Can you help me understand this? Answer 1 and I'll answer 1 for you!?

Me and this girl predated for 5 months (she said she didn't want to date over the holidays b/c of how her last bf treated her over the holidays the year before). Some friend drama happened in our group and she ended up breaking up. When she broke up, she said she thought I liked her more than she liked me. Days later she said she was embarrassed by what she said because she said she did like me "A LOT". Days later I told her how I felt and she said she didn't feel the same way she did in November. A few weeks ago (a month had passed) I told her I still liked and cared for her and asked how she felt. Her first words were "I don't know" and that she loves talking to me, spending time with me, likes me a lot, respects me, but that she needs to figure out who she is and that she doesn’t know if she can date anyone right now and that it probably doesn't make sense that it doesn't make sense to her mom or friend. She also has kept a snapchat streak of 40 days now with me and was upset when I broke it after we broke up. We recently went on a mission trip together and friends thought we were still together with how we talked, acted, and stayed around each other. What do you think?

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  • 1 year ago
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    When a Girl I LIKE gets "iffy" with me (she does know who she is or what she wants, she confused), I SAY:

    "Okay. I'll give some space. There are some OTHER GIRLS, I think want to date me. If I don't get into a relations with them or make one PREGNANT, I'll check with you in a month."

    If she thought she was going to control me... she just found out

    different. Most people figure out what they want RIGHT AWAY.

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