Ah the unknown. It's such an amazing thing.
Ok, here's an out side view of it all. This person obviously cares about you, if they came to see you, and you've made it obvious how much you care about them. So now your mind is racing with 100 thoughts all at once. The "What ifs!" Well, here's some questions you need to ask yourself... Even if they were into the kiss, are they still leaving for good? Could you handle a long distance relationship? Are you ready to be that attached to someone who's just leaving? Or, what if they're not into it. And it ruins a perfectly healthy friendship. And it's awkward... And they keep even more of a distance then they already have. Then you start feeling rejected. A lot of people don't do things, and they don't take risks because they're scared of the out come. I say balls to the walls. If you think the risk is worth it, go for it. So many people settle because of the "questions" and the "unknown" that floats around in their head. Honestly deep down I think you know if they would be into it or not. Or you wouldn't be questioning things in the first place. Just be careful, and go with your heart, your gut, but don't forget your head either.
Sometimes taking a straight forward, yet light hearted fun approach to things help. that way it's not so serious and awkward. GOOD LUCK!
***You're welcome!! I just want you to think everything through before you do it. There's nothing wrong with thinking and looking into something that could seriously change your life (or someone you care about). I hope it turns out good for you whatever you decide. You sound like a really good person who actually cares. =)
· 8 years ago