First off. Discount the whole, "you're generalizing all women aren't the same," argument because that's not true. And throw Pat Wooden's response out the window because that is a sneaky diversion to make the victim seem as the evildoer. Neither one of those comments are designed to answer a question but to insult you and ignore the dilemma that has now become historically bad. i mean totally unacceptable.
it's gotten so bad that i just avoid these women. I don't like how they behave at all. The constant lying and cheating and using is usually concealed by the fact that they know you will apologize if you aren't certain. And because you aren't aware(they like it when you are confused btw. they always counter a question with a question instead of an answer) it's easier for them to attack your decency and get something out of you such as an apology or a "gift" some kind of financial compensation. all of these are tricks to get you to do for them not because they deserved it but because you think you did something wrong. That results in a very ugly human being... Basically a no good low down user.. They are quite nefarious when you really look at them.
My friend used to say, if she wasn't attractive would you tolerate her? The answer is NO. But as you get older you will find that their lack of decency really becomes problematic to live with and tolerate. They were simply never taught manners. They think being appreciative is to be a "slave" when it's really just about being respectful. But to them respect is being "subservient". See, they twisted the words and meanings so that being decent is a negative.
if you say women are mean. You get hit with... "all women aren't the same. you are generalizing." if she hates men, "give her some respect she was probably abused," If she claims she was raped, "don't question the validity, be a man and kill the perpetrator." on and on and on. The lies never stop and the manipulation is on 24/7 all of it to make her the victim and you the puppet to serve protect take **** and provide. Your problems are irrelevant and if you have a problem than you are just a whiner. That's basically what they are saying... No compassion nor decency whatsoever. Just spin shamming and insults... Resulting in the most hideous human being imaginable... Ironic isn't it?
That's what men are dealing with in america. And that is why any and all relationships you have with these women will eventually fail. Because they are basically sabotaging the relationships because they have a lot of choices. And they can't stop. They are incapable of just being normal. When I look at myself in the mirror, I don’t see a man who has improved himself over the years to be the best that his genes allow—I see a glittery skirt that a girl encounters in the mall. Is the skirt too expensive or is it on sale? Is there only one left of her size or is the rack full of them? Does she already have something similar or is it totally novel? Does her friends think it’s cute or just alright? After trying it on, does it flatter her body or make her look fat? Either she makes the impulsive decision to buy the skirt or not, because odds are she won’t come back for it. There are so many stores with so many skirts that she will soon forget it, forever. We are like glittery pieces of fashion to women—items that she truly doesn’t need. Not only has she already collected so many of them, but she can easily obtain more within walking distance from where she lives. She can even browse online from home while in her pajamas through a nearly unlimited selection.
Bottom line: They see you as a product. Not a human being. That's the problem. And any woman who defends bad behavior by insulting you needs to be ignored. Don't fall for bad behavior. Leave it.