Im sorry to agree with someone else on here, but hes just using you. you have seen egypt for just 2 weeks, can you imagine living there? egypt is a poor country, this man is very poor as hes just a waiter, waiters, and most other low paid tourism jobs all try to get the forgien girls.. most for sex, money and visas..
They say anything to charm the girl, they dont care how old they are, what size they are, how ugly they are, as long as you are not from egypt and are from a rich country then they wil try everything to get you eating out of their palm.
Most egyptians who dont speak much english, use the word love, meaning like, they dont no love is much higher than the word like.
You 19, and from france with a little knowledge of egypt and the arabic language. Penpals is fine, just dont get too attached or be fooled to marrying him.
Getting a visa for a husband abraod is not as easy as many egyptians think, the job market tofay is very hard, and you would have to work for 6 months showing you have enough money to support your hubby and accomodation. Can you honestly do that at 19, not to mention you both CANT communicate with each other, so how is it likely hes going to get a good job to help support you lives, kids etc??
And if you thinking you move to egypt to live with him there, well, you will be running back belive me. Hes a waiter, probably lives in a very poor low social area of egypt with his entire family lviing in a small flat.
On his salary, he WONT afford a flat for you both, and I doube you will be able to work in egypt either unless you work in a school, and even then it wont be paid so much.
Hes had many many girls before you, and hes written the same letters lots of times. Dont be fooled like Ive seen so many here in egypt.
Im not saying this because Im against egyptians, or foreigners marrying, because I myself am british and married to an egyptian. I know egypt as Im living here.
just be careful.
A british muslim, married to an egyptian, living in saudi arabia aswell as egypt.
· 1 decade ago