As a girl, should I be driving an hour for a first date?
I live in the suburbs. I live an hour away from a major city. This guy I’m talking to (who lives in the city) wants me to come to the city for the first date? What is your take? Should I drive to the city? Should he be coming to see me for the first date? Or should we meet halfway?
- 1 year ago
I don't see why the "as a girl" part mattered
- ReneeGadeLv 61 year ago
I think you should meet somewhere safe, like a McDonald's halfway there. That way, if you want to leave you can, instead of being knocked in the head and your body never found.
- 1 year ago
For me half way is the fairest. If he's right for you this won't be a problem. Also definitely somewhere public if you're meeting for the first time.
- GoodLv 61 year ago
Someone has to make the first move, right? Why can't it
be you? Welcome to the new millennium, equality, and
all the stuff that comes with it. Isn't this exactly what women
have been saying they want?
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- atomic fireballLv 61 year ago
If it feels wrong to you then you shouldn’t do it. Because if you were already starting out with the feeling that this guy is not the type of person who sees things the same way you do, maybe you should pay attention to that. Compatibility is important.The more levels you can find compatibility with another person on the better off you are. That’s been my experience through a lot of pain
- AbuelitoLv 41 year ago
Absolutely not! Either you meet half way or he should come to see you. Have you even met this guy? From what you wrote it sounds as though have just been communication w/o seeing him in person. If that is the case then you meet him half way in a very public location. I am a father so I might be more on the cautious side. It seems rude for him to ask you to drive an hour- actually 2 hours for a first date. Half way in a safe public location or nothing!
- 1 year ago
Meet halfway is fair
- keerokLv 71 year ago
If he wants to bring you out on a date, he should come and fetch you and bring you back home.
- kristyLv 71 year ago
Depends on how bad you want to maybe hookup with him
- Anonymous1 year ago
I think the problem is he may have no way to come to you. If he does have a car then don't bother pursuing anything with him. He obviously will be a selfish guy that will always expect you to put far more effort into the relationship than he is willing to. I think to ask a girl on a first date to travel an hour ( 60 miles) from her home is unreasonable. Plus if you drink at all it gives him the opportunity to pressure you to spend the night. Don't do it, in my opinion.