Anonymous
Anonymous asked in TravelTravel (General)Other - Destinations · 7 months ago

Am I justified in not wanting to go on vacation with my family?

I have a severe anxiety problem related to urination and defecation, and upon describing my problem on another forum, I was told that I cannot solve it on my own and that I definitely need to talk to professional because it's impairing my life so.

So, am I justified in not wanting to go on this vacation?

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  • 7 months ago
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    Go to your doctor. Go to therapy to help with your anxiety. Nothing to be ashamed about. I think your parents would understand. Whats the point of going if you're not going to have fun? Waste of time and money. Get your probs fixed then go on vacay.

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  • Kelly
    Lv 7
    6 months ago

    No, you're not.

    You're letting whatever issue you've got going on here dictate what you do in life. Running from it does not treat it. You need to see a medical professional.

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    7 months ago

    You definitely do need professional help. But whether to go on this vacation depends on why kind it is. I could see camping and being expected to do your business in the woods being problematic. But if you're staying in a hotel that presumably has a private bathroom I don't really see the problem.

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  • 7 months ago

    No one should be diagnosing you on here. There's a difference between a phobia and a neurosis. A neurosis is a fear of something that can be overcome by facing that fear and experiencing what frightens you. A phobia is much more serious, and needs professional help to get over. Only a psychologist/psychiatrist can tell which you have.

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  • 7 months ago

    Go to your doctor first.

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  • 7 months ago

    Going on vacations is a stupid waste of time and money! I work 7 days a week and I never take vacations. Life is all about working and having fun. We were not meant to sit on a beach in Monte Carlo getting sun burns and skin cancer (melanoma)!

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  • 💜
    Lv 6
    7 months ago

    Just put a pamper on and suck it up

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