Not at all! Most people love the social life while some love being alone. Half of my family are social animals while the other half which is my dads side love their alone time. My dads side are the super smart nerds with masters degrees in engineering who grew up not getting out much and look at them today. My moms side of the family is mostly the druggie, alcoholics, social animal, go out and party type of people who are lazy bums mostly. Social people lie a lot more too. Because I hate liars. I myself grew up loving my alone time since I was the smartest kid in school for 4 years straight. I used my time to study hard and loved reading, learning new things etc. My mom cared more about money though than me up until I was 24. She cheated on my dad when I was 5, left my dad when I was 6 and they divorced when I was 8. She took me away from my dad to marry the guy she cheated on my dad with which put me into depression. Then the night I met my step dad, he started physically abusing me for several years. He would abuse me for being the smartest kid in school and sometime for no reason. My mom caught him cheating on her 5 years later and divorced him to marry a guy no different than him. My second step dad verbally and emotionally abused me for having seizures. I started having Epilepsy at the age of 10 but we don't know why. But my thought is because of my first step dad forcing me to play baseball and football for 5 years as a kid instead of learn. I never have learned 1 thing from my mom or step dads so I had to learn everything myself since I only got to see my dad for 2 days several times a year. To my step dads it was all about what they wanted me to be instead of what I wanted to be. It's my life not theirs but I couldn't stop it no matter how hard I tried and my mom didn't care. Just be yourself. Follow your heart! Go talk to your parents about it. You may get nervous to talk to them but face the fear if you have it. Chances are they will forget about it anyway within a day or 2.