• Is it sad to be 22 living at home?

    18 answers · 1 hour ago
  • Want to kiss my neice ? (3 year gap)?

    I’m 15 (guy) shes 12 and i’m not “attracted” to her, but i just have a desire to kiss her. years ago when we were younger (i was no older than 10) we kissed about a dozen times while playing hide and seek with other cousins/neices/nephews. since weve kissed when we were younger, is it ok for us to kiss now ?
    I’m 15 (guy) shes 12 and i’m not “attracted” to her, but i just have a desire to kiss her. years ago when we were younger (i was no older than 10) we kissed about a dozen times while playing hide and seek with other cousins/neices/nephews. since weve kissed when we were younger, is it ok for us to kiss now ?
    8 answers · 21 hours ago
  • I'm 30 years old and my mother still thinks she can give me orders?

    Questioning my life choices. Asking me why I'm not married every single time. I don't wanna offend her. She raised me. I owe her a huge debt, More than I can ever pay, but it doesn't mean she can order me around, does it? And why can't she accept that I'm an adult?
    Questioning my life choices. Asking me why I'm not married every single time. I don't wanna offend her. She raised me. I owe her a huge debt, More than I can ever pay, but it doesn't mean she can order me around, does it? And why can't she accept that I'm an adult?
    21 answers · 2 days ago
  • Ex wants custody of our daughter?

    My ex is requesting full custody of our daughter who he has only met once (when she was 2 months old.) When I offer to arrange visits for him to spend time with her, he refuses. He has no relationship with our now 8 month old daughter. He wants full custody so he can have our daughter without me in the picture, so... show more
    My ex is requesting full custody of our daughter who he has only met once (when she was 2 months old.) When I offer to arrange visits for him to spend time with her, he refuses. He has no relationship with our now 8 month old daughter. He wants full custody so he can have our daughter without me in the picture, so his girlfriend doesn’t get mad. On top of that, he had denied paternity of her three seperate times to stall the child support process. He has never sent our daughter anything. He doesn’t ask about her. We also live in different states now, as he abandoned me and my daughter while I was 5 months pregnant with her. Can someone like this gain full custody? I am baffled.
    11 answers · 5 hours ago
  • My fiance disrespects my family, what should I do?

    She's saying that they manipulate us and that they're as bad as her parents (who are pretty bad) but that's not the case... My parents are very calm, loving people who have shown her love when her parents didn't... When her Parents realised what they were doing they changed their attitude towards... show more
    She's saying that they manipulate us and that they're as bad as her parents (who are pretty bad) but that's not the case... My parents are very calm, loving people who have shown her love when her parents didn't... When her Parents realised what they were doing they changed their attitude towards her so now she hates my parents. I tell her it bothers me and she'll say that she doesn't mean to disrespect them but it'd different from her point of view... My mother cries on a daily basis because of the way she treats them... I love my fiance but I don't like her treatment of my parents... I've even thought of calling off the wedding because I'm sick of it... What should I do?
    12 answers · 20 hours ago
  • How do you tell your biological dad that you don t want him to walk you down the aisle, but instead you want your step-dad to walk you down?

    Note: My dad cheated on my mother and they divorced when I was about 4. He moved back to Texas from Iowa (where I was raised by my mother) after the divorce. We saw him maybe 2 days over the summers when we would go visit his side of the family for 2 week stays as kids all through high school. As adults we are... show more
    Note: My dad cheated on my mother and they divorced when I was about 4. He moved back to Texas from Iowa (where I was raised by my mother) after the divorce. We saw him maybe 2 days over the summers when we would go visit his side of the family for 2 week stays as kids all through high school. As adults we are friendly and I have nothing against him, but my step-dad has been a huge part of my life since he came in the picture over 17 years ago. My step dad goes above and beyond for me every single day, which is why I want him to walk me down the aisle. I don t hate my biological dad, which is what makes this so hard. I don t want him to hate me for this and not end up coming to the wedding.
    10 answers · 57 mins ago
  • Is your mom or dad older?

    My mom is older than my dad.
    My mom is older than my dad.
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I shower without anybody knowing?

    Ok so here’s the deal I’m staying to my crazy grandparents house for a while and they are insane about they’re bills and I think they just hate me and my family but that’s besides the point i need to shower but they keep catching me and they get mad I tried to go late at night early in the morning evening you name... show more
    Ok so here’s the deal I’m staying to my crazy grandparents house for a while and they are insane about they’re bills and I think they just hate me and my family but that’s besides the point i need to shower but they keep catching me and they get mad I tried to go late at night early in the morning evening you name it and there is always someone home so I can’t just wait until they’re not home and the gym nearby is being renovated and truck stops are too far away please help me out guys this is killing me thanks! And believe me I have no idea what these people are on but there is always one person awake they stay up super late and get up really early I don’t know how or why but I need some advice guys please help (dry shower is not a option)
    32 answers · 5 days ago
  • How do I deal with a troubled child?

    My little sister is only 14 and she is not suitable to be part of society. We come from a low income family with a single mother working 12 hour shifts every day just to pay rent and put food on the table, yet my sister acts so entitled. She throws tantrums over $200 shoes and clothes but can’t even stop peeing... show more
    My little sister is only 14 and she is not suitable to be part of society. We come from a low income family with a single mother working 12 hour shifts every day just to pay rent and put food on the table, yet my sister acts so entitled. She throws tantrums over $200 shoes and clothes but can’t even stop peeing anywhere but the toilet. We’ve had to throw away numerous amounts of furniture because she won’t stop peeing on them, they’re not even accidents anymore. She once peed on a pile of my moms clothes because she wouldn’t buy her 65 dollar sweat pants that she’ll just stain with her monthly cycle. After awhile she’ll blow up and physically assault my mom and I’m always the one having to clean up the mess. I have threatened to call the cops on her many tines but then my abuela will stop me and say it’s just a phase and I’m being over dramatic. There’s so much more that I cant even put into words at the moment but I am currently a junior in high school and I’m even thinking i might have to put off college to stay home and help out my mom. What is the proper way to deal with a child as herself that won’t get me and my other sister taken away from my mom?
    20 answers · 4 days ago
  • Would you be happy being the one that always pays for things?

    I love my girl to death but she claims she has all this credit card debt and can't keep up with my life style of traveling and stuff. I told her I don't expect you to pay for even half but contribute a little. She makes a big deal about 100.00 towards a 2 thousand dollar trip. Every single one of my friends... show more
    I love my girl to death but she claims she has all this credit card debt and can't keep up with my life style of traveling and stuff. I told her I don't expect you to pay for even half but contribute a little. She makes a big deal about 100.00 towards a 2 thousand dollar trip. Every single one of my friends says she is using me. I want to believe that she loves me because she never really asks to go anywhere its all my idea but she don't pay for ****! She has all these designer cloths that she claims was given to her by some beautique store 20 years ago but yet Iv'e been with her way over a year and these cloths look brand new and I've never seen her wear the same thing twice. It really causes trust issues. My mom says she is just living the life buying all these clothes claiming to be broke and I'm paying for everything. Can someone please help me out on this one?
    79 answers · 6 days ago
  • How should I ask my mom to buy a scale?

    So I’d like to know my weight but the only scale we have is broken. I’m thirteen and no I don’t have an eating disorder I just want to know. I’m homeschooled so I can’t say it’s for school. What could I say as an excuse? How should I say it?
    So I’d like to know my weight but the only scale we have is broken. I’m thirteen and no I don’t have an eating disorder I just want to know. I’m homeschooled so I can’t say it’s for school. What could I say as an excuse? How should I say it?
    8 answers · 1 hour ago
  • Can anyone answer this about a will....Lawyers are to expensive...?

    I am at that age I need to write my will, I am not leaving my daughter, step sister, step brother one thing. When my husband passes, everything is left to me, I go, ofcourse everything is left to him...When my daughter finds I passed, she will literally break into my home to strip it of everything she can...how do... show more
    I am at that age I need to write my will, I am not leaving my daughter, step sister, step brother one thing. When my husband passes, everything is left to me, I go, ofcourse everything is left to him...When my daughter finds I passed, she will literally break into my home to strip it of everything she can...how do I stop her from doing this, is the form of a letter telling her to stay away upon my death? Thank You for your help...I know some of you want to know why I have eliminated my daughter, step brother and sister from my will...my step brother and sister are alcoholics, use to take drugs...my daughter smokes way to much pot is also taking other forms of drugs, they take what ever is left over, they will kill themselves...how do I keep them away from my home when I pass..?
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Can I become a successful teen mom if I don't have wealthy parents?

    I found out that less than two percent of teen moms finish college by the time they are thirty, but I bet those are the teens whose parents paid everything for them and raised their child for them. I, unfortunately, am not so lucky. I have to pay for most of everything on my own, including babysitting and have to... show more
    I found out that less than two percent of teen moms finish college by the time they are thirty, but I bet those are the teens whose parents paid everything for them and raised their child for them. I, unfortunately, am not so lucky. I have to pay for most of everything on my own, including babysitting and have to raise my child on my own. I still don t know if I can finish college with a baby.
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • At what age does it stop being OK for your mother to force you to attend social events?

    I m 20 years old, nearly 21 actually, and my mom has an awful habit of nagging me into attending parties/social gatherings. This is probably the #1 cause of strain in our relationship, and it s been going on for years, and I have never been able to make any headway with her in the idea that she needs to stop this.... show more
    I m 20 years old, nearly 21 actually, and my mom has an awful habit of nagging me into attending parties/social gatherings. This is probably the #1 cause of strain in our relationship, and it s been going on for years, and I have never been able to make any headway with her in the idea that she needs to stop this. This time around, it s due to a cousin s birthday party. This same cousin had another birthday party two days ago, which I stayed at for the whole three and a half hours, and I don t see a need to attend another one when I ve already made it clear to my cousin that I love her. To my mom, though, this is simply an indication of how antisocial and depressed I am. (I would like to make it clear that I am neither of those things, just fairly introverted and appreciative of my alone time. ) Her excuse for pushing me to attend is that I still live under her roof and I have to obey her--but this is the same argument we had last summer which caused huge, explosive arguments in which she physically hauled me around (my mom is much taller than me). I can t move out until the end of the summer and even then who knows if the nagging will stop? Someone please help me. I have no idea how I m going to deal with the hell the next four months will be if she does this every time I m not at her approved level of sociable. Is there any way for me to change her mind--to show that as I m an adult now, it s inappropriate and controlling for her to force me to attend social events?
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Calling off the wedding then it's back on, but still fighting?

    I'm gonna try to make this short as possible, stating the generic details. My brother, 26 is marrying this girl, 25 who no one our the family likes, yet there's nothing we can do because he is an adult. *They've been dating 2 years* *My brother's ex girlfriend was her best friend (we loved her... show more
    I'm gonna try to make this short as possible, stating the generic details. My brother, 26 is marrying this girl, 25 who no one our the family likes, yet there's nothing we can do because he is an adult. *They've been dating 2 years* *My brother's ex girlfriend was her best friend (we loved her till distance torn them apart) I, personally never had a conversation with her. She's very unapproachable, standoffish, and never smiles. She called up our mother telling her that she "ruined" her bridal shower because she was helping her load up the car with their gifts. My mom was crying for her future daughter in law yelling at her, yet my mom was the one who apologizes to her. Ugh. She's calls my mom again another day, shortly after at 3AM to come get her son out of her house. I guess they got into a massive fight where they called off the wedding. Two days later, the wedding is back on.. We had a family dinner another night and everyone is having a great time while she is on her phone scrolling through social media. My dad hates that. They fought another time and again where my brother came home all stressed out and wanted to get away for the night. So he hang with the family. I know there's nothing we can do, but help! The wedding is in 10 days, do you think they will get married? You think he will leave her the alter?! I'm so nervous for my brother to be miserable.
    9 answers · 19 hours ago
  • What do I do when I get home from school in an hour if Dad is drunk?

    Mom and my sisters are out of town seeing colleges so it is just me and my Dad and I am really scared cause he is usually drunk and he is mean when drunk. My Mom says I can't tell anyone he drinks or they will judge so I am asking on here where no one knows me. I have a nervous stomach and will be home in 30... show more
    Mom and my sisters are out of town seeing colleges so it is just me and my Dad and I am really scared cause he is usually drunk and he is mean when drunk. My Mom says I can't tell anyone he drinks or they will judge so I am asking on here where no one knows me. I have a nervous stomach and will be home in 30 minutes. He is usually drunk but was okay this morning. Mom works so he stays home all day.
    9 answers · 19 hours ago
  • My uncle is an alcoholic. He is mean to his wife. Should I be nice to her even though my Mom's family doesn't like her?

    Or should I be mean to since my Mom and her family are?
    Or should I be mean to since my Mom and her family are?
    9 answers · 20 hours ago
  • My mom threatened to slice my legs off?

    shes always told me to straighten my legs when sitting because it'll help me grow. well i dont always forget but today i did and in the living room i sat on my knees instead. she stared straight into my eyes and she softly said "should i cut your legs off?" i thought she was joking but she didnt crack... show more
    shes always told me to straighten my legs when sitting because it'll help me grow. well i dont always forget but today i did and in the living room i sat on my knees instead. she stared straight into my eyes and she softly said "should i cut your legs off?" i thought she was joking but she didnt crack a smile, and she had the scary expression on her face. she kept looking at me. it was silent for so long it felt like an eternity. i didnt say anything. she apologized later i know it isnt a big deal, but im just wondering is this just a normal thing for a strict parent to say to their kid? just for discipline purposes
    9 answers · 21 hours ago