ask to go to a clean artist who isnt a rapper like r&b/hip hop like rihanna. dont listen to people.African americans do have culture.its different for blacks around the world even africa. Africans who came here werent allowed to practice their culture,language,or even keep their names so created their own. Others dont realize how that can affect that group even decades later. they get how russians and italians can be white and havr different cultures but not black groups.that includes literature,pop cult,music,dance,venaculer,fashion etc. Try making black friends, join clubs,see if your school has a black student union or group,also try to get into activities like hip hop dancing or any extra curricular that alot of black kids are in. This is the problem with interracial adopting. They need to realize you can love them and still want to know about your own heritage. mixed kids also face this problem and feel like they must choose.things will be ok once youre 18. write a letter to them!