• Help me i m 13 years old and i just want to end my life?

    me and my family are constantly fighting. my little brother is the favourite and i always get the blame for everything. today my brother pushed me into a stack of books and they fell to the floor and made a really loud sound. my mum came upstairs and asked what happened. bro said it was me and my mum lost it. then... show more
    me and my family are constantly fighting. my little brother is the favourite and i always get the blame for everything. today my brother pushed me into a stack of books and they fell to the floor and made a really loud sound. my mum came upstairs and asked what happened. bro said it was me and my mum lost it. then my dad lost it. they both started screaming at me and my mum beat me with her slipper till i fell to the floor and i hurt my hip pretty bad. what should i do i m fed up with life i try so hard but i just don t know what i m doing wrong why is everyone always so angry at me why do i always get the blame and WHAT did i do to deserve any of this? i m constantly hurt and confused and i just live in a pool of tears every day all i can hear in my head is my family telling me i m an idiot, a failiure, an ugly cow, selfish and all these insults. please help that s all i ever hear in my head and my heart and brain just tells me i m useless. i don t want to be like this anymore i just wish i could live a happy life like a normal 13 year old. i m scared and hurt and confused please help me before my brain tells me to do something really stupid. thank you so much and god bless all your kind hearts
    58 answers · 1 week ago
  • Am I selfish that I don't want to go for child support or paternity testing for my child , the baby is 3 reasons I haven't gone?

    For support is the father is old and has no interest in the child and Denys its his anyway. He has a family children my age they will never know they have a little brother, I don't have all the finances but I just don't believe there's any point in doing a test if no one is interested in this child but... show more
    For support is the father is old and has no interest in the child and Denys its his anyway. He has a family children my age they will never know they have a little brother, I don't have all the finances but I just don't believe there's any point in doing a test if no one is interested in this child but me what do you think
    20 answers · 5 days ago
  • I feel so lonely and depressed :(?

    Best answer: We are so glad that you are reaching out for help. It sounds like you are feeling a lot of emotional pain and struggling without support. It's normal that you want to feel loved and supported. Know that there is help out there for you and you are not alone. It's so important that you reach out for... show more
    Best answer: We are so glad that you are reaching out for help. It sounds like you are feeling a lot of emotional pain and struggling without support. It's normal that you want to feel loved and supported. Know that there is help out there for you and you are not alone.

    It's so important that you reach out for support from a trusted adult such as an aunt, uncle, school counselor, teacher, coach, or minister. We would suggest getting evaluated by a medical doctor or mental health professional, and getting involved in counseling. It may help you to talk to a counselor at a hotline. Remember that there are people who care about you who want to help.

    Counselor, MT
    8 answers · 4 days ago
  • What is 🐩?

    I told my cousin Leonard that our grandma was dead and he hung up the call and texted me 🐩. Wat does it mean?
    I told my cousin Leonard that our grandma was dead and he hung up the call and texted me 🐩. Wat does it mean?
    12 answers · 5 days ago
  • What would you do if your brothers and father keeps calling you stupid dumb thick and spastic all the time?

    Best answer: Have you tried asking a very simple question of your father, such as "Dad, why do you talk to me that way?" when it is happening. Get your dad to be aware of what he is saying and how it affects you, and maybe you can teach him a better (and less destructive) way to communicate. I taught my young... show more
    Best answer: Have you tried asking a very simple question of your father, such as "Dad, why do you talk to me that way?" when it is happening. Get your dad to be aware of what he is saying and how it affects you, and maybe you can teach him a better (and less destructive) way to communicate.

    I taught my young daughter to "Never let meanness change your niceness"---something that is a lot harder than it sounds. When someone chooses to be derogatory or mean, I taught her to say to herself, "Let it go and let it be/It is something in them and not in me/It is not my responsibility/to change them." What this suggests is that you should do some soul-searching and introspection in a way that focuses upon all of your inner strengths and positives and accept these positives as your real you. It helps to keep a private journal to help sort through the mixed messages you are getting from others and center yourself on all the things you like about yourself.
    24 answers · 1 week ago
  • My mom stress me what to do?

    She keeps me from making my life, finding a job, going out, she tells me what to do, ... I'm 22 years old ****** DE MERDE '' An example if my door is closed it does not like that '' '' If I chat on facebook she'll ask me who I'm chatting with '' If I'm on the... show more
    She keeps me from making my life, finding a job, going out, she tells me what to do, ... I'm 22 years old ****** DE MERDE '' An example if my door is closed it does not like that '' '' If I chat on facebook she'll ask me who I'm chatting with '' If I'm on the phone she'll tell me who you're talking to If I go out she'll tell me where are you going and why? "And what time do you come back?
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • My mom made a rude comment about my wife's obesity?

    My mom recently came over for a family gathering and saw my wife for the first time in a while. My wife is very obese and has put on a lot of weight in the past year. she's about 515 lbs and struggles to walk (but she can waddle a few feet without my help). At this family event she was seated on the couch and... show more
    My mom recently came over for a family gathering and saw my wife for the first time in a while. My wife is very obese and has put on a lot of weight in the past year. she's about 515 lbs and struggles to walk (but she can waddle a few feet without my help). At this family event she was seated on the couch and greeted our guests from the couch. It's clear to anyone who sees her how heavy she is and clear that she can't get up. We all ate a nice barbecue meal together and had a good time. I put together plates of food and brought them to my wife. Afterward my mom decided to make a comment to me saying something along the lines of "you sure keep her well-fed" in a rude tone and within earshot of my wife. Should I not invite my mom to these events next time? My wife was upset and I had to reassure her that she's beautiful. My mom doesn't get that she's being rude and thinks we're overreacting. Who's right?
    16 answers · 4 days ago
  • Is it possible to completely forget your birthday?

    Best answer: Yes. sometimes life does get in the way. you are stressed out over a number of things this year. Just be sure your DH does not take this as permission for HIM to start 'forgetting' it too! :)
    Best answer: Yes. sometimes life does get in the way. you are stressed out over a number of things this year. Just be sure your DH does not take this as permission for HIM to start 'forgetting' it too! :)
    13 answers · 4 days ago
  • What DO YOU THINK my punishment should be?

    I'm 16. I set alarms for the morning for school but always snooze them. So my mom always has to wake up with me to wake me up. I get so annoyed that I always physically hit her, sometimes I end up hitting her too hard and its audible. This is a constant routine. And when I come home from school, I go straight... show more
    I'm 16. I set alarms for the morning for school but always snooze them. So my mom always has to wake up with me to wake me up. I get so annoyed that I always physically hit her, sometimes I end up hitting her too hard and its audible. This is a constant routine. And when I come home from school, I go straight to my room and attempt to do my homework, but mostly fail and end up doing it late before bed. When my mom peaks through the door to check in or tell me to go eat, or come in to tell me once again to go do something I was supposed to hours ago, I get annoyed and talk back in THE tone. I don't even turn to look at her most times. She has to constantly keep nagging me. And always, she barely yells, always accepts my appologies even when I don't mean them. She rarely shows TRUE anger. And I treat my grandfather with attitude also. It's rare that I visibly aknowledge him directly. I even yelled at him a few times for giving food to the dog. My family helps me out, loves me, and gives me stuff I don't even ask for. I'm not asking for any pity/reasurance from any1, only HONEST OPINION. Don't even think about "sugar coating". I want HONEST OPINION, even if you want to call me names and tell me I deserve to go to hell, go ahead and say whats on ur mind. Let the hate out, seriously, don't hesitate. I'll accept it. I just want the honest, brutal truth. I don't even care if u honestly say something nice, which I highly doupt any1 will. Just let it out.
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • My birthday is in Saturday, 2 days from now, and my parents are openly dismissing it?

    Best answer: Well, you told them you are fine with whatever. If you're not fine with that, you ought not to have said it. You don't understand what they're doing? They're making plans to spend time and care for family members. That is part of being an adult. By the way, there is nothing special about a... show more
    Best answer: Well, you told them you are fine with whatever. If you're not fine with that, you ought not to have said it.

    You don't understand what they're doing? They're making plans to spend time and care for family members. That is part of being an adult.

    By the way, there is nothing special about a birthday. Everybody has one. It is not an achievement. Why it needs celebrating is beyond me. But if you feel it does, then you should say so, rather than expecting busy people to read your mind.
    7 answers · 3 days ago
  • My DAD SAW ME NAKED?

    Best answer: Nah, don't worry about it. Just pretend it didn't happen, lol. Your dad wasn't any less embarrassed than you were, anyway.
    Best answer: Nah, don't worry about it. Just pretend it didn't happen, lol. Your dad wasn't any less embarrassed than you were, anyway.
    14 answers · 5 days ago
  • Why are my parents mad at me cuz I stopped talking to my sister after she told us shes lesbian?

    I dont accept gays and lesbians and dont want to have such people in my life. i dont know why my parents even care about that, it shouldnt be any of their business how i deal with my sister?
    I dont accept gays and lesbians and dont want to have such people in my life. i dont know why my parents even care about that, it shouldnt be any of their business how i deal with my sister?
    15 answers · 5 days ago
  • My younger sister's boyfriend slapped me several times and made me cry for being racist. I am afraid he will not respect me now?

    Best answer: You say "every time I see him I feel humiliated"? I put it to you that he felt humiliated and angry when you said what you said to him in that moment. And so, he went out of his way to humiliate you! A little over the top, but you had it coming. The only advice I can give you is for you to talk to him,... show more
    Best answer: You say "every time I see him I feel humiliated"? I put it to you that he felt humiliated and angry when you said what you said to him in that moment. And so, he went out of his way to humiliate you! A little over the top, but you had it coming.

    The only advice I can give you is for you to talk to him, tell him how he made you feel. He'll probably tell you how you made him feel and he may apologize to you and you apologize to him, and then maybe you can move on from this. What have you to lose?
    9 answers · 4 days ago
  • Do children need both parents in order to be taught well and to be more emotionally stable?

    In order for kids to behave morally, stay out of most dangerous situations, and to have good boundaries/limits that are based on age and personality... do they need BOTH parents living at home to have all that? Some people blame childrens' behavioral problems on single parenting. They claim that some kids... show more
    In order for kids to behave morally, stay out of most dangerous situations, and to have good boundaries/limits that are based on age and personality... do they need BOTH parents living at home to have all that? Some people blame childrens' behavioral problems on single parenting. They claim that some kids don't have proper boundaries because they only have one parent and no one else. I even heard that children of single families are more likely to get away with things that kids typically wouldn't get away with (crimes, bullying, inappropriate use of Internet, etc).
    12 answers · 5 days ago