• Is it possible for a person to change their personality if they work hard. For example a Sociopath or Psychopath or Narcissist if these kind?

    Of people really want to change will it work. Assuming they are willing to try any thetaputic approach
    Of people really want to change will it work. Assuming they are willing to try any thetaputic approach
    11 answers · 22 hours ago
  • I think I'm really stupid?

    Best answer: I feel exactly the same. You're not alone in thinking this way. My family and friends are a very talkative bunch and are always cracking jokes and I sit there silently as I can never think of anything funny to say immediately. Same in work, I find it really difficult at times to even string a sentence together.... show more
    Best answer: I feel exactly the same. You're not alone in thinking this way. My family and friends are a very talkative bunch and are always cracking jokes and I sit there silently as I can never think of anything funny to say immediately. Same in work, I find it really difficult at times to even string a sentence together. It really frustrates me as I feel stupid too. I get a load of mental blocks. I keep daydreaming also. I've seen the doctor who explained it was anxiety. I often think though it's more than that.
    23 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why do racist conservative users get perverted on here with their racism, I didn't do anything to them?

    I had a user on here claim he would ravage/dominate me if he found me. He then used the R world and also called me names. It made me cry a little. Why are the racist conservative people on here so rude and lewd?
    I had a user on here claim he would ravage/dominate me if he found me. He then used the R world and also called me names. It made me cry a little. Why are the racist conservative people on here so rude and lewd?
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • What would a guy think if a girl was for 10 years secretly in love with him?

    He doesn't know because we never had a proper conversation. He sold things on the street and I bet he was kinda forced to because he was always sad and not so enthuasiast about it. I met him when I was a teenager and he was about 17/18 (or maybe 16 who knows), I just couldn't take my eyes off of him, he was... show more
    He doesn't know because we never had a proper conversation. He sold things on the street and I bet he was kinda forced to because he was always sad and not so enthuasiast about it. I met him when I was a teenager and he was about 17/18 (or maybe 16 who knows), I just couldn't take my eyes off of him, he was so handsome and sad at the same time. He never smiled. I wonder what someone like him would think of a girl who has loved him for so long without even telling him.
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • If a child consents why is pedophilia wrong?

    I of course believe pedophilia is wrong, but I was curious to see how people would answer this because I honestly don't know the answer.
    I of course believe pedophilia is wrong, but I was curious to see how people would answer this because I honestly don't know the answer.
    12 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Is it weird I think being homeless can be lots of fun?

    Best answer: Coming from someone who has been homeless 4years believe me its not. Sleeping outside and not knowing if someone is going to beat you while you sleep is not a good feeling. standing in long lines 3times a day to get food isnt fun. Haveing to were to the same close a week because you missed (laundry day) cause you... show more
    Best answer: Coming from someone who has been homeless 4years believe me its not. Sleeping outside and not knowing if someone is going to beat you while you sleep is not a good feeling. standing in long lines 3times a day to get food isnt fun. Haveing to were to the same close a week because you missed (laundry day) cause you were to far back in line isnt fun. Going to some shelters and having to live by there rules is not fun. Try going somewhere the only time you can only leave is when you go to work or church and they take your foodstamps and feed other people with it? is not fun especially in Phoenix Arizona were its constantly hot everyday and your carrying around your belongings cause storage is closed.. Just get a job work and be with your family its better that way. You dont wato be homeless especially if you get sick and have to take medicine like i did.
    25 answers · 3 days ago
  • If you're a 45 year old virgin woman who still doesn't want to have sex, is there something wrong with you?

    Best answer: A 29 year old virgin here. No, there's absolutely nothing wrong, it's just your choice. I don't know your reasons. In my case it's because 1) most men around me are of bad quality, I don't really like them, 2) I put more value in my professional career than in personal relationships, 3) I... show more
    Best answer: A 29 year old virgin here.

    No, there's absolutely nothing wrong, it's just your choice.

    I don't know your reasons. In my case it's because 1) most men around me are of bad quality, I don't really like them, 2) I put more value in my professional career than in personal relationships, 3) I value a lot my personal and financial independence, 4) I don't really feel alone, 5) relationships are sometimes tiresome, 6) I don't like kids, 7) I'm not that interested in sex.
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • What should I do? My life sucks and I think of him as my salvation, should I go and look for him?

    Please read it til the end and give me your sincere advice. I am a migrant girl (white but not christian). I wear just like western girls. I was born in a country where I was badly bullied for my origins (broken nose, racist teachers, some of them were just bigots and other gave me 8 when I deserved 9,5 or 10... show more
    Please read it til the end and give me your sincere advice. I am a migrant girl (white but not christian). I wear just like western girls. I was born in a country where I was badly bullied for my origins (broken nose, racist teachers, some of them were just bigots and other gave me 8 when I deserved 9,5 or 10 basically the other kids would do nothing at school they weren't able to learn the simplest concepts but teachers encouraged them and treated them right, I was always treated like a piece of s***). Anyway, in high school a teacher mobbed me everyday together with the principle (he knew it but he said it was my fault) but didn't allow me to change school (I wanted to change school in order not to be psychologically abused by them, then I managed it but with a lawyer, because they didn't allow me to). Result? I am depressed, my grades don't count anything in a racist country. I went away from it but I'm sad about my life and the dreams I had as a kid. Everything is worthless. I want to find the boy I fell in love at first sight when I was 13. He was kind amd polite, and as beautiful as an angel. He was sad too because he had to sell things (he was a street seller) to help his family. I don't know maybe he will understand me and accept me for who I am. I am craving for someone to love me. I would love him with whole my heart. What should I do? Find him or he'll think I am crazy?
    36 answers · 7 days ago
  • What challenges will I face in sex when I dont find the Vagina very attractive?

    I think the female body is very beatiful and attractive, especially from behind, but If I look at a vagina, especially spread open and what not, it reminds me of like an open wound, it looks gross, It makkes me uncomfortable, how will this effect my sexual life?
    I think the female body is very beatiful and attractive, especially from behind, but If I look at a vagina, especially spread open and what not, it reminds me of like an open wound, it looks gross, It makkes me uncomfortable, how will this effect my sexual life?
    13 answers · 4 days ago
  • Your opinion on consciousness?

    it seems logical consciousness begins at birth and ends at death or am I missing something. Second question. . How did I become conscious in this body? Somebody who was born last year does not have my consciousness. I don't have its conscious. Why this body and at the time I was born till the time I die?... show more
    it seems logical consciousness begins at birth and ends at death or am I missing something. Second question. . How did I become conscious in this body? Somebody who was born last year does not have my consciousness. I don't have its conscious. Why this body and at the time I was born till the time I die? why not the conscious of somebody who is 87 or 5 months?, What made my conscious come when it did?
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Parents: What your thoughts be on your daughter dating a man old enough to be her father?

    My good friend just turned 21 a month ago shes depressed and has pretty low self esteem. She's an attractive girl, the cute nerdy type. She's got some serious mental health issues and is unbalanced but again shes very attractive. She recently started dating a 40 year old co-worker that seems to be kind of... show more
    My good friend just turned 21 a month ago shes depressed and has pretty low self esteem. She's an attractive girl, the cute nerdy type. She's got some serious mental health issues and is unbalanced but again shes very attractive. She recently started dating a 40 year old co-worker that seems to be kind of strange. Never dates girls his own age, has been single for 10 years. He seems like that grimy guy that hangs out at night clubs looking for young girls to offer drinks and take home. Of course hes buying her jewelry, telling her shes gorgeous, hes already taken her on 2 nice vacations and is doing the whole wining and dining thing. most guys her age have a hard time dating her because of her pessimistic depressed attitude. she thinks she hit the jackpot because he pays attention to her, tells her shes pretty and spoils her but I can tell hes taking advantage. I tried talking to her mom and dad who are in their late 50s and they said they're happy for her and dont plan to intervene and theyre glad hes getting her out and bringing her on trips because shes happy now. I dont know how they dont see the game hes playing...
    6 answers · 6 hours ago
  • I hate having pain. Don't you?

    Best answer: Yes, I am in pain every day and it sucks.

    ~Aizen
    Best answer: Yes, I am in pain every day and it sucks.

    ~Aizen
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Are you in love, or do you want to love someone who you know will always be there for you and love you for you?

    Best answer: I feel. the.. confused. I want someone who will always be there.
    Best answer: I feel. the.. confused. I want someone who will always be there.
    6 answers · 15 hours ago
  • When have you been treated like you're not even human?

    I know this sounds dark and twisted, but maybe it'll be cathartic: I've been through *** and I wonder what others have been through. I truly think it's part of the human experience, sadly, to feel this dark side of life. For me, I've had people look at me like I'm garbage and that I have no... show more
    I know this sounds dark and twisted, but maybe it'll be cathartic: I've been through *** and I wonder what others have been through. I truly think it's part of the human experience, sadly, to feel this dark side of life. For me, I've had people look at me like I'm garbage and that I have no culture or nothing to contribute, and ignore or deny things about me to my face because they just decided they "know" who I am, when they don't. I've experienced other pain, but I just wanna share that one. What's yours?
    6 answers · 17 hours ago
  • How to cope with racism and hatred?

    Best answer: Avoid the haters. Racists have poor iq level and end up embarrassing themselves so better ignore.
    Best answer: Avoid the haters. Racists have poor iq level and end up embarrassing themselves so better ignore.
    11 answers · 5 days ago