As someone older, I'd like to share some tidbits I've learned about people and life that could've saved me time and heartbreak:
- People are as is
Meaning: He has shown you that his priorities do not lie in having zero debt.
-Know what you want & recognize when someone does not fit
Meaning: You want to take 12 months off for baby. The man you are dating, drinks, gambles aka plays while he has debt instead of busting his rump to build a future for himself and future family. These things he has shown you, tell you that he is not going to be able to provide these things.
-Staying with someone you love who isn't good for you emotionally, spirtually, financially will only prolongue misery and delay your blessings
Love does not pay bills. U cant tell the bank, but I love my husband when he can't pay the mortgage. The type of man you want is a strong provider and he's out there. U can't meet him while your committed to a non-provider.