Choosing the right partner?
The problem now is that all I do is think about this other man. I am happy with my husband but do feel like I’m settling, or at least would be happier with this other man. I feel it in my heart that I love this other man more. Our intimacy is nothing like it was with this other guy and I think about him even while I’m with my husband.
The reason I didn’t leave before is because I’ve been with my husband for 10 years (married 8 months) and we have a house and a dog (no children). Our families and friends are all intertwined. I don’t want to upset everyone around me and feel like I have to start fresh. The problem is I know I love this other man more and I don’t know if I live the rest of my life with my husband or end it and move on. I’m 25 years old. I am talking with this other guy again behind my husbands back and have such strong feelings.