Suede seat is causing too much friction on my lady parts?

I bought a brand new roughout saddle. I've rode in it 3 times so far and it's been chaffing my lady parts! I bought seamless underwear and used them the last time I rode, but I'm still hurting! I have to wait a couple days before each ride to "rest" down there. It chaffes so much it burns when... show more I bought a brand new roughout saddle. I've rode in it 3 times so far and it's been chaffing my lady parts! I bought seamless underwear and used them the last time I rode, but I'm still hurting! I have to wait a couple days before each ride to "rest" down there. It chaffes so much it burns when I pee after! I can't ship it back because the exchange policy says they do not accept returns on used saddles. It's a bummer because it fits my horse great. What can I do?? Is there any way to make the suede seat more slick so I don't get as much friction?
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