Teenage daughter and boys?

I always swore I wouldn't be an overbearing parent like my mom was toward me, especially since my daughter is 17 now, but how do I get past knowing that my little girl is probably doing all of the things I did at that age? She definitely dresses in a way that will get her a lot of attention from guys (very... show more I always swore I wouldn't be an overbearing parent like my mom was toward me, especially since my daughter is 17 now, but how do I get past knowing that my little girl is probably doing all of the things I did at that age? She definitely dresses in a way that will get her a lot of attention from guys (very tight jeans that emphasize her butt, tall heels, etc) and I caught her giving her boyfriend oral sex a few months back, so we talked about the risks of sex and using condoms but it still bothers me. I feel like a hypocrite because I did all this and a lot more way before her age. Is this just part of parenting?
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