• Can my mom get my boyfriend put in jail? I am legal and an adult?

    To sum up the situation: I am 19 and I plan to move in with my boyfriend to Texas due to my abusive household and I told my mother in advance so I wouldn't leave her in the dark. She then tried to tell my siblings that I was leaving because I didn't care about them. She has always been very manipulative and... show more
    To sum up the situation: I am 19 and I plan to move in with my boyfriend to Texas due to my abusive household and I told my mother in advance so I wouldn't leave her in the dark. She then tried to tell my siblings that I was leaving because I didn't care about them. She has always been very manipulative and abusive because she wants me to stay to take care of her 4 other kids despite the father living with her too. She said that if I left that she would cut all contact and that I'm not one of her kids anymore if I disobeyed her. We don't but he told me to contact him when I'm ready to leave. I announced again yesterday that I planned to leave and now she claimed she'd call the police if I leave so that when I get to Texas, he'll be in jail and I'll end up homeless.
    43 answers · 3 days ago
  • I'm 44, and my parents treat me lika a baby?

    im a 44 y.o. female, and my parents are in their 70s, and they still treat me like a baby, and force me to live with them. i have to go to bed at 6pm, and i cant wake up until 8 am. my parents give me a pill so i pee and poop without knowing, and they make me wear diapers and pacifier. they make me sleep in a crib,... show more
    im a 44 y.o. female, and my parents are in their 70s, and they still treat me like a baby, and force me to live with them. i have to go to bed at 6pm, and i cant wake up until 8 am. my parents give me a pill so i pee and poop without knowing, and they make me wear diapers and pacifier. they make me sleep in a crib, and feed me baby food. when we eat, they put me on a high chair and give me a bib. when we go out, i have to be a stroller, and at home, they make me crawl around wearing a diaper and a pacifier, im never allowed to walk they make me stay in my playpen, and buy me baby's toys such as dolls and blocks. they bathe me and change me. at around 3:45 pm each day they feed me baby food, and then bathe me and put me in baby pajamas, read me a bedtime story, and then make me watch some stupid mickey mouse cartoons. i have to say stupid baby words like "gah gah goo goo" or "blankie" all the time, and every sunday we go to church, and even though im 44, they put me in the nursery. my dad recently hired a tutor to come to our house twice a week, and she teaches me how to count and recite the alphabet. this crap has been going on ever since i was 14. they pulled me out of school after i finished 8th grade, and treated me as such ever since. and yes, my parents are asian. i have a 40 year old sister and a 47 year old brother. they were never treated like this, and they have successfully graduated college, got married, and they have their own kids right now.
    16 answers · 19 hours ago
  • When my jerk father died, he put me in his life insurance policy for some reason! Why would he do that??? I hadn't seen his sorry butt in?

    over 30 years! Why would he think I would want life insurance money or anything else from him? He hated me and I hated him! Life insurance is stupid anyway! It's just blood money! Making me your life insurance recipient won't ease your guilty conscience about the horrible way you treated me, Daddy Dearest!... show more
    over 30 years! Why would he think I would want life insurance money or anything else from him? He hated me and I hated him! Life insurance is stupid anyway! It's just blood money! Making me your life insurance recipient won't ease your guilty conscience about the horrible way you treated me, Daddy Dearest! I'm so glad you're dead and in Hell where you belong!!!
    33 answers · 3 days ago
  • My son is 21, extremely lazy (isn't working or going to school, and lives off me and the government). Should he go to jail?

    So, I have a son who is 21 years old who is immature and super lazy. He acts like every single thing he has to do is torture (cleaning dishes, doing laundry, vacuuming, general cleaning and organizing, etc.) He acts like he's out of breath every single task he does! On his free time (which he has way too much... show more
    So, I have a son who is 21 years old who is immature and super lazy. He acts like every single thing he has to do is torture (cleaning dishes, doing laundry, vacuuming, general cleaning and organizing, etc.) He acts like he's out of breath every single task he does! On his free time (which he has way too much of in my opinion), he lays in bed and listens to music and stares at pics on his. This behavior isn't acceptable and I am considering getting tough on him. As much as I love him, I think it's time to use tough love. If he doesn't change this behavior by his 22nd birthday (coming up next month), I will call the police and have him arrested. I don't mind him living with me, but obviously I'm not going to be around to lift him up forever, so he needs to step up and stop acting like everything is so tiring! I don't care if he doesn't like it, feelings do not matter in a case like this! He has three choices: Get a job, attend a school, or go to jail! I talked with my neighbor about this, and she agrees with me. It's time for my son to face tough love.
    40 answers · 4 days ago
  • My parents want me to study/work something I hate.?

    Best answer: You may(or may never) get your parents to support your dreams & goals, but tell them that you are willing to put in the work to accomplish whatever you set out to do, and then take the proper steps to do it. Making money with Youtube & acting is tough, but it isn't impossible. I have a friend who... show more
    Best answer: You may(or may never) get your parents to support your dreams & goals, but tell them that you are willing to put in the work to accomplish whatever you set out to do, and then take the proper steps to do it.

    Making money with Youtube & acting is tough, but it isn't impossible. I have a friend who primarily does Youtube/media design as her main job and she does make money out of it.

    I think that it's a good idea to go after acting, and do Youtubing on the side(because the cash may not be enough to support you financially). Take action in order to get there, and by "there" I mean having this as a job that you enjoy and can make a lot of money with. Sometimes the journey itself is more important than the destination.
    36 answers · 4 days ago
  • My stepmom is being weird??

    Okay so I've always liked my stepmom. She's been pretty cool until after her and my dad got married. I'm a 22 year old female, she's 46. Whenever I go over to my Dad's house, she'll do weird inappropriate things. For example, she'll sometimes come in my room while I'm changing and... show more
    Okay so I've always liked my stepmom. She's been pretty cool until after her and my dad got married. I'm a 22 year old female, she's 46. Whenever I go over to my Dad's house, she'll do weird inappropriate things. For example, she'll sometimes come in my room while I'm changing and pretend it was an accident. Or, she'll always make comments about how adorable and sexy I am and ask if guys are always after me, and then ask me what guys like to do to me in bed. And to make it even worse, sometimes when I'm laying on the couch, she'll sit next to me and make comments about how sexy my a*s is and touch my hair and tell me how adorable I am. I can't tell if either she has a weird sense of humor, or if she's just some creep, but either way it's weird. I don't want to tell my Dad, because he seems happy and I don't want to mess up his marriage. I don't know what to do.
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I approach my 20 year-old daughter that I know she has had sex?

    Best answer: It's really not your business anymore. I would never have talked to my mother about my sex life, and we were close and got along fine.
    Best answer: It's really not your business anymore. I would never have talked to my mother about my sex life, and we were close and got along fine.
    18 answers · 3 days ago
  • I overslept, what do I tell my jerk of a boss?

    I slept like an hour past the time I was suppose to be at work but every time I make a tiny mistake my manager yells at me even if I apologize he still yells. He texted me this morning in all caps saying this is a problem and where was I. I’m a waitress. Idk what I should tell him because I’m tired of being yelled at.
    I slept like an hour past the time I was suppose to be at work but every time I make a tiny mistake my manager yells at me even if I apologize he still yells. He texted me this morning in all caps saying this is a problem and where was I. I’m a waitress. Idk what I should tell him because I’m tired of being yelled at.
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • So I found my dad after 10 years on Facebook and lied to him about being a grandad. Am I a bad person?

    Him and my mum divorced when I was 7 after she caught him cheating, but even before then, he wasn't around that much. He wanted a baby but not the responsibility and put absolutely no effort in. I saw him once a month up until I was 17. He then got married (I wasn't invited to the wedding) and just... show more
    Him and my mum divorced when I was 7 after she caught him cheating, but even before then, he wasn't around that much. He wanted a baby but not the responsibility and put absolutely no effort in. I saw him once a month up until I was 17. He then got married (I wasn't invited to the wedding) and just disappeared from my life. He sold his house without telling me, no new address, nothing. I tried calling and texting but just got ignored and I never saw him again. I recently found him on Facebook (under a different name). He's still married, has another boy now and looks like the doting dad. I was so angry, and sent him a message thanking him for being a sperm donor to his first child because if it wasn't for him, I wouldn't be alive to have a baby of my own who I doted on and it shown what a narcissist he was to do what he did to his own flesh and blood. The truth is, I have no children. I lied. I have a bf but we've never spoke of kids. I said it to make him think he had missed out on something big. He has messaged back asking about his supposed grandchild and said he would like to see him. I told him he had no chance and blocked him. I feel terrible now and know I'm not a good person to have done that.
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why am I so short?

    Best answer: youre still young so you nnight still grow sonne nnore, its just the way god nnade us, not nnuch we can do about it, just be thankful youre not 4ft5 like nne
    Best answer: youre still young so you nnight still grow sonne nnore, its just the way god nnade us, not nnuch we can do about it, just be thankful youre not 4ft5 like nne
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • My husband is moving us to Australia because of he is taking over his family's business but my 14 year old daughter is refusing to go..?

    Best answer: I side with your husband. Life's lessons include not always getting what you want. A fourteen-year-old needs to learn that one ASAP. Asking your parents to raise your child for the next four years is way too much to ask. The family unit matters more than the friends units. Her family will always be her... show more
    Best answer: I side with your husband.

    Life's lessons include not always getting what you want. A fourteen-year-old needs to learn that one ASAP.

    Asking your parents to raise your child for the next four years is way too much to ask.

    The family unit matters more than the friends units. Her family will always be her family, and those friends will be nobody important in an amazingly short time.

    She's still malleable, not yet formed into the adult she will become. The parents shape that, not the grandparents, no matter how lovely they are.

    Depending on the school district and its policies, they may not recognize your parents as legal guardians unless you and your husband surrender parental rights (a BAD idea), and would not be entitled to attend the public school. Where I live, the parents or legal guardians must live in the district. If a child lives with a family that isn't legally the guardian, nope.
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why do I like flirting with random men so much? Does this mean I'm "slütty"?

    I have been this way since I was 13 or 14, and I'm 20 now. I don't know why, but I like flirting with random men a lot. Esp. the older ones. Would you say that this is a psychological disorder? Do you think that this type of a woman is "slütty"? (Sorry, unable to come up with a more decent word)
    I have been this way since I was 13 or 14, and I'm 20 now. I don't know why, but I like flirting with random men a lot. Esp. the older ones. Would you say that this is a psychological disorder? Do you think that this type of a woman is "slütty"? (Sorry, unable to come up with a more decent word)
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • What did my crush mean? I’m worried?

    So I was messaging her and she randomly said “stop texting me” so I said what did I do and she said “I’m not in a good place rn so could you not” what does not in a good place mean
    So I was messaging her and she randomly said “stop texting me” so I said what did I do and she said “I’m not in a good place rn so could you not” what does not in a good place mean
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I apologize to dad and Stepmom for my actions? A especially My stepmom I put her through a lot of stess?

    Last month I got annoyed with my stepmom. she was on my back about withdrawing from friends and family. she wouldn't leave me along and she wouldn't get out of room. so I locked myself in the bathroom and told her that I was going to kill myself she called 911 and my dad. she also went through my iphone... show more
    Last month I got annoyed with my stepmom. she was on my back about withdrawing from friends and family. she wouldn't leave me along and she wouldn't get out of room. so I locked myself in the bathroom and told her that I was going to kill myself she called 911 and my dad. she also went through my iphone and found some notes that I wrote about feeling despressed. I am very grateful for my stepmom. I had to go a mental hospital for while and now I go to a counselor. how do I apologize to my stepmom for what I put her through that day. My dad and stepmom came to see me when I was in the hospital.my mom didn't come to see me she is ashamed of me. I am grateful that my dad and Stepmom love me
    15 answers · 4 days ago
  • If my brother hits me and my mom what can I do?

    I'm a 14 year old male, and I live in a household full of abuse because of my brother. Hes in his late 20's and abuses my mom almost weekly verbally, mentally and physically. he kicks her, punches her, smacks her, and he does the same thing to me but less abusive, he smacks me and yells at me but nothing... show more
    I'm a 14 year old male, and I live in a household full of abuse because of my brother. Hes in his late 20's and abuses my mom almost weekly verbally, mentally and physically. he kicks her, punches her, smacks her, and he does the same thing to me but less abusive, he smacks me and yells at me but nothing else. What can I do if he ever touches my mom or me ever again? can I pull a knife on him while I call the police? Will it be self defense if he is stabbed?
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • I wanna go to my bfs house after school his parents won’t be home and they don’t mind but my mom won’t let me how do I convince her?

    Best answer: Pull the old "I'm going to another friend's place to stay " trick. Make sure the other friend is in with the scandle and better yet they live fairly close to your bf.
    Best answer: Pull the old "I'm going to another friend's place to stay " trick. Make sure the other friend is in with the scandle and better yet they live fairly close to your bf.
    8 answers · 1 day ago