I just remembered this verse from the Quran. I hope it helps in some way.
14:22. And Shaitan (Satan) will say when the matter has been decided: "Verily, Allah promised you a promise of truth. And I too promised you, but I betrayed you. I had no authority over you except that I called you, so you responded to me. So blame me not, but blame yourselves. I cannot help you, nor can you help me.......Verily, there is a painful torment for the Zalimun."
And all the people threatening you with hell, come on..that's really not the way to get someone to remain a muslim and besides what the hell makes you all so sure you're not gonna be in hell yourself. The point is only Allah knows where we will end up in the end.