I have a diverse group of friends and barely any black friends (black guys yes). I have had a rough past hanging with out black women, they would always criticize the way I talk, walk, and my interests. For example the type of music I listen to isn’t very common within my race but I listen to it anyways because I like it. I have one black friend who actually is very similar to me so I hang around her, also some black women have called me an oreo, claim that I hate my race, etc. even my own mom says ignorant stuff like that because I have a diverse group of friends. I have tried hanging out with more black women and it always feels like competition that I don’t have time for.

Best answer: "Why me?"

A man once pointed this out. When bad things happen, people say "Why me?" But no one ever says "Why me?" when they win the lottery.

Here is some advice from a man who is very controversial, so I won't mention his name, but this is damn good advice: >>Don't compare yourself to where others are today. Compare yourself to where you were yesterday.<<

If you aren't moving forward in your career it's time to do some soul searching and forget the pity parties. What do they or bring to the table that you don't? Better negotiating skills? So develop some. "Better demeanor at work?" Develop a better demeanor. Vicious ambition with a "take no prisoners attitude?" Get a new job.

If you are better off than you were, fine you're doing something right. Work with that.

And maybe you're in the wrong line of work. Notice anything? I'm asking you to look at you and ignore the others even if it is inherently unfair (then you might want to change jobs). Honest self-examination is one of life's more difficult challenges. You might even want some help doing it. Good luck

Best answer: Scorpio.

yeah we are sensitive and all but people make it seem like we have issues

Best answer: look I see why people would badmouth you and blame you for being a scorpio that is what you are born and you can't change your sign. I am not saying that you are scorpio and you are doomed but you should be less aggressive around people and then they start to like you : )

Best answer: Honestly, AQUARIANS are the best who deals with situations as break-up or heart break much better than any other signs as they can quickly move on with it. But this ARIES is damn unlucky

Best answer: Astrology is fake.

Best answer: Dinosaur

how did that go?

I'm a sag but also very private. I'm honest but don't feel that people should be entitled to know every thing about me. Part of it is I don't trust others & the other is that I don't prefer the attention. I become very defensive when people go way beyond their nosy questions & are rude. I don't appreciate nosy question after the other & question people's motives for asking. Some care, some just want gossip. One of my goals for myself is to get my degrees before I get married. I've struggled with college/careers for most of my 20's. Now, i just graduated with a bachelor's degree & am about to graduate with my master's at the end of the year with really great opportunities that make well. Thing is, I haven't told my boyfriend's family yet, especially his scorpio mom. My man's family is an Italian mafia - aunts, uncles, cousins are always snooping in your business, competing, one-upping you. I'm so protective of my education, especially bc I've failed/been rejected so many times. His mom is a scorpio who has no shame in asking nosy, personal questions. Every year she asks me if I have insurance from work. Either she's really forgetful or just don't believe me. She's paranoid & it plays out from her head. For the past year, she keeps asking about my work. My work has remained the same. On top of grad school, I've also been busier - i'm looking for jobs/networking, helping my friend with wedding plans, being there for my sister's breakup, and me time. She keeps bugging my bf about

Best answer: Aries, Leo, Gemini

Best answer: No, it isn't

Best answer: 100% Aquarius. They LOVE their space. They are players by heart.
After all your Sun sign is your core.

They call everyone manly and ugly, when in reality they are the ugliest signs... Bitter? Also, 24/7 creeping on here, probably have no friends and no life. Sad and pathetic.

I'm asking this because my mothers birthday is on 21st May. I think she's a Taurus, but she reckons she's a Gemini.

it's always been like this, I feel like I'm doomed. Can my birthchart show what I'm doing wrong?

In your opinion, which zodiac signs make the closest and best friends to Capricorn people? I'm referring to ones that understand them and can have a strong connection in terms of different topics /interests and emotional support too. Humor is important of course as well so that's up there lol. Please see your sun, moon, ascendant, Venus and Mars. Thanks.