I’m 41 and in my extensive experience, I’ve never had a complaint. I’ve got trimmed pubes, neatly curated into a medium sized patch that’s quite tidy. This is PURELY for MY own aesthetic and convenience; I mostly trim when I have a period as it’s easier to keep clean and feeling fresh when I don’t have to deal with blood matted hair, obvs. And let’s not be squeamish here, women, it’s a thing, right?!
My take is that you should do whatever you want to with your pubic hair. It’s yours after all. You own it. Make yourself happy with its look and feel. No dude or babe I’ve ever been with have ever made any real observations of comments because when you’re both naked and someone’s gonna get their dick/fingers/tongue/dildo/etc inside you - WHO THE **** ARE THEY TO CRITICISE?!!! They **** their chances of a shag. We are all naked underneath and I passed up waaaay too many shags in my youth as I was concerned that the partners might be turned off by the odd stubbly bit! DUH!