December and I am trying to get my Mom to get over it. She made Christmas miserable and I want to live normal again. We have no extended family nearby so I couldn't go see others and Mom was just crying. Christmas is over and she still is. How do I get her to get over this? She can be sad but I want her to see she needs to move on now as it has been almost two months and the funeral was when we were to be sad and that is long over now. How do I get her to get over it?
    8 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Is it bad that I sometimes talk about sex with my brother (I'm a girl)?

    Best answer: I don't know about normal, but my brother and I are the same way. Matter of fact, we're equally as open with our mother (I'm 27, he's almost 29). We've just always been an open family (minus my estranged oldest brother). It's acceptable to have such an open relationship with your brother,... show more
    Best answer: I don't know about normal, but my brother and I are the same way. Matter of fact, we're equally as open with our mother (I'm 27, he's almost 29). We've just always been an open family (minus my estranged oldest brother). It's acceptable to have such an open relationship with your brother, you two are just very close and that's okay, it's better than constant fighting lol.
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • DO YOU LOVE YOUR FAMILY?

    8 answers · 15 hours ago
  • I feel so guilty at 29 taking money from my parents?

    I lost my home in a fire and lost my job all in the same month. I’ve been struggling tremendously waiting on the insurance. My parents purchased me a new home. Cash purchase!! They’ve also been giving me money to live off of since November while I look for work. I never asked for any of this. While I feel... show more
    I lost my home in a fire and lost my job all in the same month. I’ve been struggling tremendously waiting on the insurance. My parents purchased me a new home. Cash purchase!! They’ve also been giving me money to live off of since November while I look for work. I never asked for any of this. While I feel tremendously blessed I can’t help but feel so much guilt. At 29 I should not be getting help from my parents!! Is it wrong they are helping me?
    11 answers · 2 days ago