• How do I deal with severe self hatred?

    Over the past year I have slowly started to hate myself more and more each day. I hate the way I look, my personality, my inibility to socialise like a normal human and basically everything about me. It's not just like I don't like the way certain features on my face look. I hate EVERYTHING about... show more
    Over the past year I have slowly started to hate myself more and more each day. I hate the way I look, my personality, my inibility to socialise like a normal human and basically everything about me. It's not just like I don't like the way certain features on my face look. I hate EVERYTHING about myself. I'm shy and when I do actually talk to people I am constantly criticising what I am saying and getting angry at myself for sounding so stupid. My self hatred had gotten so bad that I actually just want to die and I always think about ways I would do it. And I am so very sad. Even when I'm with friends I'm not happy and I just know that I never will be. I just hate myself so much. I occasionally self harm and have purged before and all I want is to be happy. That is all Please tell me what to do. I can't live like this anymore.
    9 answers · Mental Health · 12 hours ago
  • I can t lose weight.?

    Around 4 years ago, I started to try and lose weight, as I was unhappy with how much I was, 180. I began to eat healthier food, and less calories. I would also exercise everyday. I was able to lose 20 pounds in 3 months. I continued, but I wasn t losing any weight. Then, 6 months later, it all came back at once. I... show more
    Around 4 years ago, I started to try and lose weight, as I was unhappy with how much I was, 180. I began to eat healthier food, and less calories. I would also exercise everyday. I was able to lose 20 pounds in 3 months. I continued, but I wasn t losing any weight. Then, 6 months later, it all came back at once. I was feeling really bad, so I thought if I found other exercise I would be able to lose it again. I was wrong, as the next three years were unsuccessful, I even gained 20 more pounds. I even tried stupid fad diets, starving myself and now considering skipping meals and detox. I don t know what to do anymore.
    23 answers · Diet & Fitness · 2 days ago
  • Enlarged clitoris a blessing?

    Upon research and pictures of other females' genitals, I came to the conclusion that I do have an enlarged clitoris (not gigantic but definetely more noticable than "the usual" "perfect" vaginal area presented in the media) Now I do have a higher ĺevel of testosterone due to some hormonal... show more
    Upon research and pictures of other females' genitals, I came to the conclusion that I do have an enlarged clitoris (not gigantic but definetely more noticable than "the usual" "perfect" vaginal area presented in the media) Now I do have a higher ĺevel of testosterone due to some hormonal imbalance and I do know that that is probably why my clitoris is enlarged. And I am also overweight, but I don't think that this has an effect on the size of my clit... What I would like to know is that, should I see it as a blessing? If yes why? Are there men who see it as a turn-off ? Do men think of a penis when seing an enlarged clit? I just dont know what to think of it...
    9 answers · Women's Health · 20 hours ago
  • Could I have a female sexual disorder?

    http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/female-sexual-dysfunction/basics/symptoms/con-20027721 I read this article today and I found it very interesting because I relate very much. I am a 17 year old girl and I have had sex with 15+ people.. never once did I feel any sexual pleasure, or stimulation, or a... show more
    http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-condi... I read this article today and I found it very interesting because I relate very much. I am a 17 year old girl and I have had sex with 15+ people.. never once did I feel any sexual pleasure, or stimulation, or a sensation. I love sex despite my lack of stimulation (I like to please.), but it's getting frustrating knowing nobody can make me *** or get anywhere close no matter what they do. at first I thought maybe the guys were just bad, but I'm starting to realize it's just me. I do have a history of bad sexual experiences, aswell as a history of very severe anxiety, depression, and abandonment issues. what can I do to get past this awful mental/physical block?? I want to truly enjoy sex. my current boyfriend also really wants to make me *** lol.
    6 answers · Mental Health · 17 hours ago
  • I'm 13 and I think I might have depression or anixeity, what should I do?

    Everyday is hard. I've started to isolate myself from others. There's a lot that's going on and I'm not going to go into detail, but I think I have depression and/or anxiety. What should I do? I can't talk to anyone! My friends don't like me and it's just awkward talking to my family. I... show more
    Everyday is hard. I've started to isolate myself from others. There's a lot that's going on and I'm not going to go into detail, but I think I have depression and/or anxiety. What should I do? I can't talk to anyone! My friends don't like me and it's just awkward talking to my family. I don't know what to do. It feels like I'm trapped. Help please.
    9 answers · Mental Health · 1 day ago
  • How can I help my girlfriend with her eating disorder?

    Best answer: This needs more than a few people telling her. I'm sorry to say, but having grown up with manipulative parents, I can say that they've already conditioned her to follow them. When I was younger, they told me everything would always be someone else's fault. That lying about someone else to make a story... show more
    Best answer: This needs more than a few people telling her. I'm sorry to say, but having grown up with manipulative parents, I can say that they've already conditioned her to follow them.
    When I was younger, they told me everything would always be someone else's fault. That lying about someone else to make a story funnier wasn't a big deal. That words don't really mean anything, and should be used to better our family. That we were superior to others, and that's why we were the only ones playing that sick game. That everything they did were the actions of caring parents, and anyone who disagreed were sissies and weaklings who were secretly trying to drag us down.
    Tell her to see a therapist, even secretly. Have her friends tell her how great she looks. Get her to see their hypocrisy, even if it goes as far as making fun of their appearance and/or personality. Ask her how their opinions outweigh those of everyone else she knows. For herself, she needs to learn appropriation from good people.
    4 answers · Mental Health · 13 hours ago
  • Are all liberals retarded or just the ones who believe the propoganda known as global warming?

    Best answer: These trolls aren't actually conservatives. Most aren't American. They vomit this stupidity to make us look bad, by association.
    Best answer: These trolls aren't actually conservatives. Most aren't American. They vomit this stupidity to make us look bad, by association.
    14 answers · Mental Health · 14 hours ago
  • How to keep it together when you have no purpose?

    Depression has been a big part of my life, and at the moment it seems to never get better, I want hope it can. I'm failing at everything, college, maintaining friendships, maintaining relationships and making my family proud of me. Every time I wake up I'm just numb, I have no motivation to go to college,... show more
    Depression has been a big part of my life, and at the moment it seems to never get better, I want hope it can. I'm failing at everything, college, maintaining friendships, maintaining relationships and making my family proud of me. Every time I wake up I'm just numb, I have no motivation to go to college, or my volunteer work to get my diploma. I'm just failing everyone. My Dad left me, most of my friends did, my boyfriend did, all my Mum does is nag me but she don't understand my pain, all she does is keep reminding me of how much of a failure I am and how much stress I put her under and it makes it so much worse. I can't make myself happy, how am I supposed to make other people happy. All I've got is fake friends, a nagging mum and a mentally abusive ex boyfriend who loves playing with my head when I'm not strong enough to handle any of it no more. I don't want to have to end it all, but that's what I feel like I might have to do to end the pain, because it never gets better.
    6 answers · Mental Health · 1 day ago
  • Meat and dairy cause cancer?

    50 answers · Mental Health · 4 days ago
  • I want to kill myself but I don t want to hurt my mom?

    I have been wanting to kill myself for a really long time but I don t want to hurt my mom and make her feel like it was something she did. I have tried counselling and taking medication to help me get over these thoughts but nothing seems to work. People have also told me to tell somebody who cares but that s hard... show more
    I have been wanting to kill myself for a really long time but I don t want to hurt my mom and make her feel like it was something she did. I have tried counselling and taking medication to help me get over these thoughts but nothing seems to work. People have also told me to tell somebody who cares but that s hard because I don t have any close friends or anybody that I trust to confide in. I just don t see the point in being here and I don t see myself having a good and/or productive future. I want to kill myself to just end all of the pain but the only thing stopping me is my mom, but at the same time, she has done everything she can for me and nothing seems to work. I don t know what to do.
    67 answers · Mental Health · 5 days ago
  • Poll: What way do you sleep?

    Choose one of the following options; if not there then state your difference Boxers, Nude, Pyjamas, Shorts, Tshirt only,???
    Choose one of the following options; if not there then state your difference Boxers, Nude, Pyjamas, Shorts, Tshirt only,???
    58 answers · Men's Health · 5 days ago
  • Trump will round up the liberals, gas them, and they will finally become useful by fertilizing our soil?

    Best answer: You are not humorous nor clever.
    Best answer: You are not humorous nor clever.
    12 answers · Mental Health · 14 hours ago
  • Should I tell my therapist?

    Best answer: Telling your therapist you have suicidal thoughts won't make him tell anyone else like parents or the police, but if you mention that you are planning to kill yourself at a certain time, then that's when that rule of confidentiality has to be broken. You should tell your therapist about the self harming and... show more
    Best answer: Telling your therapist you have suicidal thoughts won't make him tell anyone else like parents or the police, but if you mention that you are planning to kill yourself at a certain time, then that's when that rule of confidentiality has to be broken. You should tell your therapist about the self harming and how you are having those thoughts but it will stay confidential unless you mention that you have a plan on committing suicide. Having suicidal thoughts don't always necessarily mean that a person wants to commit suicide or is actually planning to commit suicide. Holding this back and not opening up about it won't help you at all. I hope you get the help you need and things get better for you.
    6 answers · Mental Health · 2 days ago