• Would you like to have many brothers?

    96 answers · 4 days ago
  • My mom keeps threatening to kill me!!!!!!?

    Ever since i came to California in August 2011. my mom has been threatening to kill me. This all is during my second year of high school until now. When i was little my mom used to keep me up stil 12am and tell me to study math even tho I've told her I'm not good at math. She has also has strong opinions... show more
    Ever since i came to California in August 2011. my mom has been threatening to kill me. This all is during my second year of high school until now. When i was little my mom used to keep me up stil 12am and tell me to study math even tho I've told her I'm not good at math. She has also has strong opinions and this is why she is threatening to kill me. Since i got to college, She belittles the remedial courses I'm taking so i can take my real courses and cusses at me constantly for it. It's gotten to the point where now whenever she gets angry she threatens to kill me and one time actually tried with sissors. i always knew I couldn't talk to her honestly but now since college, that's even more apparent. She always has to have the last word and because loud and nonsensical even over the smallest issue, even when i tell her to calm down it makes her more infuriated. it has come to the point where I really couldn't care less about her because if she refuses to charge why should i? my only hope now is to make enough money to hopefully move out during the fall or summer. What do i do?
    12 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Should I move out?

    Long story shortish. My mom is bipolar and gets really depressed and emotional when she drinks. Which she does pretty often. My stepdad is a conspiracy theorist and an alcoholic. When both of them drink together, it never ends up well. My biological dad, who I don't live with, has partial custody over me. I... show more
    Long story shortish. My mom is bipolar and gets really depressed and emotional when she drinks. Which she does pretty often. My stepdad is a conspiracy theorist and an alcoholic. When both of them drink together, it never ends up well. My biological dad, who I don't live with, has partial custody over me. I have been thinking of letting him take full custody of me and living with him. However, this might mess with my stepbrother's, who is 12 years old, emotions. If you have any questions, please ask. I am attempting to make a huge life decision for the first time in my almost 17 years of living. I am open to any personal opinions on this topic. THANK YOU!
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • My Dad is an alcoholic and my Mom says I need to fix this as the oldest son. How do I fix him when he refuses it?

    Best answer: Like everyone else has said it’s not your job to “fix” your father. That’s up to him (or if he does something stupid and gets court ordered to go to treatment). My father was also an alcoholic. The amount he used to drink every single day would put a normal person into a coma. He had to hit bottom and get court... show more
    Best answer: Like everyone else has said it’s not your job to “fix” your father. That’s up to him (or if he does something stupid and gets court ordered to go to treatment). My father was also an alcoholic. The amount he used to drink every single day would put a normal person into a coma. He had to hit bottom and get court ordered to go to treatment. He’s now been sober for the past 14 years. I hope you can get your mom to see that nobody can “fix” your dad and that kind of pressure on you is a form of child abuse. Good luck
    24 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it logical for my mom to treat my older brothers better than me?

    I am the only daughter and youngest child. My mom keeps blaming me for every small things and makes me do all work. I am 15. My two brothers are university students. One of my brother never does anything despite his age and my mom makes him 'special food' just because he doesnt like normal food and the... show more
    I am the only daughter and youngest child. My mom keeps blaming me for every small things and makes me do all work. I am 15. My two brothers are university students. One of my brother never does anything despite his age and my mom makes him 'special food' just because he doesnt like normal food and the other one is almost same. It is not that i hate doing work but being constantly screamed at my face who is mentally ill is not normal.
    5 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Should I tell my mum that my sister cried?

    My sister was upset and ended up crying in my room I hugged her and rubbed her back while she cried then I made her laugh and we talked about stuff she's happy now but should I tell my mum that she was upset or should I keep it between sisters?
    My sister was upset and ended up crying in my room I hugged her and rubbed her back while she cried then I made her laugh and we talked about stuff she's happy now but should I tell my mum that she was upset or should I keep it between sisters?
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • My daughters father is lying to my daughter....however is it worth it to call him out to her?

    I was a teen mother and the dad of my child left. When his parents found out they sent him to Australia to live with his grandparents to keep him from quitting school. He never contacted her and occasionally sent a birthday card or Christmas gift. Now 16 years later his life is straight and wants to get to know... show more
    I was a teen mother and the dad of my child left. When his parents found out they sent him to Australia to live with his grandparents to keep him from quitting school. He never contacted her and occasionally sent a birthday card or Christmas gift. Now 16 years later his life is straight and wants to get to know her. She tried at first but she says she doesn't want to get to know him. She friended him on Facebook as well as her siblings. So I am trying to encourage her to give him a chance. Her anger stems from seeing the facebook pages of her siblings and how happy they are with their father and as he is way better off then us this upsets her. But I have really tried to work hard to provide for her and she knows that. She is extremely smart. Last night she talked to him on Skype. She basically point blank asked him why he basically abandoned her. His answer was it wasn't his choice. "You mom didn't want to have anything to do with me because I cheated on her" This is a lie. That is not what happened at all. However, she actually started trying and even made plans to talk to him and her siblings this weekend. She hasn't asked me anything about it yet. But I know she will. Do I let her believe that if it helps?
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it bad or weird that my brother is my best friend?

    so i'm 17 y/o a girl and i have a twin brother. me and my brother are polar opposites. like...he's not gay or girly or anything, there'd be no problem if he was but he isn't, and i'm a complete girly girl. but despite that, me and my brother are literally best friends and always have been. u... show more
    so i'm 17 y/o a girl and i have a twin brother. me and my brother are polar opposites. like...he's not gay or girly or anything, there'd be no problem if he was but he isn't, and i'm a complete girly girl. but despite that, me and my brother are literally best friends and always have been. u know how identical and/or same sex twins are usually really really close? me and my brother's relationship is like that even though we're fraternal and different genders. we do fight of course like any siblings, but we like hanging out with each other and we can tell each other almost anything. a lot of the time i don't even need to invite a friend over because i have my brother to hang out with/watch movies with/whatever. sometimes we'll go into each others rooms at night and just talk or hang out and laugh for hours. we share most friends, so if he gets invited to a party or something, then i usually do too, and vice versa. a lot of the time we'll sit together at lunch at school with all of our friends. we go a lot of places together and are probably even going to attend the same college because we can't stand being apart. is this weird or bad???
    16 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should I stop financially supporting my 23 year old son?

    My son isn’t in college and he doesn’t have a job. Despite that I pay his rent, phone bill, cable bill, car insurance, and any other bill you can think of, plus I give him money to have in his pocket so he can buy food, clothes, etc. He came to me and my husband a few days ago asking for cash because he spent all... show more
    My son isn’t in college and he doesn’t have a job. Despite that I pay his rent, phone bill, cable bill, car insurance, and any other bill you can think of, plus I give him money to have in his pocket so he can buy food, clothes, etc. He came to me and my husband a few days ago asking for cash because he spent all the pocket money we gave him. When we refused to give him money he blew up and basically threw a temper tantrum and called me and my husband degregory names. My husband feels that making him pay for his own things will teach him not to be so spoiled and stubborn. I on the other hand feel that it’s better if we continue supporting him because otherwise he won’t know what to do and I don’t want my boy extremely frustrated.
    95 answers · 6 days ago
  • Thinking bout taking my parents car and runaway?

    I’m 15 and I’ve been thinking about running away for a while now and I’m thinking about taking my mom car tonight while my parents are sleeping and runaway I hate my parents they mean and annoying. What will happen if I take her car?
    I’m 15 and I’ve been thinking about running away for a while now and I’m thinking about taking my mom car tonight while my parents are sleeping and runaway I hate my parents they mean and annoying. What will happen if I take her car?
    40 answers · 4 days ago
  • My brother is having an affair. I caught him last weekend. Do I tell his wife?

    Best answer: Don't tell her have a talk with him and tell him how feel and that you want him to be true to her and if he really doesn't care about her he should be the one who tells her and if he doesn't then consider telling her but again warn him first so he can be the one who does it.
    Best answer: Don't tell her have a talk with him and tell him how feel and that you want him to be true to her and if he really doesn't care about her he should be the one who tells her and if he doesn't then consider telling her but again warn him first so he can be the one who does it.
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • What to do about alcoholic/pot head Brother in law?

    Best answer: it sounds like his mother was okay with his actions e.g not doing the dishes right away and having a little drink on a night so my guess is he feels like he has been invaded and doesn't want to change his ways for new comers. and by the way you spoke, your not happy with this style of life so.... as an outsider... show more
    Best answer: it sounds like his mother was okay with his actions e.g not doing the dishes right away and having a little drink on a night so my guess is he feels like he has been invaded and doesn't want to change his ways for new comers. and by the way you spoke, your not happy with this style of life so.... as an outsider looking at this situation I would say the weed and drink wouldn't be so much of a problem if he cleaned his mess up behind him. if that's the case then tell him because you wont win this argument you will only come to an agreement and I cant really see any other agreement to come too
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • How can I show my daughter I've changed?

    I have an ex who I have a daughter with and I have a wife who I have three children with. My wife doesn't know about my daughter but something happened with my ex she got arrested and I had to take my daughter in. However my wife thinks she's my niece. I haven't told my wife because I'm ashamed of... show more
    I have an ex who I have a daughter with and I have a wife who I have three children with. My wife doesn't know about my daughter but something happened with my ex she got arrested and I had to take my daughter in. However my wife thinks she's my niece. I haven't told my wife because I'm ashamed of who I was when I was with my ex I was an abusive drunk. My ex is a sex worker but she is a good woman and loves our daughter. Okay some quick back story I grew up in a trailer park my ex and I go way back and I joined the military at a young age I got out and that's when my drinking started. Things got so bad that I got kicked out and ended up homeless. My wife found me on the streets and helped me and I was so ashamed of who I had been I never told her about my ex or my daughter. My daughter is angry with me and I'm going to be honest she's very messed up in the head. I just don't know what to do I feel if I tell my wife the truth she'll hate me she knows I was in the military and she knows I'm a alcoholic but she doesn't knows I abused my ex and my daughter and she doesn't even know about them. My daughter she's angry with me and I don't know how to get through to her I let her do whatever she wants within reason and that's because I don't know how to parent her. There is no easy way to say this she tries provoking me and I don't know why I just get angry and she gets frightened. I don't know how to make her see I've changed.
    8 answers · 9 hours ago
  • How do I tell my family I've been sleeping with my first cousin for years?

    Best answer: The two things I would say is that given that no birth control is 100% effective and you had been doing this for years, college funds, telling family, etc would seem to be topics that would have come up. The other is that how long you have been sleeping with your first cousin (fc) is irrelevant, if you didn't... show more
    Best answer: The two things I would say is that given that no birth control is 100% effective and you had been doing this for years, college funds, telling family, etc would seem to be topics that would have come up.

    The other is that how long you have been sleeping with your first cousin (fc) is irrelevant, if you didn't tell them before, no reason to know. What you have to tell them (if you want) is that you are the father (unless she wants to say that the father is somebody else who took off). Like pretty much any relationship you haven't told somebody about, once you have said that you are in a relationship with them the only other thing to say is why you are in a relationship with them. Of course that assumes she is generous or compassionate. If you are having sex with her because she has big breasts or is kinky, you might want to skip the reasons. However i urge you to find them because it seems you want to remain on speaking terms with your family and that would be easier if they believed a genuine interest that you guys couldn't control developed and not that in your whole town neither of you could find somebody outside the family to sleep with.
    13 answers · 2 days ago