Are you serious? What's wrong with focusing on yourself, your life and career? If anything, it's very admirable.
If you feel like you lack "experience" take it slow. Start making jokes at the cashier in the store. Get comfortable talking to women, even at your university. Just try man, nothing to lose. Try speed dating, all people there are the same age range and are looking for someone. After that, if you still haven't found the one, you could actually try going out and just talking with someone, about whatever.
Trust me when I say this, it isn't that hard! Women are just human like you. You just have to find a way to make that feeling disappear. Step over your boundaries, put yourself out there, you'll be just fine :)