Are you seriously asking this? What in heaven's name would posses you to be so careless around your child like this? It doesn't matter if you never leave your daughter alone with them or not. Bringing different men to your house creates instability for your daughter to see strangers coming into her temple. Think of your house as your temple, a sanctuary where your child feels safe and is comfortable expressing herself. There is truth to the saying some is where the heart is..By you bringing men into her space, then your house is no longer a stable environment for her emotionally, which is why she is distant when they come. Wake up mom, that's her way of telling you they are not wanted in her space but she feels powerless to verbally express that to you so she behaves by being distant and crying. She now has to deal with strangers coming in and crossing her boundaries and on top of that has to fight for your attention? Children need stability, they need physical stability and emotional stability..you are taking her stability away when you bring men into her home. She doesn't have the ability to tell you, please for the sake of your daughter get a babysitter and tell her mommy is going to watch a movie and go to their house not yours where your child is. As a grown woman you should date but leave your love life and your children separate.