I have to say it's happened in several different ways and different stages of my life. As a teen I had a puppy love and a love I didn't understand. In college I allowed myself to love a guy that hurt me to my core and cheated on me. Happens that he put me on a pedestal and hasn't found another me, because I treated him like my forever. Following that was a rebound turned married turned divorce three kids later, whom took advantage of my heart and willingness to love entirely. Cheating is the way to lose me, other than a few other reasons, but that was his reason and his cruel behaviors. The current one, I've learned was that love I didn't quite get as a teen and rekindled it. Sometimes love isn't enough to make it happen the way you want it. I've learned that if you found love you're lucky. If you're able to have love for the rest of your life you're blessed. Don't fake love, don't take advantage of someone that loves you and be thankful when someone opens their heart to you in it's entirety.