Who are you to judge God? What can you possibly do about it? Your solution is to choose not "worship" Him? All the things you mentioned are simply about living life and the choices and decisions of people, not God. You hold God responsible, but we are all responsible for our own choices and decisions. God, because of His love for us all, will hold each of us accountable. God is not demanding worship... He wants us to love Him and other people. That is the purpose of our life, the reason we were created. Our free will allows for us to choose either good or evil in all our relationships and it is required so that we can love. Love must be given, of our own free will. If it is demanded, as you have reasoned, it would only be obedience. We are all free to believe and do whatever we choose or desire. Just remember there is only one judge, who knows our minds and the intent of our hearts. He alone will and is capable of rewarding those who do good and punishing those who do evil.