Maybe by talking about ALL the time, it is making her feel depressed, or she
doesn't like talking about it that much. She can't relate to it. If you continue
to force it, she may break up with you. Try to be more positive, and instead
of focusing on yourself, try to focus on her. Ask her if she's experiencing
any problems. Do everything you can to help her to have a nice day.
Try to be pleasant to her and around her.
Then after you give her a chance to speak, then you can take your turn.
I think you will feel better if you get your mind off of yourself.
Go to the zoo. Watch the animals. Go to the bookstore and find
a good book. Find another activity that doesn't involve analyzing
and dissecting every feeling you have.
People actually enjoy talking more than they do listening.
Listening is a more difficult skill. So let her do some of the
talking and try to listen to her.