As far as the cigarettes, Im pretty sure it was too soon to effect the baby at this point, or had minamal effects, just don't pick up another one! You'd be surprised how many women continue to smoke a pack a day there whole pregnancy. while pregnant puts both mother's and baby's life at risk.
Currently, about 13 percent of pregnant women in the U.S. smoke during pregnancy. If all pregnant women stopped smoking while pregnant, there would be an estimated 10 percent reduction in infant deaths in this country, according to the U.S. Public Health Service. Smoking while pregnant should be a cause for concern. Cigarette smoke contains more than 2,500 chemicals, with nicotine, tar, and carbon monoxide thought to be the most dangerous to the fetus. )
Im almost positive your okay with still have taken the Plan B morning after pill. What the pill does it thicken the cervical mucus so that the sperm cannot reach the egg, but obviously they met, so no damage can be done.
As far as an abortion, thats your decision. It's a subject thats so controversial, Don't let other people try and dictate what you should do. I don't like to talk about it, but I was in the same exact situation as you about 4 mos ago, just after graduating as well. I was also living in an apartment with my boyfriend of 1 1/2 yrs. It was completely unexpected. I too had planned on starting school this fall, and knew if I had my baby, I would never go back to school. Because eventhough I'am young, and not ready to be a parent, I would be the BEST parent I could be. I grew up in an amazing loving family, no smokers/drinking/drug-use/fighting/money issues. I was taught that many innocent children are brought into this world by irresponsible people. Although not all of them are irresponsible. Anyway, I had alot to think about. I had to ask myself; "Can I give this child the life it deserves?" No, I can't. I made the decision to have an abortion, and although it was extremely hard, it was the right decision. I'am now a pre-med student, and living like a normal 19 year old. Im doing everything I can to prevent that from happening again, because it's by no means easy. And when im READY, I cannot wait to be married, and eventually be a mom someday!!
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