Can you get herpes from????????????

It's common for people to have multiple partners and not all of them use condoms. How hard is it to get infected with Herpes? Can you get if from kissing? Can a guy get it if a girl sits on his stomach and rubs her infected area on his stomach? How can you tell if a person has it? Can you still get it if you... show more It's common for people to have multiple partners and not all of them use condoms. How hard is it to get infected with Herpes? Can you get if from kissing? Can a guy get it if a girl sits on his stomach and rubs her infected area on his stomach? How can you tell if a person has it? Can you still get it if you use condoms? I have heard that you can't tell if someone has it and you are still not safe with condoms. So how can you prevent catching herpes unless you refrain from sex altogether. Please don't say ask your partner as I have heard that sometimes they don't know that they have it and can infect someone without knowing.
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