It *is* wrong for a guy to call a girl an "ugly sl#t"?
Then, when I was 15, I was sitting in the library studying, and he came to sit in front of me. He started talking with me, then after five minutes, he got angry and demanded I speak to him, and that it is rude to ignore someone.
There was another guy I was friends with, and this boy bought up the subject. He said that my guy friend talked behind my back that I was an "ugly sl#t".
I was immediately shocked and felt a lump in my throat, like I had been thudded with something hard.
Then the guy, sitting across from me, started saying: "No, you... you are sooooo ugly"
I packed up my work, told him to "get a life" and spent the rest of the next half hour wandering around the front yards of the school in a surreal trance.
Now it *is* wrong for a guy to call a girl an "ugly sl#t"? Especially since I did or said nothing to him to provoke that, and I was a virgin in high school who didn't even have my first kiss till age 21, years after that.
There are times when I don't look at my reflection because sometimes I'm not happy. It doesn't help that I have an isolated life and receive no visitors from relatives, so I feel unloved enough without some kid telling me I'm an "ugly whore".